Calder 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@ktg48.bsky.social
Gay trans guy living in SF. Activist, papa, husband, boy, Taurus, Swiftie, gym rat, mostly vegetarian. Kept alive by community, beach objects, theatre & books.
I am still pissed about it all the morning after and maybe that’s what it was meant to do 🤷🏻♂️
November 14, 2025 at 4:39 PM
I am still pissed about it all the morning after and maybe that’s what it was meant to do 🤷🏻♂️
- who THE FUCK is moto guy? Reality or a dreamscape? Why did the baby never age? And who the fuck thinks a forest fire actually starts that way? Not to mention I felt like the whole thing did a giant disservice to women experiencing PPD.
November 14, 2025 at 4:39 PM
- who THE FUCK is moto guy? Reality or a dreamscape? Why did the baby never age? And who the fuck thinks a forest fire actually starts that way? Not to mention I felt like the whole thing did a giant disservice to women experiencing PPD.
Ok please help me, because I loathed that movie, and I really reserve that term. I thought it was beautifully shot and both actors are very talented, and also it was just… terrible. Like zero way to connect to those characters whatsoever, totally random and unexplained shit kept happening
November 14, 2025 at 4:37 PM
Ok please help me, because I loathed that movie, and I really reserve that term. I thought it was beautifully shot and both actors are very talented, and also it was just… terrible. Like zero way to connect to those characters whatsoever, totally random and unexplained shit kept happening
Screaming 😆
Thank you for making something about this living nightmare funny
Thank you for making something about this living nightmare funny
November 14, 2025 at 3:14 PM
Screaming 😆
Thank you for making something about this living nightmare funny
Thank you for making something about this living nightmare funny
💯💯💯💯
Never not re-posting this. It’s about Pete but conceptually totally applicable to Sarah as well.
Never not re-posting this. It’s about Pete but conceptually totally applicable to Sarah as well.
Reblog by @vaspider · 1 image
💬 32 🔁 30406 ❤️ 31533 · If you think this essay was about Pete Buttigieg and my feelings about him as a person or a politician, you have ENTIRELY MISSED the point of what I wrote.
Substitute you…
www.tumblr.com
November 14, 2025 at 4:46 AM
💯💯💯💯
Never not re-posting this. It’s about Pete but conceptually totally applicable to Sarah as well.
Never not re-posting this. It’s about Pete but conceptually totally applicable to Sarah as well.
Including sending trans guys DL DMs 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
November 14, 2025 at 3:39 AM
Including sending trans guys DL DMs 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Amazing, and also, why was Cynthia faster on her feet than the multiple giant security guards whose sole purpose is to prevent something like that?!
November 13, 2025 at 3:40 PM
Amazing, and also, why was Cynthia faster on her feet than the multiple giant security guards whose sole purpose is to prevent something like that?!
Fully! That’s the perfect analogy. This is extremely lolsob
November 13, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Fully! That’s the perfect analogy. This is extremely lolsob
Just… no. She is delusional, and, I think, doing more harm than good to trans people. A Centrist position is not at all what we need.
November 13, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Just… no. She is delusional, and, I think, doing more harm than good to trans people. A Centrist position is not at all what we need.
You’re cute af either way but in order I’d pick mustache then beard, with a strong middle consideration for a goatee
November 13, 2025 at 5:56 AM
You’re cute af either way but in order I’d pick mustache then beard, with a strong middle consideration for a goatee
Multiple scientific studies exist on this subject that show trans women on HRT actually perform the same OR WORSE as their cis women counterparts. Promise those scientists know more than whatever skeletal bullshit you’re about to pop off with.
November 13, 2025 at 5:53 AM
Multiple scientific studies exist on this subject that show trans women on HRT actually perform the same OR WORSE as their cis women counterparts. Promise those scientists know more than whatever skeletal bullshit you’re about to pop off with.
Fully! And even then readers wouldn’t find the storyline plausible!
November 13, 2025 at 3:57 AM
Fully! And even then readers wouldn’t find the storyline plausible!
What the fuck. I had to see this same thing reposted three times before I understood it was real. I thought it was a parody.
What. The. Fuck.
What. The. Fuck.
November 13, 2025 at 3:24 AM
What the fuck. I had to see this same thing reposted three times before I understood it was real. I thought it was a parody.
What. The. Fuck.
What. The. Fuck.
That’s so fucking spot-on, yes. It’s subtle and pervasive.
November 12, 2025 at 6:30 PM
That’s so fucking spot-on, yes. It’s subtle and pervasive.
Have you ever fought a fire, by chance….?
November 12, 2025 at 3:18 PM
Have you ever fought a fire, by chance….?
These are stunning!!!! I would drop absolutely everything as well. I can’t believe this is from Columbus!! Magical. At the top of my bucket list. So glad the clouds parted for y’all.
November 12, 2025 at 3:00 PM
These are stunning!!!! I would drop absolutely everything as well. I can’t believe this is from Columbus!! Magical. At the top of my bucket list. So glad the clouds parted for y’all.
The NYT is a known racist, misogynistic, transphobic rag. This has been going on for years.
NYT Contributors’ Letter
nytletter.com
November 12, 2025 at 2:02 AM
The NYT is a known racist, misogynistic, transphobic rag. This has been going on for years.
The majority of cis people don’t care about the actual lives of trans people.
Mainstream media frames our existence as a debate and uplifts junk science, most especially the NYT.
Follow and support independent trans journalists instead:
Erin Reed
Evan Urquhart
Mady Castigan
Kaetlyn Burns
Mainstream media frames our existence as a debate and uplifts junk science, most especially the NYT.
Follow and support independent trans journalists instead:
Erin Reed
Evan Urquhart
Mady Castigan
Kaetlyn Burns
Every Trans Suicide Is A Murder By Those In Power
News came this week that transgender athlete and student Lia Smith took her life at just 21 years of age.
www.erininthemorning.com
November 12, 2025 at 2:01 AM
The majority of cis people don’t care about the actual lives of trans people.
Mainstream media frames our existence as a debate and uplifts junk science, most especially the NYT.
Follow and support independent trans journalists instead:
Erin Reed
Evan Urquhart
Mady Castigan
Kaetlyn Burns
Mainstream media frames our existence as a debate and uplifts junk science, most especially the NYT.
Follow and support independent trans journalists instead:
Erin Reed
Evan Urquhart
Mady Castigan
Kaetlyn Burns
The first line is devastating because it’s true.
November 12, 2025 at 1:38 AM
The first line is devastating because it’s true.