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Kay Crosby
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‘Are you impervious to everything?!’ - man who had just kicked me in the leg.

‘The Whore of Babylon’ - man who was about to shatter his cane against my arm.

‘Nice boobies’ - guess what it’s some man.

My employer shares none of my views.
Shout out to the 60ish Geordie man who ran right into my arm at parkrun this morning, but then said ‘sorry pet’.
December 6, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Team, I’ve just been added to the most uninteresting moderation list possible.
December 4, 2025 at 4:46 PM
I have taken the plunge and decided that this is the look on electrolysis days.
December 3, 2025 at 10:06 AM
This helpfully confirms that August 2025 was an unusually low point even for *my* mental health.
December 3, 2025 at 7:25 AM
Good news: I made it out to the coast. Bad news: a wave surprised me while I was taking this selfie and now my feet are drenched.
November 30, 2025 at 10:22 AM
Oh no a trans woman is existing in community with cis lesbians 😱

It’s all just so pathetic.
November 30, 2025 at 8:49 AM
I’m not joking when I say that I find the not being talked to or needed by anyone of electrolysis deeply relaxing. At one point Only You by Yazoo came on and I was like ah yeah, that’s the good stuff, I’m going to be literally asleep in a minute.
November 27, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Today is a day where I am grateful for the clompy boots that I practically live in. I just went over in the ice, did a weird sideways star jump thing with my legs, landed firmly on my feet and carried on walking.
November 21, 2025 at 9:16 AM
While I don’t want to get too into the weeds of the discourse this morning, I think this text - from my draft trans pay paper - has some relevance to what we’re talking about this morning.
November 20, 2025 at 7:51 AM
This was supposed to be a 18:27 train from Kings Cross; but it was ninety minutes late and it is beginning to feel a little bit like I live here now. Trans on trains, but it’s interminable.
November 15, 2025 at 10:18 PM
A frankly unreasonable time to be at the station on a Saturday morning.
November 15, 2025 at 7:09 AM
PSA: dangly earrings feel weird
November 8, 2025 at 12:25 PM
Third slowest parkrun all year, but my highest heart rate in 28 days. So it definitely counts.
November 8, 2025 at 9:35 AM
Camden van man just shouted gay boy at me. Which is of course one of the classic blunders. If you’d told 18yo me that people would still be shouting this at her in 2025, she’d probably be relieved to learn she’d look young enough for this particular insult twenty years later.
November 7, 2025 at 3:17 PM
Tooting my horn here, but this is my only article that has been cited in an amicus brief to SCOTUS, and plagiarised by a judge of the Court of Appeal. Anyway, here I am making the point in question.
November 7, 2025 at 7:22 AM
There is still time
November 6, 2025 at 8:40 AM
New reaction image just dropped
November 6, 2025 at 8:32 AM
The gentlemen of Richmond, Surrey are consistently very not delighted to see a transsexual. This 40ish tiny man in a shit green jumper and scrunched up shoulders just gave me a look of real disgust, so I looked him in the eyes and gave him the biggest, kindest, loveliest smile. He looked horrified.
November 5, 2025 at 9:16 AM
Went for a run. Met some deer. Learnt my friend’s partner had dreamt I was covered in birds.
November 4, 2025 at 8:47 AM
Just stood up to leave from the Starbucks opposite the station. The woman sat next to me said something and I said sorry pardon. She said ‘Your outfit’s amazing.’ Her lanyard said ‘Sephora University’ 🙏
November 3, 2025 at 9:23 AM
Funny how brains do this sort of thing. I’m in running gear all day every Sunday, and it’s never a problem. Then every now and then my brain’s like hahahahaha TODAY this will make you feel extremely dysphoric. Thanks brain.
November 2, 2025 at 7:35 PM
Fastest parkrun of the year at 23:37, brought to you by my loud running noises and a very fast pacer
November 1, 2025 at 10:49 AM
As our community once again eats itself, I am reminded of the fact that the way I present myself can easily give me the vibe of a conservative assimilationist. I am in fact neither of these things, because I am in fact not stupid.
October 28, 2025 at 8:55 AM
I am very entertained by the fact my one insta post that did some numbers on Saturday has led meta to send me some stats, including this insightful thought. ‘You shared 1 more post than the previous week, which helped improve your views.’ I suppose it would do, really.
October 28, 2025 at 7:42 AM
Also illegal just means I’m not allowed to be there. Laws can’t actually make a person do or not do something, obviously.
October 25, 2025 at 9:35 AM