J. Lynn
@lynn187.bsky.social
Elder millennial 👵🏻 Leftist ⬅️ Bi 🏳️🌈 Cat/Dog Mom 🐱🐶 Empath 💔 Crafter 🧶 Bookworm 📖 Moody ☁️
So wait, it’s okay that HE hates EVERYONE—doesn’t honor Melissa and her family’s assassination, the deaths of literal HUNDREDS of children in schools AND in Palestine, ICE raids of LEGAL citizens—but when today’s incident happens, the cult are preaching that “we need to end the hate” EXCUSE ME?!
September 11, 2025 at 3:54 AM
So wait, it’s okay that HE hates EVERYONE—doesn’t honor Melissa and her family’s assassination, the deaths of literal HUNDREDS of children in schools AND in Palestine, ICE raids of LEGAL citizens—but when today’s incident happens, the cult are preaching that “we need to end the hate” EXCUSE ME?!
It sucks that my house doesn’t even feel like MY house when they are here. I avoid the one at all costs. I don’t like being alone with them. They don’t like me and that’s fine because I don’t like them back. But I hate feeling like I need to stay away. Ugh.
August 31, 2025 at 2:58 AM
It sucks that my house doesn’t even feel like MY house when they are here. I avoid the one at all costs. I don’t like being alone with them. They don’t like me and that’s fine because I don’t like them back. But I hate feeling like I need to stay away. Ugh.
opportunities to succeed and thrive, while I live my little monotonous life over here. Ugh. I guess I was never meant to live a leisurely and adventurous life. How depressing.
July 14, 2025 at 2:08 AM
opportunities to succeed and thrive, while I live my little monotonous life over here. Ugh. I guess I was never meant to live a leisurely and adventurous life. How depressing.
She owns a home on her own and goes on numerous vacations a year. I get the occasional tattoo and a dinner out when I can. Both of us had the same amount of education, in which neither of us use anymore. Circumstance is everything and it’s so unfair that everyone seems to have been given the
July 14, 2025 at 2:06 AM
She owns a home on her own and goes on numerous vacations a year. I get the occasional tattoo and a dinner out when I can. Both of us had the same amount of education, in which neither of us use anymore. Circumstance is everything and it’s so unfair that everyone seems to have been given the
If there’s one thing I DON’T do, it’s deadname trans folks. And being accused of it, for no real reason but to not “have” to come over ( bc you still wouldn’t ) is not something I’m happy with. But what can ya do? I know I would never. That’s gotta be enough.
June 20, 2025 at 3:33 PM
If there’s one thing I DON’T do, it’s deadname trans folks. And being accused of it, for no real reason but to not “have” to come over ( bc you still wouldn’t ) is not something I’m happy with. But what can ya do? I know I would never. That’s gotta be enough.
I think I made a terrible mistake, and now I’m stuck because wtfe can I do? Nothing.
June 17, 2025 at 7:28 PM
I think I made a terrible mistake, and now I’m stuck because wtfe can I do? Nothing.
You have “enjoying life” money; I have “getting by without 💀ing myself” money…we are not the same. I thought by this age I’d have money to enjoy life but haha!…joke’s on me.
June 16, 2025 at 5:25 PM
You have “enjoying life” money; I have “getting by without 💀ing myself” money…we are not the same. I thought by this age I’d have money to enjoy life but haha!…joke’s on me.
I’m now not only the poorest friend, but the fattest friend. I feel like such a loser.
June 9, 2025 at 4:22 PM
I’m now not only the poorest friend, but the fattest friend. I feel like such a loser.
Times are tough and a “no” here and there is necessary. Don’t look over here acting like contributions aren’t being made. They aren’t my kids.
April 6, 2025 at 9:48 PM
Times are tough and a “no” here and there is necessary. Don’t look over here acting like contributions aren’t being made. They aren’t my kids.
your man “moved in to help his dad” aka. moved out bc the kids said y’all fought all the time. The kids have what they need. Stop expecting to push things off bc you need to give them whatever they ask for. You’re not doing them ANY favors. Oof it makes me so gd mad!
April 6, 2025 at 9:40 PM
your man “moved in to help his dad” aka. moved out bc the kids said y’all fought all the time. The kids have what they need. Stop expecting to push things off bc you need to give them whatever they ask for. You’re not doing them ANY favors. Oof it makes me so gd mad!
dance, most of her school clothes plus new sneakers, backpack and underwear and stuff. None of it here. It just makes me so mad. You kicked him out and he had to take out a loan; you didn’t want any visitation at first. Now you’re like “I can’t pay for this this and this” bc we have 2 incomes and
April 6, 2025 at 9:38 PM
dance, most of her school clothes plus new sneakers, backpack and underwear and stuff. None of it here. It just makes me so mad. You kicked him out and he had to take out a loan; you didn’t want any visitation at first. Now you’re like “I can’t pay for this this and this” bc we have 2 incomes and
They come here and eat a family size box of Cheezits within a few hours. Don’t buy it! Learn to say no. If you both are struggling, they can go without book fair money or build-a-comp equipment or whatever. It’s insane. You give yourself more credit for costs. $325 phone bill, $100+ for their ins,
April 6, 2025 at 9:35 PM
They come here and eat a family size box of Cheezits within a few hours. Don’t buy it! Learn to say no. If you both are struggling, they can go without book fair money or build-a-comp equipment or whatever. It’s insane. You give yourself more credit for costs. $325 phone bill, $100+ for their ins,
expect all necessities be paid for. $800 bday gift? Paying insurance but then expect money for OOP stuff? You all go to the movies, and he can’t take them out bc of these bills. You both have home expenses but what else do you have? Groceries? Don’t buy a bunch of junk. Cook. They boredom eat.
April 6, 2025 at 9:33 PM
expect all necessities be paid for. $800 bday gift? Paying insurance but then expect money for OOP stuff? You all go to the movies, and he can’t take them out bc of these bills. You both have home expenses but what else do you have? Groceries? Don’t buy a bunch of junk. Cook. They boredom eat.
What do you pay for E? You make more money, your mortgage is less than rent, you have no idea what is split and what’s not…but you mention “you’re the only one there”. Just because there’s 2 doesn’t mean I’m paying loans/car note/insurance/bills that aren’t mine. You buy them anything they want then
April 6, 2025 at 9:30 PM
What do you pay for E? You make more money, your mortgage is less than rent, you have no idea what is split and what’s not…but you mention “you’re the only one there”. Just because there’s 2 doesn’t mean I’m paying loans/car note/insurance/bills that aren’t mine. You buy them anything they want then
I really need to stop being such a fatass. I saw the wedding pic I was in and OMG, you can’t even tell I had chin lipo at this point anymore. Next week I need to fr start some kind of change because this is disgusting. I’m tired of being the fat friend. And hating what I see in the mirror.
March 20, 2025 at 12:38 AM
I really need to stop being such a fatass. I saw the wedding pic I was in and OMG, you can’t even tell I had chin lipo at this point anymore. Next week I need to fr start some kind of change because this is disgusting. I’m tired of being the fat friend. And hating what I see in the mirror.
So like, I just go on as to not make a scene because wrong place/wrong time and I end up looking like a fucking tool because no one knows the situation, they just know what they see. I hate it. It’s happened more than once and I hate it.
March 19, 2025 at 2:59 AM
So like, I just go on as to not make a scene because wrong place/wrong time and I end up looking like a fucking tool because no one knows the situation, they just know what they see. I hate it. It’s happened more than once and I hate it.
IDK how I end up in such weird ass scenarios where I end up being the bad guy. Thinking about BFFs wedding and how that debacle somehow made ME the problem ( at least for her SIL ) Like WHY do these things happen that make me look stupid, so randomly? And I can’t speak up bc of the situation.
March 19, 2025 at 2:58 AM
IDK how I end up in such weird ass scenarios where I end up being the bad guy. Thinking about BFFs wedding and how that debacle somehow made ME the problem ( at least for her SIL ) Like WHY do these things happen that make me look stupid, so randomly? And I can’t speak up bc of the situation.
I truly don’t understand why people will get on apps “looking for friends” when they work every weekend/have 4 kids/a spouse/volunteer/don’t have have a car/go to school/whatever. Like I get the idea but you don’t 👏🏻 have 👏🏻 time 👏🏻 to grow a new friendship. Clearly. I see me getting “I can’t” a lot.
March 16, 2025 at 4:13 AM
I truly don’t understand why people will get on apps “looking for friends” when they work every weekend/have 4 kids/a spouse/volunteer/don’t have have a car/go to school/whatever. Like I get the idea but you don’t 👏🏻 have 👏🏻 time 👏🏻 to grow a new friendship. Clearly. I see me getting “I can’t” a lot.
Expecting your parents to buy you a new Switch for your bday is one thing, but then changing your mind and expecting $800+ worth of computer building parts in less than a months time is WILD! And mom is just like, “She didn’t get a Sweet 16” DAFUQ?! In this economy? I cannot wait til she’s 18!
March 14, 2025 at 11:11 PM
Expecting your parents to buy you a new Switch for your bday is one thing, but then changing your mind and expecting $800+ worth of computer building parts in less than a months time is WILD! And mom is just like, “She didn’t get a Sweet 16” DAFUQ?! In this economy? I cannot wait til she’s 18!
Sometimes I wonder what my life would look like had I had my bio mom around…or any strong female around for that matter. I see videos of people whose moms are their best friends and it hurts my heart that I’ll never have that.
February 12, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Sometimes I wonder what my life would look like had I had my bio mom around…or any strong female around for that matter. I see videos of people whose moms are their best friends and it hurts my heart that I’ll never have that.
Like he gets so emotional. Because of how HE feels about himself. Then anything I say is taken as annoyed or criticizing. That is not a me issue. I can’t help that. I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t. And the fact that it’s a lot more of an issue is pissing me off.
February 10, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Like he gets so emotional. Because of how HE feels about himself. Then anything I say is taken as annoyed or criticizing. That is not a me issue. I can’t help that. I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t. And the fact that it’s a lot more of an issue is pissing me off.
The fact that whenever he’s sick/lacking sleep/hungry, he can’t regulate his emotions is driving me insane. Like idk how many times I need to say go to therapy. There’s no excuse. I shouldn’t have to deal with you constantly hating yourself and walking on eggshells that I said or did something wrong
February 10, 2025 at 5:40 PM
The fact that whenever he’s sick/lacking sleep/hungry, he can’t regulate his emotions is driving me insane. Like idk how many times I need to say go to therapy. There’s no excuse. I shouldn’t have to deal with you constantly hating yourself and walking on eggshells that I said or did something wrong
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My sleep has been shit. I mean, can you blame me but still…existential dread + lack of sleep = random emotional outbursts on the reg. Also, I have my period. OOOOF!
February 3, 2025 at 7:04 AM
My sleep has been shit. I mean, can you blame me but still…existential dread + lack of sleep = random emotional outbursts on the reg. Also, I have my period. OOOOF!
I’m ready for her to go home. I’m so tired and my nervous system is shot and now Adam doesn’t feel good bc he got up too fast and is now dizzy and sick.
February 1, 2025 at 1:25 AM
I’m ready for her to go home. I’m so tired and my nervous system is shot and now Adam doesn’t feel good bc he got up too fast and is now dizzy and sick.