I'm rich enough to give this gift too.
And so are you.
Who will you give it to this week?
I'm rich enough to give this gift too.
And so are you.
Who will you give it to this week?
The founder pitching me their idea. The team member with a problem. My wife at the kitchen table.
Phones away. Laptop closed. Nothing more important than right now.
The founder pitching me their idea. The team member with a problem. My wife at the kitchen table.
Phones away. Laptop closed. Nothing more important than right now.
You don't need to be a billionaire to give this gift.
You just need to be willing to give someone the thing everyone craves but few receive:
Your complete, undivided attention.
You don't need to be a billionaire to give this gift.
You just need to be willing to give someone the thing everyone craves but few receive:
Your complete, undivided attention.
Not because of who he was, but because of what he gave.
In a world of divided attention and constant interruption, total presence is the rarest gift you can give.
Not because of who he was, but because of what he gave.
In a world of divided attention and constant interruption, total presence is the rarest gift you can give.
The meetings canceled. The decisions delayed. The opportunities passed.
That time is gone. He'll never get it back.
The meetings canceled. The decisions delayed. The opportunities passed.
That time is gone. He'll never get it back.
Complete presence. Total curiosity. Pure engagement.
The realization crept up on me: I was experiencing something I'd never felt before.
And may never feel again.
Complete presence. Total curiosity. Pure engagement.
The realization crept up on me: I was experiencing something I'd never felt before.
And may never feel again.
Anyone can give you 5 minutes of attention.
Rare people can give you 30 minutes of focus.
But I started noticing something as the afternoon went on...
Anyone can give you 5 minutes of attention.
Rare people can give you 30 minutes of focus.
But I started noticing something as the afternoon went on...
Two walls facing the office.
Two walls facing California sun.
Zuck on a beanie chair. My co-founder and I on a corner couch.
Two others in the room who never spoke.
No one interrupted.
No laptops.
No phones visible.
Two walls facing the office.
Two walls facing California sun.
Zuck on a beanie chair. My co-founder and I on a corner couch.
Two others in the room who never spoke.
No one interrupted.
No laptops.
No phones visible.
At Planetary Resources, we were building tech to mine asteroids. He wanted to talk about connecting the world.
After a video call, we flew to the Bay Area.
At Planetary Resources, we were building tech to mine asteroids. He wanted to talk about connecting the world.
After a video call, we flew to the Bay Area.
But sometimes you need to cultivate the possible.
That's why I built @RiskThing.
Join the waitlist: RiskThing.com
But sometimes you need to cultivate the possible.
That's why I built @RiskThing.
Join the waitlist: RiskThing.com
It was preventing me from discovering what success actually required.
It was preventing me from discovering what success actually required.
1. The risk of failing
2. The risk of never jumping
I'd spent my career managing the first while ignoring the second.
1. The risk of failing
2. The risk of never jumping
I'd spent my career managing the first while ignoring the second.
Put the house on the market.
Told my co-founders we were all-in on Seattle.
No more backup plan. No more safety net.
Put the house on the market.
Told my co-founders we were all-in on Seattle.
No more backup plan. No more safety net.
And I knew instantly he was right.
I hadn't really committed. I was playing it safe while pretending to be bold.
And I knew instantly he was right.
I hadn't really committed. I was playing it safe while pretending to be bold.
He looked at me with that stare—not through me, but INTO me.
The kind that sees what you're hiding from yourself.
He looked at me with that stare—not through me, but INTO me.
The kind that sees what you're hiding from yourself.
"If this crazy thing fails, I can always go back to JPL."
It felt smart. Responsible. A safety net.
It was actually the thing that was going to kill my startup before it began.
"If this crazy thing fails, I can always go back to JPL."
It felt smart. Responsible. A safety net.
It was actually the thing that was going to kill my startup before it began.
Two Mars rovers. Phoenix Mars Lander. Exceptional Achievement medals on the wall.
Joined an ultra-stealth asteroid mining startup as co-founder #1.
I thought I'd made the leap.
Two Mars rovers. Phoenix Mars Lander. Exceptional Achievement medals on the wall.
Joined an ultra-stealth asteroid mining startup as co-founder #1.
I thought I'd made the leap.
More beautiful to me than a Starship at sunset, or mach diamonds from a new rocket.
My thanks to NASA's Astromaterials Research and Exploration Sciences teams for capturing this historic moment. 3/3
More beautiful to me than a Starship at sunset, or mach diamonds from a new rocket.
My thanks to NASA's Astromaterials Research and Exploration Sciences teams for capturing this historic moment. 3/3