playing tank makes me feel love and tenderness for the players around me, especially when they eat shit and i have to attach my paladin umbilical cord to them before they explode into a billion meat fragments

-because both have a kind of... culture of "roasting" people who are "annoying" on public posts. it's a lot harder to do that somewhere like dreamwidth (or any other oldschool forum) without people being like "wow why are you being awful rn".
dreamwidth is so quiet but. maybe we can change that.

yeah. yeah. i wasn't a huge LJ user back in the day but i loved browsing communities for old musicians and fandoms. everyone seemed to be friends (on the surface anyway) and there was so much more friendly discussion! i think it's harder to approach people in spaces like twitter and tumblr-

we don't have to know each other btw come hang out. let's make friends.

Do they tear the fur off gradually (similar to over grooming) or is it a quicker process? It sounds painful if the latter :0

Also I kind of feel like it's too late to start trying to write books :) I know that isn't true but. Alas.

And again, it's frustrating because it's so hard to balance that acceptance with also... not wanting to really see other people's sexuality or have sex/romance shoved into your stories if that's not what you're going for. But surely we can do that without being judgmental about people's preferences.

-writing your story the way they wanted you to I guess, but otherwise it's like. Who gives a shit. I've written all kinds of horrible abuse survivor stories. I don't care if it ticks people's kinks or not. It doesn't affect me.