Nicole Hate
@iamnicolehate.bsky.social
Gen X rebel & straight-shooting truth-teller! I help recovering good girls claim their sacred sovereignty & ignite their rebel spirit. Done playing small? Let's chat! Come on bad girl, get on my mailing list. https://tinyurl.com/forthegoodgirls
Took a break from here because this place feels more political. Not something I need in my life.
Has the vibe shifted since I was last here?
I feel like this is probably going to just be an echo into the void but prove me wrong.
Has the vibe shifted since I was last here?
I feel like this is probably going to just be an echo into the void but prove me wrong.
April 4, 2025 at 12:49 AM
Took a break from here because this place feels more political. Not something I need in my life.
Has the vibe shifted since I was last here?
I feel like this is probably going to just be an echo into the void but prove me wrong.
Has the vibe shifted since I was last here?
I feel like this is probably going to just be an echo into the void but prove me wrong.
This is the life, attending my first The Real Twin Peaks event.
February 22, 2025 at 7:01 PM
This is the life, attending my first The Real Twin Peaks event.
Truth bomb: You were born worthy. Period.
That voice saying "after I achieve X" or "once I prove myself"? It's lying.
You're not working toward worthiness.
You're working FROM it.
Stop auditioning for your life.
Your worth isn't earned—it's INHERENT.
Move like that's fact.
That voice saying "after I achieve X" or "once I prove myself"? It's lying.
You're not working toward worthiness.
You're working FROM it.
Stop auditioning for your life.
Your worth isn't earned—it's INHERENT.
Move like that's fact.
January 31, 2025 at 1:06 AM
Truth bomb: You were born worthy. Period.
That voice saying "after I achieve X" or "once I prove myself"? It's lying.
You're not working toward worthiness.
You're working FROM it.
Stop auditioning for your life.
Your worth isn't earned—it's INHERENT.
Move like that's fact.
That voice saying "after I achieve X" or "once I prove myself"? It's lying.
You're not working toward worthiness.
You're working FROM it.
Stop auditioning for your life.
Your worth isn't earned—it's INHERENT.
Move like that's fact.
So we've got a Secretary of Defense nominee with assault allegations, work-hour drinking issues, failed orgs, & policy flip-flops... and the defense is "but what about drunk senators?" 🤔
The "others do bad things too" excuse died in kindergarten. We can do better.
The "others do bad things too" excuse died in kindergarten. We can do better.
January 15, 2025 at 6:17 PM
So we've got a Secretary of Defense nominee with assault allegations, work-hour drinking issues, failed orgs, & policy flip-flops... and the defense is "but what about drunk senators?" 🤔
The "others do bad things too" excuse died in kindergarten. We can do better.
The "others do bad things too" excuse died in kindergarten. We can do better.
Ladies, your middle years aren't about filling voids - they're about recognizing the wisdom you've gathered. Every role, every transition has added to your story. You're not just growing older - you're growing more authentically you. Your next sacred act awaits.
January 9, 2025 at 7:27 PM
Ladies, your middle years aren't about filling voids - they're about recognizing the wisdom you've gathered. Every role, every transition has added to your story. You're not just growing older - you're growing more authentically you. Your next sacred act awaits.
Dear men in power: While you're busy explaining birth canals and plotting fantasy coups, remember there are 11.64M women ready to flip your table.
The bar for men is so low it's a tripping hazard, yet here you are, limboing under it. Maybe rethink that domestic violence hire.
The bar for men is so low it's a tripping hazard, yet here you are, limboing under it. Maybe rethink that domestic violence hire.
January 8, 2025 at 4:31 PM
Dear men in power: While you're busy explaining birth canals and plotting fantasy coups, remember there are 11.64M women ready to flip your table.
The bar for men is so low it's a tripping hazard, yet here you are, limboing under it. Maybe rethink that domestic violence hire.
The bar for men is so low it's a tripping hazard, yet here you are, limboing under it. Maybe rethink that domestic violence hire.
Hey new friends! Watching the other apps slowly lose it while building my crew here. Don't worry - I'm staying to watch their chaos unfold, but making this spot my new home base.
I've got thoughts. And zero interest in keeping them polite anymore The louder we get, the harder we are to ignore.
I've got thoughts. And zero interest in keeping them polite anymore The louder we get, the harder we are to ignore.
January 8, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Hey new friends! Watching the other apps slowly lose it while building my crew here. Don't worry - I'm staying to watch their chaos unfold, but making this spot my new home base.
I've got thoughts. And zero interest in keeping them polite anymore The louder we get, the harder we are to ignore.
I've got thoughts. And zero interest in keeping them polite anymore The louder we get, the harder we are to ignore.
Client just pulled a vanishing act on our meeting. Could be plotting revenge... OR I could channel this energy into some quality time with my book. Look at me choosing personal growth over professional grudges.
January 7, 2025 at 7:35 PM
Client just pulled a vanishing act on our meeting. Could be plotting revenge... OR I could channel this energy into some quality time with my book. Look at me choosing personal growth over professional grudges.
Imagine trying to overthrow democracy but you just end up being a footnote on my birth certificate
Today, January 6th, I celebrate 50 years of serving birthday cake, zero years of serving time.
Just saying.
Every year I'll note my calendar...
Oh look, it's still MY day. Keep seething MAGA.
Today, January 6th, I celebrate 50 years of serving birthday cake, zero years of serving time.
Just saying.
Every year I'll note my calendar...
Oh look, it's still MY day. Keep seething MAGA.
January 6, 2025 at 4:05 PM
Imagine trying to overthrow democracy but you just end up being a footnote on my birth certificate
Today, January 6th, I celebrate 50 years of serving birthday cake, zero years of serving time.
Just saying.
Every year I'll note my calendar...
Oh look, it's still MY day. Keep seething MAGA.
Today, January 6th, I celebrate 50 years of serving birthday cake, zero years of serving time.
Just saying.
Every year I'll note my calendar...
Oh look, it's still MY day. Keep seething MAGA.
An exec murdered in Manhattan, and social media's first response? "They denied my kid's chemo meds."
When your business model is "profit from suffering," don't be shocked when people snap.
Corporate greed wrapped in insurance-speak is still just greed.
When your business model is "profit from suffering," don't be shocked when people snap.
Corporate greed wrapped in insurance-speak is still just greed.
December 21, 2024 at 5:53 PM
An exec murdered in Manhattan, and social media's first response? "They denied my kid's chemo meds."
When your business model is "profit from suffering," don't be shocked when people snap.
Corporate greed wrapped in insurance-speak is still just greed.
When your business model is "profit from suffering," don't be shocked when people snap.
Corporate greed wrapped in insurance-speak is still just greed.
Dear Mommies of Problematic Men™️:
Your grown son doesn't need you doing PR cleanup on talk shows or retracting emails about his bad behavior.
The 1950s called - they want their "boys will be boys" excuses back. Let your precious baby face the consequences he earned.
Your grown son doesn't need you doing PR cleanup on talk shows or retracting emails about his bad behavior.
The 1950s called - they want their "boys will be boys" excuses back. Let your precious baby face the consequences he earned.
December 20, 2024 at 10:36 PM
Dear Mommies of Problematic Men™️:
Your grown son doesn't need you doing PR cleanup on talk shows or retracting emails about his bad behavior.
The 1950s called - they want their "boys will be boys" excuses back. Let your precious baby face the consequences he earned.
Your grown son doesn't need you doing PR cleanup on talk shows or retracting emails about his bad behavior.
The 1950s called - they want their "boys will be boys" excuses back. Let your precious baby face the consequences he earned.
History's best plot twist? Every 'unstoppable' empire has an expiration date.
The bigger the ego, the harder they crash. The more rings they demand you kiss, the closer they are to collapse.
Empires built on ego are houses of cards.
And baby, it's getting windy out there.
The bigger the ego, the harder they crash. The more rings they demand you kiss, the closer they are to collapse.
Empires built on ego are houses of cards.
And baby, it's getting windy out there.
December 19, 2024 at 1:05 PM
History's best plot twist? Every 'unstoppable' empire has an expiration date.
The bigger the ego, the harder they crash. The more rings they demand you kiss, the closer they are to collapse.
Empires built on ego are houses of cards.
And baby, it's getting windy out there.
The bigger the ego, the harder they crash. The more rings they demand you kiss, the closer they are to collapse.
Empires built on ego are houses of cards.
And baby, it's getting windy out there.
Mean girl games on social media? The patriarchy thanks you for your free labor.
Remember when they made you feel small? Now you're doing their work.
We survived the 80s and 90s for this?
Put down the petty. Pick up your power. 🔥
Remember when they made you feel small? Now you're doing their work.
We survived the 80s and 90s for this?
Put down the petty. Pick up your power. 🔥
December 19, 2024 at 1:21 AM
Mean girl games on social media? The patriarchy thanks you for your free labor.
Remember when they made you feel small? Now you're doing their work.
We survived the 80s and 90s for this?
Put down the petty. Pick up your power. 🔥
Remember when they made you feel small? Now you're doing their work.
We survived the 80s and 90s for this?
Put down the petty. Pick up your power. 🔥
Let me give a brief introduction to the world of me. I'm that 'talks too much' girl from every report card who now gets paid to speak truth to power. I help Gen X women turn their inner critic into their biggest cheerleader. Born to break rules, born to lead revolutions. Worth following? Watch me.
December 18, 2024 at 6:51 PM
Let me give a brief introduction to the world of me. I'm that 'talks too much' girl from every report card who now gets paid to speak truth to power. I help Gen X women turn their inner critic into their biggest cheerleader. Born to break rules, born to lead revolutions. Worth following? Watch me.
🔥 Listen up, Gen X Babes! 🔥
Tired of trying to find your tribe in a sea of MAGA hats? The Silver Sirens is your f*cking sanctuary. We're building a progressive sisterhood of badass women who know that life (and resistance) is better with friends.
Tired of trying to find your tribe in a sea of MAGA hats? The Silver Sirens is your f*cking sanctuary. We're building a progressive sisterhood of badass women who know that life (and resistance) is better with friends.
December 9, 2024 at 7:14 PM
🔥 Listen up, Gen X Babes! 🔥
Tired of trying to find your tribe in a sea of MAGA hats? The Silver Sirens is your f*cking sanctuary. We're building a progressive sisterhood of badass women who know that life (and resistance) is better with friends.
Tired of trying to find your tribe in a sea of MAGA hats? The Silver Sirens is your f*cking sanctuary. We're building a progressive sisterhood of badass women who know that life (and resistance) is better with friends.
HOT TAKE: Y'all spending more time defending "Merry Christmas" than actually living like Christ. Last I checked, Jesus wasn't organizing protests outside Starbucks—He was feeding the poor and flipping tables in corrupt temples. But sure, Karen, tell me more about that war on Christmas.
December 3, 2024 at 1:44 PM
HOT TAKE: Y'all spending more time defending "Merry Christmas" than actually living like Christ. Last I checked, Jesus wasn't organizing protests outside Starbucks—He was feeding the poor and flipping tables in corrupt temples. But sure, Karen, tell me more about that war on Christmas.
A little early start to your Christmas season. This is your first of many reminders to come.
It's a Wonderful Life is on USA at 8pm EST tonight.
You're welcome and hee haw!
It's a Wonderful Life is on USA at 8pm EST tonight.
You're welcome and hee haw!
November 21, 2024 at 3:01 PM
A little early start to your Christmas season. This is your first of many reminders to come.
It's a Wonderful Life is on USA at 8pm EST tonight.
You're welcome and hee haw!
It's a Wonderful Life is on USA at 8pm EST tonight.
You're welcome and hee haw!
This will probably mess wirh my algorithm but who cares!
My daughter and her boyfriend are having a 1st birthday party for their dog. I'm looking for handmade gifts or treats.
What do you have for me?
My daughter and her boyfriend are having a 1st birthday party for their dog. I'm looking for handmade gifts or treats.
What do you have for me?
November 17, 2024 at 2:32 PM
This will probably mess wirh my algorithm but who cares!
My daughter and her boyfriend are having a 1st birthday party for their dog. I'm looking for handmade gifts or treats.
What do you have for me?
My daughter and her boyfriend are having a 1st birthday party for their dog. I'm looking for handmade gifts or treats.
What do you have for me?
While planting bulbs in my flower beds this afternoon, got a cosmic download for some Black Friday fun.
If you know me, I don't do normal. But this is going to be a real kick in the ass.
Follow me here for more teasing.
If you know me, I don't do normal. But this is going to be a real kick in the ass.
Follow me here for more teasing.
November 16, 2024 at 10:26 PM
While planting bulbs in my flower beds this afternoon, got a cosmic download for some Black Friday fun.
If you know me, I don't do normal. But this is going to be a real kick in the ass.
Follow me here for more teasing.
If you know me, I don't do normal. But this is going to be a real kick in the ass.
Follow me here for more teasing.
Happy Saturday! Having fun here but always could use some more followers. I got bills to pay and they probably are only going to get more expensive under TFG and his circus.
But you can follow if you enjoy a snarky Gen X woman with a love of f bombs and dreams of dismantling the patrichary.
But you can follow if you enjoy a snarky Gen X woman with a love of f bombs and dreams of dismantling the patrichary.
November 16, 2024 at 1:42 PM
Happy Saturday! Having fun here but always could use some more followers. I got bills to pay and they probably are only going to get more expensive under TFG and his circus.
But you can follow if you enjoy a snarky Gen X woman with a love of f bombs and dreams of dismantling the patrichary.
But you can follow if you enjoy a snarky Gen X woman with a love of f bombs and dreams of dismantling the patrichary.
Just fired my OB and I'm not even sorry about it.
After years of getting the medical runaround for menopause (you know the one - pat on the head, generic advice, zero solutions), I finally snapped.
Found someone who actually gasp listened to me for more than 5 minutes. We begin on Monday.
After years of getting the medical runaround for menopause (you know the one - pat on the head, generic advice, zero solutions), I finally snapped.
Found someone who actually gasp listened to me for more than 5 minutes. We begin on Monday.
November 15, 2024 at 1:37 PM
Just fired my OB and I'm not even sorry about it.
After years of getting the medical runaround for menopause (you know the one - pat on the head, generic advice, zero solutions), I finally snapped.
Found someone who actually gasp listened to me for more than 5 minutes. We begin on Monday.
After years of getting the medical runaround for menopause (you know the one - pat on the head, generic advice, zero solutions), I finally snapped.
Found someone who actually gasp listened to me for more than 5 minutes. We begin on Monday.
I need a Fix Your Hearts or Die t shirt in the times we're living in. (If you get it, you're my people)
My goal today will be to shop online to find one. And clean, but that's not fun just adulting. 😆😆😆
My goal today will be to shop online to find one. And clean, but that's not fun just adulting. 😆😆😆
November 14, 2024 at 1:36 PM
I need a Fix Your Hearts or Die t shirt in the times we're living in. (If you get it, you're my people)
My goal today will be to shop online to find one. And clean, but that's not fun just adulting. 😆😆😆
My goal today will be to shop online to find one. And clean, but that's not fun just adulting. 😆😆😆
My official paperwork arrived today. I am ordained. If you're in the Central PA area needing an officiant, here I am. Services available to all including LGBTQIA+ community members.
November 13, 2024 at 7:37 PM
My official paperwork arrived today. I am ordained. If you're in the Central PA area needing an officiant, here I am. Services available to all including LGBTQIA+ community members.
In my FAFO business era I finally came out of self imposed inner work feeling the need to share my thoughts with my mailing list.
Included was a warm welcome for anyone to unsubscribe if our values didn't align. No hard feelings. I am not one size fits all. I am not for everyone.
😁😁😁
November 13, 2024 at 1:17 PM
In my FAFO business era I finally came out of self imposed inner work feeling the need to share my thoughts with my mailing list.
Included was a warm welcome for anyone to unsubscribe if our values didn't align. No hard feelings. I am not one size fits all. I am not for everyone.
😁😁😁