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Modern Husbands
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Financial & domestic labor teamwork tips for couples.

Account managed by our founder, Brian Page. (M.Ed., AFC®, Fair Play Facilitator®, ​CPFFE®)

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My name is Brian Page. I am the founder of Modern Husbands. Details are in profile.

We will be laser-focused on sharing ideas on managing money and the home as a team to fellow busy dual-career couples.

We are excited to help build a positive community of like-minded folks on @bsky.app. Join us!
Modern Husbands Newsletter, by @ModernHusbands
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Modern Husbands Newsletter
Money, Careers, and the Hidden Work That Shapes Your Marriage
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November 28, 2025 at 3:57 PM
It’s time to start shopping for Thanksgiving! Here’s my latest —

My 2025 Thanksgiving Menu: The Best Recipes for Turkey, Sides, and Leftovers www.modernhusbands.com/post/my-2025...
My 2025 Thanksgiving Menu: The Best Recipes for Turkey, Sides, and Leftovers
Thanksgiving is right around the corner, and this year I’m sharing exactly what I’m cooking, what I’m skipping, and the recipes I swear by for the big day. The only exception is that I can’t share my ...
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November 23, 2025 at 4:07 PM
November 11, 2025 at 1:46 PM
When Americans get sick, they shouldn’t have to fear financial ruin. But under Trump, the safety nets that once protected families from medical debt and skyrocketing insurance costs are being dismantled. www.modernhusbands.com/post/how-the...
How the Trump Administration Is Using Health Care to Bankrupt Everyday Americans
When Americans get sick, they shouldn’t have to fear financial ruin. But under recent Trump administration actions, the safety nets that once protected families from medical debt and skyrocketing insu...
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October 29, 2025 at 3:38 PM
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Don't miss @darbysaxbe.bsky.social speaking in the RCGD seminar series on the transition to fatherhood. The talk will review studies on hormone and brain changes across the transition to parenthood in first-time human fathers. buff.ly/92KtRNS
September 29, 2025 at 1:02 PM
Should You Buy or Lease an Electric Car Before the EV Tax Credit Disappears?

Here’s everything you need to know, including an interactive calculator built out by the NY Times. www.modernhusbands.com/post/should-...
Should You Buy or Lease an Electric Car Before the EV Tax Credit Disappears?
As the year winds down, many families start weighing big-ticket financial decisions. For some, that includes whether to buy or lease a new vehicle. But if you’ve been eyeing an electric car, there’s m...
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September 11, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Couples don’t just argue about how much is being spent… 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘸 money is managed together.

Research of 500+ couples reveals something powerful: the way you and your partner handle money directly impacts your happiness and strength of your relationship.

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5 Money Habits That Strengthen Relationships, According to Research
When couples argue about money, it’s often about how much is being spent or who’s doing the spending. But research reveals something deeper. How couples manage money together plays a major role in the...
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September 4, 2025 at 4:33 PM
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Remember where you are, so you can remember where you were.
August 30, 2025 at 4:02 PM
A podcast summary and episode with Dr. Daminger about the mental load.
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August 26, 2025 at 4:00 PM
You've probably heard it all before—men don't notice messes, men can't multitask, men only do chores when they're told. 

That's garbage.

We're not helpless, clueless, or incapable—we're partners, fathers, and providers.

101 myths about men and chores: www.modernhusbands.com/post/101-my...
🔥 101 Myths About Men and Chores
You've probably heard it all before—men don't notice messes, men can't multitask, men only do chores when they're told. Most of us know that's garbage.We're not helpless, clueless, or incapable—we're partners, fathers, and providers in every sense of the word.Here are 101 myths about men and chores.💼 Cultural and Gender Norms1. Men aren't wired for domestic work.2. Men naturally don't see messes.3. Men can't multitask like women can.4. A man doing chores is emasculating.5. Men who clean are "wh
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August 25, 2025 at 2:10 PM
7 Financial Considerations for Having Children
On average, raising a child over 18 years costs an additional $297,674 (not including college costs)
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7 Financial Considerations for Having Children
On average, raising a child over 18 years costs an additional $297,674 (not including college costs)
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August 24, 2025 at 3:37 PM
For generations, men were expected to be the primary financial providers for their families. That’s the story we were told, and many of us still carry that script deep inside, whether we realize it or not.

But times have changed. #masculinity

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Redefining What It Means to Provide: A Modern Husband’s Guide to True Partnership
For generations, men were expected to be the primary financial providers for their families. That’s the story we were told, and many of us still carry that script deep inside, whether we realize it or not. But times have changed. What it means to be a provider means more today than a paycheck. Modern husbands believe that our careers are vital, but so is showing up in the moments that matter most, at home, in your marriage, and in support of your wife’s dreams, too.And yet, for some men, the ide
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August 18, 2025 at 10:50 AM
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Last week, I talked to a DC-based PhD student who told me she's now afraid to leave her house after dark. Not because of any crime threat, but because of all the federal agents swarming her neighborhood.
More proof Trump is bad for business: restaurant reservations fell by 30 percent during Trump's occupation of Washington DC
August 17, 2025 at 10:20 PM
I attended a YouTube Live yesterday with world happiness expert Dr. Arthur Brooks. Happy people balance these four things daily:

🟢 Faith / Spirituality
🟢 Family
🟢 Friends
🟢 Work (Earning success and serving other people)

Drivers of unhappiness:

🔴 Screens
🔴 Politics

What resonates most with you?
August 12, 2025 at 9:54 PM
It continues to be a “who you know” world. The Census Bureau just shared the following:

“Working for a parent’s employer leads to a 24% increase in earnings at a young worker’s first job compared to those hired without a parental connection.

Link to the Interactive: www.opportunityatlas.org/
August 12, 2025 at 9:01 PM