mind you the majority of people ostracizing me are nonbinary, lesbians, trans, etc. insanity.

this is why women never speak up. this is why people don’t come forward about bad dudes because you’ll be made to feel crazy.

How this has blown up into what this has is beyond me. I deactivated to keep my mental in check, and probably will again. I don’t know what else to say but that. Thanks!

Haven’t deleted my posts, and won’t. I don’t talk, I don’t post and if I do it’s rarely. I’m nothing more than a lurker the last year and a half. I don’t tweet, I don’t bsky, I rarely talk in streams.

I personally do not like having my name drug through the mud for something I know I didn’t do. Or people speaking for me. No one speaks for me but me. I talk i’m damned, I leave im damned, i speak up, im damned. I cannot win and I’m not going to try.

It’s weird behavior. I’m sorry, it is at least to me. You can hate me, whatever. My posts are free to browse. I stand by everything I said and that’s that. Rico, I’m sorry if you felt is was slut shaming, never my intention not even in the slightest. But I’m not sorry for pointing out your behavior.

i’m aware of the discord and what went down there. the only thing that ik sparked this here on bluesky was some subposts about chatters. how it escalated from that to a banning + a dog pile was like 0-100 really fuckin quick. and i agree! i hope edgy is taking the time they need.

btw not mad at you or anything, 😭 or trying to come off as a bitch, i’m just very worried about my friend and hope they’re doing okay. ik if i was treated the way they were i’d spiral badddd.

then that context needs to be said instead of everyone subtweeting. straight up. if we wanna publicly shame someone we can also add some context. all i see is someone struggling and a dog pile landing right on them.

i didn’t see any encouragement of help come out of bluesky the other day. maybe behind the scenes, in a private way that’s none of our business, but publicly? no. high and mighty for what? now they’re gone with zero community or friends to help in their lows. im not mad at you, just frustrated.

i also know what addiction looks like. and you will never get someone in addiction any help by belittling them. addiction makes people nasty, mean, makes them say shit they shouldn’t. no excuse. should they be held accountable? absolutely 100%. they were absolutely in the wrong.

I don’t know who was enabling them. i wasn’t, seems like taking them out of the discord helped stop anyone from enabling. no one encouraged help on here. how can you look at what has been said and think that’s help in any way? tough love comes from close family, not some dude comin in hot

not posting a semi nude in the middle of thinking you’re doing a cunty lil move belittling someone clearly going through addiction and bipolar mania who needs help. time and place. empathy and care. no one is slut shaming. we’re saying read the room.

i’m proud of you and happy to see you back!!! we’ve missed YOU!