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jess
@koalatygay.bsky.social
1995 | lesbian, trans | freelance writer & editor | cats, crafts, & queer reads | michigan | one day i’ll be vegan for real i swear | they/them

https://alesbianandtheirlaptop.substack.com
I really appreciate that Katie 🧡 any amount helps, truly. He has pancreatic cancer and the mass caused a lot of internal problems very suddenly. The first hospital also failed to treat his obstructions and perhaps worsened things. Hoping he recovers soon so he can start treatment
December 7, 2025 at 3:15 AM
I haven’t been this underweight since high school thank god my wife and friends are keeping me fed and hydrated I’m doing a bad job
December 6, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Every single day is a new kind of horror. Every single day I come to the hospital I’m scared they’re going to say there’s nothing else they can do. He can’t sit up by himself. He barely sleeps for one consecutive hour. He’s only 56
December 4, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Can’t eat and hasn’t eaten for 3 weeks
December 4, 2025 at 10:22 PM
Perforation of the gallbladder. Drain attached for at least 6 wks, maybe life or until he gets it removed. Needs a stent for a bowel obstruction. Needs first stent replaced. Needs infectious material in liver drained. Has yeast growing in the blood. NG tube to drain bile backup from obstructions
December 4, 2025 at 10:22 PM
Telling everyone I know they aren’t getting Christmas presents this year unfortunately
December 4, 2025 at 1:41 PM
I thought $600 down was broke hehe little did I know we’d be paying another $1400 one week later
December 4, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Yeah no way right. If your friend’s dad was the hospital getting off phone calls with their family crying every day they’re staying with you wouldn’t you think the one thing you could do to help that situation is get their wife to the airport on time
December 3, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Anyway there is a reason that you’re supposed to be 2-3 hours early for your flights x
December 3, 2025 at 11:51 AM
My dad is in the hospital. Dying. And they didn’t get her to the airport on time. It costs another $1k to get her on a new flight after I already spent an extra $500 to get me home early because my dad is sick
December 3, 2025 at 10:01 AM