fellow nsfw creative speaking out is all well and good but we need to make them realize actions against us offend the world at large. Please use your voice and put in customer service calls, call your reps, please back us

moslty no one wants to pay money for someone without tits and without a dick. its fine, i guess. i did ok, but i do more writing.

i had no doubts bc ive wanted it since i grew them but it WAS pretty much the end of my career in sex work because. well. 🤷‍♀️

and if you see yourself in this, if this looks like a mirror, then i will say it: yours had a choice, too. they chose wrong. and if they refuse to admit that or be sorry or try to do better, then you don't owe them anything.

becoming a caregiver gave me such newfound anger and grief over how i was treated because it let me see that when /I/ am frustrated or upset or don't know how to handle something that /I/ do not choose the same behaviours as mine did.

it makes me fucking INSANE with grief. they HAD a choice.

and ykw else??? when you fucking fuck up, don't make excuses for yourself.

apologize. explain in terms they can understand why you had a big feeling. tell them explicitly that it is not their fucking fault.

those are reasons, but they're not excuses, and they're not based in fact.

it is in fact so easy to treat children with kindness and to mirror examples of the behaviour and spirit you are trying to instill in them. raising children is not easy, but being kind to them IS.

and to be clear, putting feminity up on a pedestal like that is bioessentialist misogyny with a feminist coat of paint. it is not intersectional or based on true, expansive thought. if you chip the paint even a little, it's the same fucking misogyny as always.

and when i say ppl i am including queer ppl. ive gotten so much crap from people who wanted to fuck me and were mad that MY goals for MY body (liking it) were not the same as THEIR goals for my body (seeing as fuckable, feminine, and fertile).

also frankly i am not fucking ugly. i am just not attractive to people attracted to women and femininity. and i dont WANT to be!! but ppl see that as impossible. bc we put femininity up on a pedestal, and people can not fathom someone who "could" have it would reject it.

plenty of other queer people think "T will make you fat and bald, testosterone is the violence hormone, your partner will leave you once they stop perceiving you as A Cis Girl With Pronouns" is a totally acceptable thing to wield against transmasc people they don't like or find attractive lol

he's a spineless coward anyway and i could spit on his face i'd say i would but tbh that's a privilege he does not deserve.

i dont have anything solid at the moment, but i am sure i'll release SOMETHING considering i put out a half dozen short stories/novelettes this year.

Because when pregnancy is the ultimate way to forcibly detransition someone - physically and societally - by forcing them into motherhood and the maternal

People choosing pregnancy on their own terms threatens the value of that as a tactic, and waters down its impact as a ruination of autonomy