Ian Cognito - Toronto Bottom Bear
@iancognito.bsky.social
Queer (pansexual), middle-aged, Black Canadian. Lefty politics, nerd stuff and occasional NSFW photos. Some skeets will disappear when I get super self-conscious about exposing myself online.
Toronto, Canada. 🇨🇦
Toronto, Canada. 🇨🇦
Pinned
- single Black bear
- early 50s
- pansexual bottom
- looking for ongoing/fwb
- must use condoms
- open to all especially twinks, trans men/women and geeks/nerds of all types
#gay #nsfw #gaytoronto #bear
- early 50s
- pansexual bottom
- looking for ongoing/fwb
- must use condoms
- open to all especially twinks, trans men/women and geeks/nerds of all types
#gay #nsfw #gaytoronto #bear
Where are all the single tops in Toronto?
December 8, 2025 at 4:07 PM
Where are all the single tops in Toronto?
A man on the bus insists on speaking to me about sports and then about a local cafe. I was not looking for this conversation at all and tried to politely disengage. Frankly, I’ve had men fuck me after less chat.
November 26, 2025 at 5:17 PM
A man on the bus insists on speaking to me about sports and then about a local cafe. I was not looking for this conversation at all and tried to politely disengage. Frankly, I’ve had men fuck me after less chat.
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Find what you love and let it peg you
August 8, 2025 at 2:40 PM
Find what you love and let it peg you
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Pro-tip
If you want to cancel your Adobe subscription contact support chat and tell them you're starting a new job that will pay for the subscription. No fuss, no hassle, no early cancellation fee. Worked three seperate times for me! (All three were true, but THEY didn't know that)
If you want to cancel your Adobe subscription contact support chat and tell them you're starting a new job that will pay for the subscription. No fuss, no hassle, no early cancellation fee. Worked three seperate times for me! (All three were true, but THEY didn't know that)
November 15, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Pro-tip
If you want to cancel your Adobe subscription contact support chat and tell them you're starting a new job that will pay for the subscription. No fuss, no hassle, no early cancellation fee. Worked three seperate times for me! (All three were true, but THEY didn't know that)
If you want to cancel your Adobe subscription contact support chat and tell them you're starting a new job that will pay for the subscription. No fuss, no hassle, no early cancellation fee. Worked three seperate times for me! (All three were true, but THEY didn't know that)
I really do need a friend with benefits who, between visits and without prompting, sends me dirty pics and smutty texts full of threats to use my holes.
Who wants to be that friend?
Who wants to be that friend?
November 23, 2025 at 1:28 AM
I really do need a friend with benefits who, between visits and without prompting, sends me dirty pics and smutty texts full of threats to use my holes.
Who wants to be that friend?
Who wants to be that friend?
A Grindr bio is 255 characters. That’s shorter than a fucking tweet. I love when guys are too lazy to read your bio and then get pissy that you spot all their red flags.
Him: *sends dick pic as first message*
Him: “Are you on Prep?”
Me: “No. My bio says ‘only play safe’”.
Him: *BLOCK*
Me: bye!
Him: *sends dick pic as first message*
Him: “Are you on Prep?”
Me: “No. My bio says ‘only play safe’”.
Him: *BLOCK*
Me: bye!
November 14, 2025 at 7:17 PM
A Grindr bio is 255 characters. That’s shorter than a fucking tweet. I love when guys are too lazy to read your bio and then get pissy that you spot all their red flags.
Him: *sends dick pic as first message*
Him: “Are you on Prep?”
Me: “No. My bio says ‘only play safe’”.
Him: *BLOCK*
Me: bye!
Him: *sends dick pic as first message*
Him: “Are you on Prep?”
Me: “No. My bio says ‘only play safe’”.
Him: *BLOCK*
Me: bye!
Who wants to come over and just kiss for a while?
November 14, 2025 at 1:35 AM
Who wants to come over and just kiss for a while?
I need to meet someone and settle into a nice little semi-monogamous dating thing. Where are the cute, nerdy tops in Toronto?
November 12, 2025 at 4:59 PM
I need to meet someone and settle into a nice little semi-monogamous dating thing. Where are the cute, nerdy tops in Toronto?
I just heard cumming referred to as “going number 3” and my life has been wasted up until this moment.
November 12, 2025 at 2:33 AM
I just heard cumming referred to as “going number 3” and my life has been wasted up until this moment.
I need your dick inside me while you slap me across the face and tell me to shut the fuck up.
November 9, 2025 at 8:29 PM
I need your dick inside me while you slap me across the face and tell me to shut the fuck up.
Just opted out of a bunch of AI powered bullshit on Grindr. Definitely not renewing my subscription. There’s just too much god damn spam on there now to also have to be used as fodder for AI development.
September 18, 2025 at 5:38 PM
Just opted out of a bunch of AI powered bullshit on Grindr. Definitely not renewing my subscription. There’s just too much god damn spam on there now to also have to be used as fodder for AI development.
I may let him cum inside me.
August 29, 2025 at 9:49 PM
I may let him cum inside me.
Just did a big clear out of my “following” list on here. Probably a few more to go. I want to try and build some community on here, not just ogle random people’s smutty pics.
I mean, I want to ogle smut pics but not JUST that. 😃
I mean, I want to ogle smut pics but not JUST that. 😃
August 27, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Just did a big clear out of my “following” list on here. Probably a few more to go. I want to try and build some community on here, not just ogle random people’s smutty pics.
I mean, I want to ogle smut pics but not JUST that. 😃
I mean, I want to ogle smut pics but not JUST that. 😃
I got fucked really, really well yesterday by a friend of mine and I’d love to tell you all about it… while you take your turn fucking me.
July 30, 2025 at 1:52 PM
I got fucked really, really well yesterday by a friend of mine and I’d love to tell you all about it… while you take your turn fucking me.
Damn. I need to engage with more guys on here.
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July 13, 2025 at 3:36 PM
Damn. I need to engage with more guys on here.
One of my pet peeves about chatting with guys on Grindr is the word “fun”. If I ask “what are you looking for?”, I am looking for specifics. I already want to fuck you. Tell me HOW you want to fuck. “Fun” is like answering “what do you want for dinner? by saying “food”.
July 12, 2025 at 3:10 PM
One of my pet peeves about chatting with guys on Grindr is the word “fun”. If I ask “what are you looking for?”, I am looking for specifics. I already want to fuck you. Tell me HOW you want to fuck. “Fun” is like answering “what do you want for dinner? by saying “food”.
Not offering to fuck me is pretty homophobic.
June 29, 2025 at 11:43 PM
Not offering to fuck me is pretty homophobic.
If your account is following 56k users, yes, I’m gonna block you.
June 18, 2025 at 7:38 PM
If your account is following 56k users, yes, I’m gonna block you.
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I’m too old to call my hole a “bussy”.
What’s the correct portmanteau for “middle aged man pussy”?
Let’s worship some ideas. My suggestion is “MUNT”.
What’s the correct portmanteau for “middle aged man pussy”?
Let’s worship some ideas. My suggestion is “MUNT”.
August 6, 2023 at 2:31 AM
I’m too old to call my hole a “bussy”.
What’s the correct portmanteau for “middle aged man pussy”?
Let’s worship some ideas. My suggestion is “MUNT”.
What’s the correct portmanteau for “middle aged man pussy”?
Let’s worship some ideas. My suggestion is “MUNT”.
Happy Pride Month, Bluesky!
I am unconcerned with whether you pull your dick out or strap your dick on… or whether you have a dick at all. If you’re cute and nerdy, I just want you to use me.
June 4, 2025 at 3:55 PM
Happy Pride Month, Bluesky!
Please tell me there’s a drag king or maybe just a bad garage band somewhere named “Bort Simpson”.
June 4, 2025 at 1:31 PM
Please tell me there’s a drag king or maybe just a bad garage band somewhere named “Bort Simpson”.
Why are the overwhelming majority of the guys who DO contact me on Grindr so fucking incapable of respecting what I’ve written in my bio. Why are so many of them incapable of just READING what I’ve written in my bio.
Ugh… being single fucking SUCKS.
Ugh… being single fucking SUCKS.
June 2, 2025 at 11:23 PM
Why are the overwhelming majority of the guys who DO contact me on Grindr so fucking incapable of respecting what I’ve written in my bio. Why are so many of them incapable of just READING what I’ve written in my bio.
Ugh… being single fucking SUCKS.
Ugh… being single fucking SUCKS.
I think I’m going to start ending more conversations with “show me that dick later”.
June 2, 2025 at 9:50 PM
I think I’m going to start ending more conversations with “show me that dick later”.
Contemplating putting a facepic on my Grindr profile. My goal is to find something ongoing or maybe even a relationship. Would I have better luck with a facepic or would I just be opening myself up to more messages from more/bigger weirdos?
May 27, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Contemplating putting a facepic on my Grindr profile. My goal is to find something ongoing or maybe even a relationship. Would I have better luck with a facepic or would I just be opening myself up to more messages from more/bigger weirdos?
What is this thing on Grindr where someone taps you and you message them to say “Thanks for the tap. How are you?” and they just never respond?
Is it all just bots?
Is it all just bots?
May 25, 2025 at 3:11 PM
What is this thing on Grindr where someone taps you and you message them to say “Thanks for the tap. How are you?” and they just never respond?
Is it all just bots?
Is it all just bots?