Ps - tax is love. Super important. Just learning all the rules as new business owner. And for purposes of distraction!!

I so wish I was going to that game!!! Shall enjoy your SM commentary while cheering from the mighty East Coast though!!

My pleasure! Happy long weekend!

Tunnels are funny ole places, huh! Best part is you get to be quiet and hide for a little bit… and when you’re ready to emerge, you can 🤍

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100% - love this. 🤍

Completely get that. I’m also at this point where I think the lows have ‘refined’ me - in that they can be completely transformative pivots to take us back home to ourselves if we let them. Ya know? The shitty times were shit. Don’t get me wrong! But what an opportunity that has turned out to be. 🤍

Grateful for the gentle folk, of which there are many more then the other kinds folk. Ngā mihi e te tuahine 🤍

Wise words for us all 🙏🏽

Hey! It’s so cool seeing so many BC’ers out there doing our thing. DF and I caught up recently and it was just fun. Hope you’re doing well my mate X

That’s the place I’d want us all to live in. Our kids deserve it :)

Completely my friend - being just silent in the same place can be a game changer.

Aē e hoa, kōina!

Thanks, and hope it’s all going ok! It does, but heartbreak was just the end of a crappy ride following tonnes of health crap and all the other stuff happening in life. Thank you!! ❤️

*excuse the typos - sick kid on me sleeping so one handed typing is what I’ve got! 😂

Just some random reckons which may or may not land or be helpful. But leaning in when the tunnel is dark feels so bloody hard… and as trite as it is to say, is the best gift you can ever give to yourself.

Happy long weekend whānau!

TRIGGER WARNING *self-harm

5. If you feel your absence in the world is best thing for your kids, your whānau and the people you love - as much as you feel you’re right & the world would be easier for them all - it won’t be. It will shatter them. You are loved, you are wanted and you are needed. ❤️

4. If you’re feeling deeply alone in your spirit, soul and mind - I promise you, you’re not alone. You’re not as shit as you’re head is telling you. And you will get through this, whatever ‘this’ is. You are worth of love, life and being whole.

3. Feelings are temporary - let them wash over and bring yourself back to centre / the present. What can you see? What can you hear? What can you physically feel? What can you smell? Bring yourself into right now. Your head doesn’t have to always be the boss.