my whole house cheered when the subtitle dropped

I get what you're saying but that's not the point of what I, nor Chuck was saying. There is still a difference between identity of what you present to a friend, good or not, and what you present as being a fragment of your very being that defines you wholly as a person.

There's a far difference from casual conversation with someone you will likely never see again, or even friends who you cannot control their perception of you, and then something that bears your very soul within it, like art does. I relate heavily.

You said that and my eyes hurt with how wide they went

Willow you sweetheart. Everytime you post her the day is a little easier.

never change

Happens every time, website gets its start and its most popular content from marginalized people, that content brings people in, more people means more to moderate that the website isn't willing to accomodate, marginalized folks speak out, marginalized folks get punished. Tumblr. Bsky. all the same.