jess
@koalatygay.bsky.social
1995 | lesbian, trans | freelance writer & editor | cats, crafts, & queer reads | michigan | one day i’ll be vegan for real i swear | they/them
https://alesbianandtheirlaptop.substack.com
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First day in nearly 2 weeks I haven’t seen my dad and I’m not taking it well. I need to sleep and get over being sick asap so I can go back up to the hospital asap but my body is so high stress and high alert
December 6, 2025 at 8:02 PM
First day in nearly 2 weeks I haven’t seen my dad and I’m not taking it well. I need to sleep and get over being sick asap so I can go back up to the hospital asap but my body is so high stress and high alert
My dad was able to drink like 3 tsps of milk today and that’s been such a massive win for all of us these last 3 weeks
December 6, 2025 at 7:59 PM
My dad was able to drink like 3 tsps of milk today and that’s been such a massive win for all of us these last 3 weeks
I’m so exhausted by 8pm every single day
December 6, 2025 at 12:46 AM
I’m so exhausted by 8pm every single day
My friend brought over 2 tubs of butternut squash soup, 2 tubs of lentil dahl, a load of sourdough, and coconut macaroons 🥺
December 6, 2025 at 12:02 AM
My friend brought over 2 tubs of butternut squash soup, 2 tubs of lentil dahl, a load of sourdough, and coconut macaroons 🥺
Eating lunch in the hospital cafeteria alone feeling like I’m in college again
December 5, 2025 at 6:19 PM
Eating lunch in the hospital cafeteria alone feeling like I’m in college again
In a hilarious twist of events, I’ve never been closer to my in laws before
December 4, 2025 at 10:50 PM
In a hilarious twist of events, I’ve never been closer to my in laws before
I love my (parents’) Costco membership
December 4, 2025 at 10:46 PM
I love my (parents’) Costco membership
Every single day the doctors tell us he needs another procedure and we haven’t even been able to talk about the extremely necessary chemotherapy yet
December 4, 2025 at 10:20 PM
Every single day the doctors tell us he needs another procedure and we haven’t even been able to talk about the extremely necessary chemotherapy yet
I love my maternal grandma so much but she cannot be calling me and cry about my dad being sick again pls talk to literally anyone else outside of my immediate family woman
December 4, 2025 at 1:38 PM
I love my maternal grandma so much but she cannot be calling me and cry about my dad being sick again pls talk to literally anyone else outside of my immediate family woman
So relieved to have Jas home
December 4, 2025 at 2:57 AM
So relieved to have Jas home
When’s Bluesky getting a mf private feature
December 4, 2025 at 1:24 AM
When’s Bluesky getting a mf private feature
Once again every day I think the next day can’t possibly be worse. And then it is
December 3, 2025 at 11:32 AM
Once again every day I think the next day can’t possibly be worse. And then it is
My wife missed her flight home and I’m losing friends over this. How do you not think that maybe a 2 hour drive to London would be more than 2 hours during morning rush hour
December 3, 2025 at 10:01 AM
My wife missed her flight home and I’m losing friends over this. How do you not think that maybe a 2 hour drive to London would be more than 2 hours during morning rush hour
My dad is too young for this why is this happening
December 3, 2025 at 2:05 AM
My dad is too young for this why is this happening
The smell of the hospital is like permanently stuck in my nose
December 2, 2025 at 6:41 PM
The smell of the hospital is like permanently stuck in my nose
Well I guess I managed to survive another day of this
December 2, 2025 at 3:47 AM
Well I guess I managed to survive another day of this
How long can i endure this
December 1, 2025 at 4:42 PM
How long can i endure this
This is a crazy time to be apart from Jas
December 1, 2025 at 1:24 AM
This is a crazy time to be apart from Jas
Today was another hard day but it was a slightly better day
November 30, 2025 at 11:40 PM
Today was another hard day but it was a slightly better day
Every time I think I’m through the hardest day I am proven wrong
November 30, 2025 at 2:39 AM
Every time I think I’m through the hardest day I am proven wrong
Cost $500 to change my flight, $100 to get the trains to and from the airport, my dad’s health crisis and hospitalization has made me unable to work the entire week and my wife is currently unemployed. Tis the damn season ig
November 29, 2025 at 8:57 PM
Cost $500 to change my flight, $100 to get the trains to and from the airport, my dad’s health crisis and hospitalization has made me unable to work the entire week and my wife is currently unemployed. Tis the damn season ig
First day this week that wasn’t the new worst day of my life 🙏
November 27, 2025 at 3:05 AM
First day this week that wasn’t the new worst day of my life 🙏
Most everyone in my life doesn’t know what’s going on rn and if they do they don’t know how bad it is and I just don’t know how to be like hey. I’m having the worst time right now
November 26, 2025 at 3:43 AM
Most everyone in my life doesn’t know what’s going on rn and if they do they don’t know how bad it is and I just don’t know how to be like hey. I’m having the worst time right now
This is once again the new worst day of my life
November 25, 2025 at 4:40 PM
This is once again the new worst day of my life
Well my cat is thrilled that I’m home early
November 25, 2025 at 3:50 AM
Well my cat is thrilled that I’m home early