AuDHD. Talk about autism, some politics, and social care. #BetterWaysThanABA
For the past few years I’ve been coming to terms with the fact I’m not going to live as long as any of my friends from the constant stress I’m under having to ‘overcome my disability’.
Our ignorance of disability is not only ruining people’s lives, it’s killing them
For the past few years I’ve been coming to terms with the fact I’m not going to live as long as any of my friends from the constant stress I’m under having to ‘overcome my disability’.
Our ignorance of disability is not only ruining people’s lives, it’s killing them
I don’t know how I’ll last in any job if disabled people don’t get basic rights.
At this stage you pretty much have to ‘suck up being disabled’ until you pass probation. And even then you’re a problem.
I don’t know how I’ll last in any job if disabled people don’t get basic rights.
At this stage you pretty much have to ‘suck up being disabled’ until you pass probation. And even then you’re a problem.
If the org recognised and accommodated disability (which by law we should be doing) I could attend the meeting online, or a support person could come in the car with me and process the journey/directions etc. so I don’t need to do all the back and forth
If the org recognised and accommodated disability (which by law we should be doing) I could attend the meeting online, or a support person could come in the car with me and process the journey/directions etc. so I don’t need to do all the back and forth
And all of this is done for a meeting which if I don’t have that time in between to recover I’ll be completely burned out for.
For the rest of the day I’ll be on the verge of burnout and masking becomes significantly more difficult.
And all of this is done for a meeting which if I don’t have that time in between to recover I’ll be completely burned out for.
For the rest of the day I’ll be on the verge of burnout and masking becomes significantly more difficult.
I also study the route on Google maps the night before. Look up places to park, look up toilets in the area, and look up other routes for if I get completely overwhelmed and need to get home immediately.
I give myself an extra hour to recover, or if I need to take a break
I also study the route on Google maps the night before. Look up places to park, look up toilets in the area, and look up other routes for if I get completely overwhelmed and need to get home immediately.
I give myself an extra hour to recover, or if I need to take a break
I did this repeatedly until I got close enough to walk to the meeting, making the journey several shorter journeys.
Walking over and back takes so much time and I still get caught in traffic so this system doesn’t completely prevent overwhelm.
I did this repeatedly until I got close enough to walk to the meeting, making the journey several shorter journeys.
Walking over and back takes so much time and I still get caught in traffic so this system doesn’t completely prevent overwhelm.
I got out and walked to the next place I could park, and processed what the journey would look like between these places.
I got out and walked to the next place I could park, and processed what the journey would look like between these places.
I left 4 hours before I needed to be there, drove as close to the city as I could then when overwhelm kicked in I parked somewhere a 100 minute walk away from where I needed to be
I left 4 hours before I needed to be there, drove as close to the city as I could then when overwhelm kicked in I parked somewhere a 100 minute walk away from where I needed to be
Today (again) I was asked to drive into the city…the number 1 thing I’m clear about not being able to do.
This is how I ‘overcame my disability’..🧵
Today (again) I was asked to drive into the city…the number 1 thing I’m clear about not being able to do.
This is how I ‘overcame my disability’..🧵
Will you take a stance against ABA and get it out of our disability services?
Will you take a stance against ABA and get it out of our disability services?
How are we supposed to protect adults from abuse with those numbers?
How are we supposed to protect adults from abuse with those numbers?
What party will,
- Take a stance against ABA
- Promote trainings developed by disabled people (and allies)
- Bring in adult safeguarding laws
- Have a quota for hiring disabled people
- Eradicate oppressive practice
What party will,
- Take a stance against ABA
- Promote trainings developed by disabled people (and allies)
- Bring in adult safeguarding laws
- Have a quota for hiring disabled people
- Eradicate oppressive practice
Not having adult safeguarding laws in 2024 is scandalous.
Not having adult safeguarding laws in 2024 is scandalous.
Priority should be the disabled people first, oppressive policies, and then the paid staff.
Priority should be the disabled people first, oppressive policies, and then the paid staff.
But that shouldn’t stop you from doing your own research/training
But that shouldn’t stop you from doing your own research/training
And far less actually understand disability.
And far less actually understand disability.
But glorifying all staff for the incredible work they do is a stretch.
In 7 years working in adult disability, every service I worked in I saw some level of abuse.
But glorifying all staff for the incredible work they do is a stretch.
In 7 years working in adult disability, every service I worked in I saw some level of abuse.
Both children and adult services is full of ABA, ABA managers, ABA therapists on the ground, multi-d’s, and ABA trainers
Both children and adult services is full of ABA, ABA managers, ABA therapists on the ground, multi-d’s, and ABA trainers