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grr.bsky.social
obo-bo o-bo-obo
@grr.bsky.social
shiki | 31 | she/they, white
unapologetically gay, will bite

#obobos #shikiartz #obobesties #FerverousMire
my favorite raid member was a 50 smthn cotank who drove pepsi trucks and was chill af. half our wipes were food related mishaps like forgetting to voke bc eating a nacho
November 12, 2025 at 5:44 PM
if we can replace all our democrats with competent ones or a new party, ofc
November 12, 2025 at 5:40 PM
obo isn't one for pda, platonic or otherwise, but if they are comfortable with someone they have no qualms being In Their Personal Space. Sitting down hip to hip when theres room not to, bumping into someone reaching over or around to grab something instead of asking them to grab it, adjusting-
how casual is your OC about showing affection to friends?

just formal handshakes? maybe polite cheek-kisses? lots of little gifts? always paying for their meals? some cozy cuddling? casual sex? do they kiss the homies good night?

how (if at all) does it differ from romantic partners?

#wolqotd
November 12, 2025 at 3:41 PM
tangentially, obo can be really quick to develop a familial bond with people, particularly in the sense of being protective or helping ease a burden, even if they arent particularly close or have similar interests. a bit more of a situational wildcard, something i could try to dissect more
November 12, 2025 at 3:33 PM
i love being a platonic squishy nuisance of a dog to my friendssss
November 12, 2025 at 3:27 PM
hoping you are able to get good rest and treats to find little joys amidst treatments 🫂
November 12, 2025 at 1:42 PM
largely just clicks into place. main difference in their affections leading up to it is passion in making out; hookups or fwb they dont care for more than a standard amount of kissing foreplay or declaring intent for sex.

they also dont really 'date' unless committed with someone
November 12, 2025 at 1:41 PM
can be really physical with, sparring or just sexually. on the flipside, they compartmentalize hookups, bar outings, brothels, and arent able to really befriend someone when the first encounter is sex.

ROMANCE!!!
slow burn bastard. obo doesn't really get crushes. not quite demi, but their love-
November 12, 2025 at 1:41 PM
-someone's gear or fixing up their outfit without asking etc.
not much of a gift giver aside from cooking for people, which is a good giveaway they care when it's a moderate effort meal.
very fwb pilled after they vibe check enough to know they wont catch feelings, and/or if it's someone they-
November 12, 2025 at 1:41 PM
ooo gender thoughts toooo. this definitely stems in part of their defiance of gender norms and rejection of feminity as a young adult, and the subtleties all add up to a portrayal of their newfound confidence. they may be heavy handed at times but it means they trust the person and want to be there
November 12, 2025 at 11:22 AM
health beam
snoopy is wearing a wizard 's hat and dancing in a field .
ALT: snoopy is wearing a wizard 's hat and dancing in a field .
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November 12, 2025 at 11:15 AM
dare i add a crunchy layer of gender breading to the recipe
November 12, 2025 at 8:58 AM
tldr giving ocs the human experience lmao
November 12, 2025 at 4:35 AM
it's fun to cross analyze such fully fledged characters to try and figure out the who/what/why for when they break out of the norm. i can easily make 5 drastically different dynamics for gloria and her husband and theyd all work, but obo? being submissive? emotional? even rarer, both? not up to me
November 12, 2025 at 4:34 AM
it's usually not about control for them; yes, they'll be physically and verbally dominant and want a sub to whimper at their beck and call, but mostly they have a caretaker role. a fervent desire to be someone trustworthy and capable and protective, to feel important to people
November 12, 2025 at 4:29 AM
i hope theres a fever daydream sequel someday
November 12, 2025 at 4:19 AM
holy fuck
November 12, 2025 at 4:16 AM
interested but bed time i fear
November 12, 2025 at 4:13 AM