I think it's notable that all of these examples are easily received by hegemonic white masculinity, they all reify that grouping as being normatively cool and fun.

By contrast indie or extreme metal highlight how "ordinary guys" are actually weirdos and greebos.

I feel like the undying legacy of the Rat Pack (divorced dad rock of an older era) is involved too

What bands count as such

Apps would need to be public property to have that affect perhaps