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@gumandnuts.bsky.social
Chronic illness warrior who loves space, nature, and bunnies. Digital artist, painter, and writer. Bi/pansexual, nonbinary she/they
I really crashed out last night. I don't have a lot of friends I can just talk to about every day BS. So I am here.
November 5, 2025 at 10:57 PM
I really crashed out last night. I don't have a lot of friends I can just talk to about every day BS. So I am here.
How do you feel about long distance relationships?
November 5, 2025 at 1:19 PM
How do you feel about long distance relationships?
Come unravel the world with me.
November 5, 2025 at 1:15 PM
Come unravel the world with me.
I'd also just like to make close-by friends
November 5, 2025 at 1:14 PM
I'd also just like to make close-by friends
But only nerdy or LGBTQ+ friendly spaces
November 5, 2025 at 1:13 PM
But only nerdy or LGBTQ+ friendly spaces
Dating apps are trash and I get worried about going out by myself at night. Though I may eventually try it!
November 5, 2025 at 1:13 PM
Dating apps are trash and I get worried about going out by myself at night. Though I may eventually try it!
And if I do meet a cis het man, I'm looking for feminist and not religious!
November 5, 2025 at 1:11 PM
And if I do meet a cis het man, I'm looking for feminist and not religious!
In a sense, I feel brand new, like I've just been born.
November 5, 2025 at 1:02 PM
In a sense, I feel brand new, like I've just been born.
Now that I'm unraveling all of my childhood trauma as well as other traumas, I prefer to be with someone who is at least attempting something similar.
November 5, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Now that I'm unraveling all of my childhood trauma as well as other traumas, I prefer to be with someone who is at least attempting something similar.
As a bi/pansexual nonbinary woman, I've only dated cis het men. (I have been with women though!) As far as men go, I really prefer trans, nonbinary, or bi men. Regular ol' men who are heteronormative or too masc or perform for other men are just not my cup of tea.
November 5, 2025 at 12:59 PM
As a bi/pansexual nonbinary woman, I've only dated cis het men. (I have been with women though!) As far as men go, I really prefer trans, nonbinary, or bi men. Regular ol' men who are heteronormative or too masc or perform for other men are just not my cup of tea.
Why do all the coolest people live so far away?
November 5, 2025 at 12:54 PM
Why do all the coolest people live so far away?
I wonder if I'll ever actually meet someone in touch with their own emotions, someone who doesn't buy into outdated gender stereotypes, and lives freely. And someone who lives nearby, that's the hardest part.
November 5, 2025 at 12:53 PM
I wonder if I'll ever actually meet someone in touch with their own emotions, someone who doesn't buy into outdated gender stereotypes, and lives freely. And someone who lives nearby, that's the hardest part.
I think I'm going to start going out by myself. If I don't make it, just know I'll always love you.
October 27, 2025 at 4:30 AM
I think I'm going to start going out by myself. If I don't make it, just know I'll always love you.
In less than two weeks I'm going to the optometrist to get new glasses. I'm so excited!
October 27, 2025 at 4:23 AM
In less than two weeks I'm going to the optometrist to get new glasses. I'm so excited!
Who wants to be friends?
October 27, 2025 at 4:19 AM
Who wants to be friends?
I also think I may be demisexual. But I'm not certain if it's just age and I'm overall losing my sex drive or I'm demisexual. I can't really be sure while single.
October 27, 2025 at 4:11 AM
I also think I may be demisexual. But I'm not certain if it's just age and I'm overall losing my sex drive or I'm demisexual. I can't really be sure while single.
So, yeah, I'm nonbinary.
October 27, 2025 at 4:08 AM
So, yeah, I'm nonbinary.
These meds I'm on have been working! I've been feeling a little better
October 27, 2025 at 4:06 AM
These meds I'm on have been working! I've been feeling a little better
The push and pull of feelings within
October 27, 2025 at 3:57 AM
The push and pull of feelings within
So has it really come up to this?
October 27, 2025 at 3:10 AM
So has it really come up to this?
Nothing beats clean sheets (technically not pictured)
October 3, 2025 at 4:39 PM
Nothing beats clean sheets (technically not pictured)
I sometimes wish I had friends physically close to me
September 29, 2025 at 1:01 AM
I sometimes wish I had friends physically close to me
Drifting into the abyss
September 29, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Drifting into the abyss
I will figure it out
September 28, 2025 at 1:44 AM
I will figure it out