Leggy Lovemail
@leggylovemail.bsky.social
Persona, anime, streaming enthusiasm, art, the works.
FYI: I block all AI users. Pick up a pencil you guys.
FYI: I block all AI users. Pick up a pencil you guys.
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For anybody looking for a 'smaller' commission type, I have 3d sculpt slots available in the $100-$200, dependent on character design. Feel free to shoot me an email with reference for a specific quote if interested!
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
For anybody looking for a 'smaller' commission type, I have 3d sculpt slots available in the $100-$200, dependent on character design. Feel free to shoot me an email with reference for a specific quote if interested!
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It's my birthday today 💫
A retweet or a like would make me very happy (:
A retweet or a like would make me very happy (:
November 26, 2025 at 11:44 AM
It's my birthday today 💫
A retweet or a like would make me very happy (:
A retweet or a like would make me very happy (:
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lowkey kinda love this pope?
December 6, 2025 at 6:01 AM
lowkey kinda love this pope?
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The fact that life has been sh*t so far has zero to do w/ what life will be like going forward. I know that's hard to wrap your head around, but it's true. Do not let your bullies & abusers convince you you have nothing left to give or receive. Your real life hasn't even started.
December 7, 2025 at 4:08 AM
The fact that life has been sh*t so far has zero to do w/ what life will be like going forward. I know that's hard to wrap your head around, but it's true. Do not let your bullies & abusers convince you you have nothing left to give or receive. Your real life hasn't even started.
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You don't ruin good things, by the way. Just in case you have Trauma Brain f*cking w/ you today to the tune of "you ruin everything you touch." It does that-- & it doesn't actually care if you ruin things.
It's just trying to get you to feel like garbage. It does that.
It's just trying to get you to feel like garbage. It does that.
December 7, 2025 at 6:22 PM
You don't ruin good things, by the way. Just in case you have Trauma Brain f*cking w/ you today to the tune of "you ruin everything you touch." It does that-- & it doesn't actually care if you ruin things.
It's just trying to get you to feel like garbage. It does that.
It's just trying to get you to feel like garbage. It does that.
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Survivors can be among the most nostalgic, romantic humans who exist-- but our sense of nostalgia & romance can be complicated by the pain, loss, or memory holes in our past. But that doesn't mean our nostalgia or romance is silly or superficial-- it's beautiful & meaningful.
December 7, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Survivors can be among the most nostalgic, romantic humans who exist-- but our sense of nostalgia & romance can be complicated by the pain, loss, or memory holes in our past. But that doesn't mean our nostalgia or romance is silly or superficial-- it's beautiful & meaningful.
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I don't believe "everything happens for a reason."
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
December 8, 2025 at 12:05 AM
I don't believe "everything happens for a reason."
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
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"They" are going to try to convince you you are "responsible" for their emotional reactions-- because "they" are not working a recovery. Those of us who are working our trauma recovery know, & remember, that we cannot "make" anyone feel anything or "control" anyone's behavior.
December 8, 2025 at 12:06 AM
"They" are going to try to convince you you are "responsible" for their emotional reactions-- because "they" are not working a recovery. Those of us who are working our trauma recovery know, & remember, that we cannot "make" anyone feel anything or "control" anyone's behavior.
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Yes, our inner child needs to be held, affirmed, & protected by our adult Self. But our inner teen, or teen "parts," also need those things-- &, just like any teen, they can be a little more complicated & require a little more patience to engage. Don't ignore or give up on them.
December 8, 2025 at 3:50 AM
Yes, our inner child needs to be held, affirmed, & protected by our adult Self. But our inner teen, or teen "parts," also need those things-- &, just like any teen, they can be a little more complicated & require a little more patience to engage. Don't ignore or give up on them.
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Self-punishment as a change strategy reinforces the idea we "deserve" to suffer for our mistakes-- thing is, trauma survivors are already suffering almost every day. If suffering changed behavior in positive ways, we'd be perfect & awesome by now.
Do you feel perfect & awesome?
Do you feel perfect & awesome?
December 1, 2025 at 4:45 AM
Self-punishment as a change strategy reinforces the idea we "deserve" to suffer for our mistakes-- thing is, trauma survivors are already suffering almost every day. If suffering changed behavior in positive ways, we'd be perfect & awesome by now.
Do you feel perfect & awesome?
Do you feel perfect & awesome?
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The moment you're triggered & melting the f*ck down is not the moment to try to lecture or reason yourself off the ledge. Our nervous system doesn't-- can't-- respond to that sh*t in those moments. Lean in to grounding & self-validation instead.
That is: breathe; blink; focus.
That is: breathe; blink; focus.
December 1, 2025 at 4:46 AM
The moment you're triggered & melting the f*ck down is not the moment to try to lecture or reason yourself off the ledge. Our nervous system doesn't-- can't-- respond to that sh*t in those moments. Lean in to grounding & self-validation instead.
That is: breathe; blink; focus.
That is: breathe; blink; focus.
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Kids believe what we're told. And kids damn sure believe how we were made to feel over & over. How we feel & what we believe about ourselves now does not reflect reality-- it recycles what we were told & how we were made to feel for years.
It's BS-- Belief Systems. That's it.
It's BS-- Belief Systems. That's it.
December 1, 2025 at 4:46 AM
Kids believe what we're told. And kids damn sure believe how we were made to feel over & over. How we feel & what we believe about ourselves now does not reflect reality-- it recycles what we were told & how we were made to feel for years.
It's BS-- Belief Systems. That's it.
It's BS-- Belief Systems. That's it.
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I just noticed they messed up these lights. Looks like Bubblegum Crisis is ruined forever now. Pack it up boys. It's over.
November 17, 2025 at 6:04 PM
I just noticed they messed up these lights. Looks like Bubblegum Crisis is ruined forever now. Pack it up boys. It's over.
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Double-sized update this week! 4 new pages up @
subscribestar.adult/CalamariCakes or patreon.com/CalamariCakes 💖
subscribestar.adult/CalamariCakes or patreon.com/CalamariCakes 💖
November 17, 2025 at 8:45 PM
Double-sized update this week! 4 new pages up @
subscribestar.adult/CalamariCakes or patreon.com/CalamariCakes 💖
subscribestar.adult/CalamariCakes or patreon.com/CalamariCakes 💖
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For me one of the hardest parts of real world trauma & addiction recovery has been managing the anger at myself for not "getting my sh*t together" sooner.
Getting up in your head about all the years you "wasted" is a recovery sabotaging trap. Don't bite. Grace over guilt.
Getting up in your head about all the years you "wasted" is a recovery sabotaging trap. Don't bite. Grace over guilt.
November 15, 2025 at 2:04 AM
For me one of the hardest parts of real world trauma & addiction recovery has been managing the anger at myself for not "getting my sh*t together" sooner.
Getting up in your head about all the years you "wasted" is a recovery sabotaging trap. Don't bite. Grace over guilt.
Getting up in your head about all the years you "wasted" is a recovery sabotaging trap. Don't bite. Grace over guilt.
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interest check for volume 5 is up! forms.gle/5rjPkJKdMUEj...
please fill it out if you think you'd like one. the amount i order is based on the interest check so this is actually very important! feel free to share with anyone who might want one as well. thank ye
please fill it out if you think you'd like one. the amount i order is based on the interest check so this is actually very important! feel free to share with anyone who might want one as well. thank ye
November 14, 2025 at 11:14 PM
interest check for volume 5 is up! forms.gle/5rjPkJKdMUEj...
please fill it out if you think you'd like one. the amount i order is based on the interest check so this is actually very important! feel free to share with anyone who might want one as well. thank ye
please fill it out if you think you'd like one. the amount i order is based on the interest check so this is actually very important! feel free to share with anyone who might want one as well. thank ye
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FFXIV Fan Festival Anaheim 2026 General Ticket Sales will begin in ONE hour! 🎟️ sqex.to/kEq70
📅 Fri., Nov. 14, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. (PST)
⚠️ Any remaining tickets will be sold during the general sales period and are in limited supply. Tickets will not be available for purchase on-site at the event.
📅 Fri., Nov. 14, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. (PST)
⚠️ Any remaining tickets will be sold during the general sales period and are in limited supply. Tickets will not be available for purchase on-site at the event.
November 14, 2025 at 6:00 PM
FFXIV Fan Festival Anaheim 2026 General Ticket Sales will begin in ONE hour! 🎟️ sqex.to/kEq70
📅 Fri., Nov. 14, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. (PST)
⚠️ Any remaining tickets will be sold during the general sales period and are in limited supply. Tickets will not be available for purchase on-site at the event.
📅 Fri., Nov. 14, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. (PST)
⚠️ Any remaining tickets will be sold during the general sales period and are in limited supply. Tickets will not be available for purchase on-site at the event.
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