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· Apr 21
Yokoso, otoko no sekai.
Applied for a job at an Indian multinational entertainment company and they're really impressed by me. The HR told me they'd have a meeting with me today but didn't give a specific time.
The day is done and the meeting hasn't happened. This does not bode well.
The day is done and the meeting hasn't happened. This does not bode well.
November 28, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Applied for a job at an Indian multinational entertainment company and they're really impressed by me. The HR told me they'd have a meeting with me today but didn't give a specific time.
The day is done and the meeting hasn't happened. This does not bode well.
The day is done and the meeting hasn't happened. This does not bode well.
Shida yao indeed.
Seems like I transferred my poor relationship decisions to my homies.
Shida yao tbh.
Shida yao tbh.
November 25, 2025 at 4:13 PM
Shida yao indeed.
Seems like I transferred my poor relationship decisions to my homies.
Shida yao tbh.
Shida yao tbh.
November 11, 2025 at 3:20 PM
Seems like I transferred my poor relationship decisions to my homies.
Shida yao tbh.
Shida yao tbh.
Spent the long weekend doing things by myself and I loved it.
October 20, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Spent the long weekend doing things by myself and I loved it.
I'm this close 🤏🏾 to abandoning all hope.
October 14, 2025 at 9:44 AM
I'm this close 🤏🏾 to abandoning all hope.
Started reading a manga called Orb: On The Movements Of The Earth and it has been a very philosophical time.
October 1, 2025 at 9:32 AM
Started reading a manga called Orb: On The Movements Of The Earth and it has been a very philosophical time.
I actually can't wait for my review of Labor of Love to be published, it's definitely the best thing I've ever written.
It's amazing how much better I've gotten at writing this year.
September 5, 2025 at 10:14 PM
I actually can't wait for my review of Labor of Love to be published, it's definitely the best thing I've ever written.
Breaking my rule today, unfortunately.
At the beginning of 2024 I set out a goal, that I won't drink, smoke or do drugs in the house. Those are outside things. Home is a place of calm minds and clarity.
Very happy to say that I was successful in this and I have developed a habit that I will keep with me forever.
Very happy to say that I was successful in this and I have developed a habit that I will keep with me forever.
September 5, 2025 at 10:07 PM
Breaking my rule today, unfortunately.
Google photos reminded me of this and I'm just glad I have Patricia in my life. She met me when I was going through a lot and she became a pole star of sorts.
I asked the universe for a friend and it sent the best one. She will never see this but she really influenced my life for the positive.
I asked the universe for a friend and it sent the best one. She will never see this but she really influenced my life for the positive.
September 5, 2025 at 9:47 PM
Google photos reminded me of this and I'm just glad I have Patricia in my life. She met me when I was going through a lot and she became a pole star of sorts.
I asked the universe for a friend and it sent the best one. She will never see this but she really influenced my life for the positive.
I asked the universe for a friend and it sent the best one. She will never see this but she really influenced my life for the positive.
It's amazing how much better I've gotten at writing this year.
September 3, 2025 at 7:23 AM
It's amazing how much better I've gotten at writing this year.
How lucky am I
That I can see now what I couldn't see then.
That rejection held me like a redirection.
That I ended up with what I needed not what I wanted.
That the universe removed all the darkness from around me.
That I can see now what I couldn't see then.
That rejection held me like a redirection.
That I ended up with what I needed not what I wanted.
That the universe removed all the darkness from around me.
August 19, 2025 at 5:05 PM
How lucky am I
That I can see now what I couldn't see then.
That rejection held me like a redirection.
That I ended up with what I needed not what I wanted.
That the universe removed all the darkness from around me.
That I can see now what I couldn't see then.
That rejection held me like a redirection.
That I ended up with what I needed not what I wanted.
That the universe removed all the darkness from around me.
There's always something to look forward to and something to be grateful for.
August 12, 2025 at 6:56 PM
There's always something to look forward to and something to be grateful for.
Once I realised that it was all just straightforward standard selfishness, a lot of things started to make sense.
August 7, 2025 at 9:15 PM
Once I realised that it was all just straightforward standard selfishness, a lot of things started to make sense.
Learning to take offense.
August 4, 2025 at 9:12 PM
Learning to take offense.
The beer, the shots, the food, the music, the friends. What a lovely day to be in Nairobi.
Also the women in here are the most beautiful I've ever seen
Also the women in here are the most beautiful I've ever seen
July 26, 2025 at 4:15 PM
The beer, the shots, the food, the music, the friends. What a lovely day to be in Nairobi.
Also the women in here are the most beautiful I've ever seen
Also the women in here are the most beautiful I've ever seen
In rather unfortunate circumstances, I'm helping some friends of the family do an audit on their sister, who is currently not mentally well. She was always so nice and kind to me when she lived in Malindi, so it really hurts me how much the people she always helped are stealing from her.
July 24, 2025 at 5:43 PM
In rather unfortunate circumstances, I'm helping some friends of the family do an audit on their sister, who is currently not mentally well. She was always so nice and kind to me when she lived in Malindi, so it really hurts me how much the people she always helped are stealing from her.
Never been a coward but hopefully I'll be back here tomorrow to post photos from the protests.
June 24, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Never been a coward but hopefully I'll be back here tomorrow to post photos from the protests.
Saturday night at Alchemist was exactly what the doctor ordered.
June 16, 2025 at 7:58 AM
Saturday night at Alchemist was exactly what the doctor ordered.
June 9, 2025 at 1:17 PM
In the midst of asking myself why I have given my partner so many chances despite her always letting me down, I realised I was turning into someone I pitied.
That was the kick I needed, because god forbid I turn into that.
That was the kick I needed, because god forbid I turn into that.
June 5, 2025 at 4:27 PM
In the midst of asking myself why I have given my partner so many chances despite her always letting me down, I realised I was turning into someone I pitied.
That was the kick I needed, because god forbid I turn into that.
That was the kick I needed, because god forbid I turn into that.
One of them was caught cheating. The friend group is in shambles right now
I learned the most important lesson about happiness recently.
Anyway, the friend group has started dating each other, this will end very badly.
Anyway, the friend group has started dating each other, this will end very badly.
May 18, 2025 at 5:05 PM
One of them was caught cheating. The friend group is in shambles right now
I learned the most important lesson about happiness recently.
Anyway, the friend group has started dating each other, this will end very badly.
Anyway, the friend group has started dating each other, this will end very badly.
May 12, 2025 at 11:50 AM
I learned the most important lesson about happiness recently.
Anyway, the friend group has started dating each other, this will end very badly.
Anyway, the friend group has started dating each other, this will end very badly.
10 days on ashwaghanda and my anxiety is generally gone but good lord my libido is on 100 percent.
May 4, 2025 at 1:11 PM
10 days on ashwaghanda and my anxiety is generally gone but good lord my libido is on 100 percent.
April has been unbelievably garbage but I'm glad to have little pockets of joy that make life worth living.
Like looking forward to watching Sinners on Friday then hitting the club after because my friend is hosting.
Like looking forward to watching Sinners on Friday then hitting the club after because my friend is hosting.
April 23, 2025 at 11:08 AM
April has been unbelievably garbage but I'm glad to have little pockets of joy that make life worth living.
Like looking forward to watching Sinners on Friday then hitting the club after because my friend is hosting.
Like looking forward to watching Sinners on Friday then hitting the club after because my friend is hosting.