But it turned out there was more to Jim's arrival than we had initially assumed. He had actually been invited over to our house by our cat Charles, to work full-time as a personal valet for Charles.

I want to make a note on how none of this is biological or inescapable.

Most men are taught to be men by hearing "don't be a girl" yelled at them, by being praised for repressing their pain, for acting dominating. But anyone can choose to reject that, it's just most cis men find it too convenient.

Healthy human relationships are built upon so many skills that men often refuse to practice: From developing a personality and learning your own taste so you can connect through hobbies with others, through having emotional intelligence to navigate conflict, to showing up in times of hardship.

Yeah; it's quite possible he will start banging on about that but the thing about trump is he's very impressionable, and also Zohran is very charismatic.