John Ruark (he/him)
johnruark.bsky.social
John Ruark (he/him)
@johnruark.bsky.social
Father, #LGBTQ ally, software engineer, theater tech all-rounder, pet dad figuring out how to smash the patriarchy and make a safe, welcoming space for all.
Queen of Wands; it’s funny, bittersweet, sexy, and smart. www.queenofwands.net
Queen of Wands
www.queenofwands.net
November 24, 2025 at 5:41 AM
Also this morning
July 20, 2025 at 10:44 PM
(As a result of sunlight passing through the shower door.)
July 2, 2025 at 1:46 AM
Or his Seattle grunge era!
May 4, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Thank you for speaking out and sharing your story!
April 16, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Don’t thank god you got better. Thank your doctors and nurses.
April 7, 2025 at 9:26 PM
That has the vibe of those articles about people who do bake sales (and now go-fund-me's) to raise money for medical procedures. Like, yay? Congrats you had to work or beg to get your necessary procedure because the healthcare system sucks? Let's not celebrate that.
April 3, 2025 at 11:39 PM
I went to find your preorder on your personal site and it linked to Amazon. Please consider linking to independent booksellers or something like bookshop.org/p/books/sex-... if you find that bookshop.org is a better steward of the future of bookselling than Amazon will be.
Sex Beyond Yes: Pleasure and Agency for Everyone
Pleasure and Agency for Everyone
bookshop.org
April 3, 2025 at 3:01 AM
Drat, so much for an original idea.
March 13, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Also such blatant selfishness. What will they do for me? Where is my hand out? If it doesn't affect me I don't care. Hurt other people not me. Yankee individualism has ruined our country. Where is the compassion to help others less privileged or fortunate? Apparently not in the United States.
February 13, 2025 at 4:12 PM
I also thought of Steve Reich during my MRi. My MRI noises were blended with Maher’s fifth in my headphones, which made for an innovative mashup.
February 13, 2025 at 3:49 AM