We need both types of people the way we needed both MLK and Malcolm X—two sides of the same coin, but both were crucial to progress. Sometimes you need the fire, and sometimes you need the grace. Both have their place. Do I need to choose which one or can I do both (rhetorical)

My husband, on the other hand, is like, “Abso-f*cking-lutely not!” He wouldn't spit on them if they were on fire, while I’m over here trying to extend some compassion. Honestly, I think we need both perspectives

But then, I think about the psychology behind being in an abusive relationship or a cult, and I start to understand. To some extent, I get how they were manipulated, and now that they’re finally waking up and crawling out of that “sunken place,” maybe they deserve a little grace

I totally get the urge to say, “That’s what you get,” “FAFO,” “Told you so,” or even “F*ck you.” That’s how I feel. Seeing people now regret their decisions makes me want to leave them out in the cold to deal with the consequences.

I’m someone who believes in forgiveness. I know some people hold grudges and want to get even, and I respect that—it’s just not my style. But when it comes to those who supported Rumplestiltskin -

ok

Yeah I rarely drink tea
But when I do - I’m adding cream unless I’m sick

Oh i do 🫣