I used to think growing up without money, watching my parents struggle, and making mistakes was a disadvantage.
Then business got hard and I realized: I don't break.
Because I've already survived harder.
I used to think growing up without money, watching my parents struggle, and making mistakes was a disadvantage.
Then business got hard and I realized: I don't break.
Because I've already survived harder.
You see their highlight reel. You don't see their 3am anxiety, their failed attempts, what they sacrificed.
Stop comparing your chapter 1 to someone else's chapter 20.
You see their highlight reel. You don't see their 3am anxiety, their failed attempts, what they sacrificed.
Stop comparing your chapter 1 to someone else's chapter 20.
That's why we win.
You have to be slightly mad to build something from nothing while everyone tells you to get the degree, get the job, get the pension, play it safe.
But we see opportunities where they see risk.
Possibility where they see problems.
That's why we win.
You have to be slightly mad to build something from nothing while everyone tells you to get the degree, get the job, get the pension, play it safe.
But we see opportunities where they see risk.
Possibility where they see problems.
Stopped announcing plans. Started protecting my peace.
They can't doubt what they don't know.
They can't copy what they can't see.
They can't stop what they haven't heard.
Everyone says "build in public" but the smartest builders I know? Built in silence. Shared the results.
Stopped announcing plans. Started protecting my peace.
They can't doubt what they don't know.
They can't copy what they can't see.
They can't stop what they haven't heard.
Everyone says "build in public" but the smartest builders I know? Built in silence. Shared the results.
That's it. That's the whole entrepreneurship formula.
Nobody's posting about crying in their car at 2am but we've ALL been there.
That's it. That's the whole entrepreneurship formula.
Nobody's posting about crying in their car at 2am but we've ALL been there.
not your income
not your spending
your ANXIETY
here's the brutal part—
stress hormones shut down logical thinking
so when you're anxious about money you:
not your income
not your spending
your ANXIETY
here's the brutal part—
stress hormones shut down logical thinking
so when you're anxious about money you:
your broken past isn't your disadvantage
it's literally your unfair advantage
grew up watching my parents struggle. thought it disqualified me.
turns out it gave me hunger, resilience, and perspective that people who had it easy will never have.
your broken past isn't your disadvantage
it's literally your unfair advantage
grew up watching my parents struggle. thought it disqualified me.
turns out it gave me hunger, resilience, and perspective that people who had it easy will never have.
you check your phone 144 times a day (yes, you specifically, the data doesn't lie) and then wonder why you're not building anything meaningful
you check your phone 144 times a day (yes, you specifically, the data doesn't lie) and then wonder why you're not building anything meaningful
less than 10 weeks left and y'all are already warming up the same post from january 1st 2025
less than 10 weeks left and y'all are already warming up the same post from january 1st 2025
we spend 40 years perfecting someone else's vision then wonder why we feel empty
you're already working this hard anyway
might as well own the outcome
we spend 40 years perfecting someone else's vision then wonder why we feel empty
you're already working this hard anyway
might as well own the outcome
Rich people have the same bills. They just built multiple streams instead of trading hours.
It's not a money problem. It's cash flow.
Rich people have the same bills. They just built multiple streams instead of trading hours.
It's not a money problem. It's cash flow.
Stop chasing validation, shortcuts, and distractions.
Start building the product—YOU.
Skills. Discipline. Character. Value.
Build your empire. Everything else follows.
Harsh truth, but it's the way out.
Stop chasing validation, shortcuts, and distractions.
Start building the product—YOU.
Skills. Discipline. Character. Value.
Build your empire. Everything else follows.
Harsh truth, but it's the way out.
That voice saying everything is falling apart? That's your amygdala hijacking your rational brain. It's neuroscience, not truth.
New rule: 48-hour decision ban after emotional lows.
Temporary software glitch ≠ permanent hardware failure.
Wait. Then decide.
That voice saying everything is falling apart? That's your amygdala hijacking your rational brain. It's neuroscience, not truth.
New rule: 48-hour decision ban after emotional lows.
Temporary software glitch ≠ permanent hardware failure.
Wait. Then decide.
If everyone around you agrees with everything you say and never challenges you, they're not helping you grow—they're keeping you comfortable.
If everyone around you agrees with everything you say and never challenges you, they're not helping you grow—they're keeping you comfortable.
Ouch. But fair.
The hardest part isn't identifying your excuses—it's admitting they're excuses and not "valid reasons."
Most of my "I don't have time" is actually "I'd rather do something easier."
Restraint is uncomfortable. That's the point.
Ouch. But fair.
The hardest part isn't identifying your excuses—it's admitting they're excuses and not "valid reasons."
Most of my "I don't have time" is actually "I'd rather do something easier."
Restraint is uncomfortable. That's the point.
#MensMentalHealth #ToxicMasculinity #EmotionalWellness #MasculinityRedefined #MensWellbeing
#MensMentalHealth #ToxicMasculinity #EmotionalWellness #MasculinityRedefined #MensWellbeing
Harsh truth: You can be alive and dead at the same time. Breathing but not living. Present but absent from your own life.
The scariest part? You won't even notice when it happens.
Harsh truth: You can be alive and dead at the same time. Breathing but not living. Present but absent from your own life.
The scariest part? You won't even notice when it happens.
African proverb that basically means: when someone risks everything to warn you about danger they've experienced firsthand, maybe shut up and listen.
We're terrible at this.
African proverb that basically means: when someone risks everything to warn you about danger they've experienced firsthand, maybe shut up and listen.
We're terrible at this.
Both can be true. Neither is optional if you actually want to enjoy the money you're making.
Hustle smarter: feed both accounts.
Both can be true. Neither is optional if you actually want to enjoy the money you're making.
Hustle smarter: feed both accounts.
your response to what happens matters infinitely more than what actually happened
why is this so hard to remember in the moment though
your response to what happens matters infinitely more than what actually happened
why is this so hard to remember in the moment though
Anyway, that's how I'm dealing with nonsense this year. Less clapping back, more altitude. ✈️
Anyway, that's how I'm dealing with nonsense this year. Less clapping back, more altitude. ✈️
Wins teach you what worked once. Failures teach you how to adapt, pivot, and become unbreakable.
The most successful people didn't avoid failure—they just got really good at getting back up.
Wins teach you what worked once. Failures teach you how to adapt, pivot, and become unbreakable.
The most successful people didn't avoid failure—they just got really good at getting back up.
Your ambition forces them to confront their own complacency. That's not your problem to fix.
Your ambition forces them to confront their own complacency. That's not your problem to fix.
Most people get one shot. The rich get eight. That's not a meritocracy—that's math.
Build the runway first, then take off.
Most people get one shot. The rich get eight. That's not a meritocracy—that's math.
Build the runway first, then take off.
Your stuff disappears. Your legacy doesn't.
Maybe we should stop building portfolios and start building impact.
Your stuff disappears. Your legacy doesn't.
Maybe we should stop building portfolios and start building impact.