The idea that it’s a choice also justifies conversion therapy. Believing queerness is a choice also justifies conversion therapy, which also makes many queer rights laws null and void.
November 29, 2025 at 1:00 AM
The idea that it’s a choice also justifies conversion therapy. Believing queerness is a choice also justifies conversion therapy, which also makes many queer rights laws null and void.
Also the whole thing about violating the man‘s property, and not causing trauma on the woman. It’s like “you can’t insult my sibling, only I can” but make it about sexual violence
November 29, 2025 at 12:17 AM
Also the whole thing about violating the man‘s property, and not causing trauma on the woman. It’s like “you can’t insult my sibling, only I can” but make it about sexual violence
However, something that scares me about transitioning - and hence, improving my life to get to that point - is that I don’t know if/think I’ll ever see my parents again. I’m pretty sure I’ll be excommunicated from my masjid. /7
November 28, 2025 at 7:20 AM
However, something that scares me about transitioning - and hence, improving my life to get to that point - is that I don’t know if/think I’ll ever see my parents again. I’m pretty sure I’ll be excommunicated from my masjid. /7
So now demotivation-based depression isn’t just bad psychologically, but it literally is preventing me from transitioning, which is maintaining my gender dysphoria, which creates a negative feedback loop. So I really need to find a way to motivate myself to live, not just survive. /6
November 28, 2025 at 7:17 AM
So now demotivation-based depression isn’t just bad psychologically, but it literally is preventing me from transitioning, which is maintaining my gender dysphoria, which creates a negative feedback loop. So I really need to find a way to motivate myself to live, not just survive. /6
I’m pretty sure I haven’t done anything that’d actually help me move out because of this defeatist - honestly that’s not even a strong enough word, I think a better one would be “fatalistic“ - attitude. /5
November 28, 2025 at 7:16 AM
I’m pretty sure I haven’t done anything that’d actually help me move out because of this defeatist - honestly that’s not even a strong enough word, I think a better one would be “fatalistic“ - attitude. /5
This is doubly so from a religious standpoint, because “if I’m not even able to get Allah’s love except through living in a costume for my whole life, why should I expect better from my parents?” The problem with this mindset is that it really stagnates you in many other aspects of life. /4
November 28, 2025 at 7:14 AM
This is doubly so from a religious standpoint, because “if I’m not even able to get Allah’s love except through living in a costume for my whole life, why should I expect better from my parents?” The problem with this mindset is that it really stagnates you in many other aspects of life. /4
It’s something I’m working on to. I thought I had worked through most of the internalized transphobia but it turns out living with transphobic family since having had come out to them can re-introduce stuff. /3
November 28, 2025 at 7:11 AM
It’s something I’m working on to. I thought I had worked through most of the internalized transphobia but it turns out living with transphobic family since having had come out to them can re-introduce stuff. /3
2: This hits pretty close to home for me as a trans person. I read several posts from various people talking about how we need self-love of ourselves despite transphobia, and the toxic coping mechanisms some other talked about using in their past - or present - while working on self acceptance. /2
November 28, 2025 at 7:09 AM
2: This hits pretty close to home for me as a trans person. I read several posts from various people talking about how we need self-love of ourselves despite transphobia, and the toxic coping mechanisms some other talked about using in their past - or present - while working on self acceptance. /2
Like yeah I do/have genuinely felt gender euphoria from performing masculinity, or having certain male bio features, but I also have dysphoria from not performing femininity and not having female bio features. /2
November 27, 2025 at 7:29 PM
Like yeah I do/have genuinely felt gender euphoria from performing masculinity, or having certain male bio features, but I also have dysphoria from not performing femininity and not having female bio features. /2
They think that mass murdering children for non-deity appeasing reasons is somehow better than child sacrifice - and they were still committing genocide with religious justification anyways!
November 27, 2025 at 5:13 PM
They think that mass murdering children for non-deity appeasing reasons is somehow better than child sacrifice - and they were still committing genocide with religious justification anyways!
I've seen a friend on mine post about this on their insta, but like, how true is this? And by true I'm also/moreso asking "why", not so much "did he actually employ zionists?", though that is still nonetheless part of the question, albeit lesser.
November 27, 2025 at 6:11 AM
I've seen a friend on mine post about this on their insta, but like, how true is this? And by true I'm also/moreso asking "why", not so much "did he actually employ zionists?", though that is still nonetheless part of the question, albeit lesser.