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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16h

When teenage boys act out or vape or fight, or get I to trouble people are keen to blame the parents

What about the government?
The years of austerity reducing staffing in schools, in youth centres, in mental health?

So that troubled youth have nowhere to go, no-one to listen?

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16h

And several bottles of gin

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16h

It's not good value for money - I can get a pattern book and 24 balls of wool a heckuva lot cheaper than £150 (full price)

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 18h

£85!!!
Wow, is the thread made of pure gold by Rumpelstiltskin?

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Thriving Autistic @thrivingautistic.bsky.social · 19h

'What autistic people – and those with ADHD and dyslexia – really think about the word ‘neurodiversity’
New research by @draimeegrant.bsky.social,
@dramypearson.bsky.social
& Jennifer Leigh
theconversation.com/what-autisti...

What autistic people – and those with ADHD and dyslexia – really think about the word ‘neurodiversity’

A new UK survey of more than 900 neurodivergent adults has revealed strong feelings about the language of neurodiversity.

theconversation.com

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 3d

Unless millions of pounds are pumped into cutting waiting lists for

* screening & diagnosis
* speech & language help
* sensory assessments
* dyslexia / dyscalcula support
* mental health help

Plus time/ energy/ knowledge & implementation of inclusive practices, then nothing will change

Special Needs Jungle @spcialndsjungle.bsky.social · 3d

The government will struggle to solve the crisis in SEND support by 2029 under its current spending plans, a new policy analysis says. The Institute for Government think tank says that ministers’ approach for tackling teacher shortages are “unfocused” www.tes.com/magazine/news/sp...

Government ‘will struggle to fix SEND crisis by 2029’

The government’s approach to SEND reform is ‘disjointed’ and its ambitions will be restricted by the budget it has set for this parliament, new analysis warns

www.tes.com

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jenn mara @itsjennmara.bsky.social · 3d

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 3d

On one hand - this story is about someone investigating safety online & deeply concerning

On the other (selfishly), I'm now questioning if chatgpt's advice about the best colour tights to wear with a party dress is going to ruin my look...

Ben Eltham @beneltham.bsky.social · 3d

Look I’m not one of those crazy Luddites or anything, but this does seem like it could be quite bad www.abc.net.au/news/2025-09...

Australian man encouraged to murder his father by AI chatbot

Experts are calling for new regulations on artificial intelligence chatbots, after a triple j hack investigation uncovered a disturbing example of a chatbot encouraging a man to murder his father whil...

www.abc.net.au

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 3d

Love this - particularly the bits about Morse being better than heroin

It's strange how we don't value the creation of a family (a home, loving relationships, caring, nurture) as highly as we do more obvious creations (stuff)

Philippa Perry @pperry.bsky.social · 3d

philippaperry.substack.com/p/i-have-a-g...

I have a good life and yet I still don't think that I'm enough

The examined life and the anxiety that comes with it

philippaperry.substack.com

Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 8d

Oh goodie. Another politician with no grasp of nuance, of reality, of why children struggle to attend

As a child with two years EBSA and another with periods of school refusal, I can tell you that more tests, more pressure, more rules aren't going to turn that shop around

Try inclusion, welcome

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 8d

This view was just an incredible celebration of autumn/fall

Yay for autumn

Little did I know that one minute later I was going to slip & fall into a stream

Full on dunk
Had to wring water out of my dress

Stupid autumn & leaves covering slippy tree roots

Autumn/ Fall trees with orange and yellow leaves, above a carpet of orange & brown leaves

Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 9d

Back to school anxiety in the morning

It's hard to sit next to my son as he struggles in the car to school

He ripples with emotional overload

Conversation is not recommended

Deep breaths Emma, you can hold the space for him..

Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 11d

Getting the base layer solid so you can pick up the wreath without it all moving makes a massive difference.

If you tie the groups too tight then the baubles pop out of their hangers...

Doing the base layer upside down really helped to give a flat back.

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 11d

One you have a solid base, turn the wreath over and fill in the gaps/ build it up from the top using glue

Fill in large areas with large baubles first.

(Hot glue recommended).

Keep going until it feels balanced and complete.

Use ribbon to hang - between large baubles or the wreath tilts 2/2

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 11d

Start by bundling up some large baubles in 4/5 groups - bundle with wire and attach to the frame (loosely).

Repeat until much of the frame perimeter is covered (work upsidedown on a table so it lays flat)

Then glue the groups together and to the frame. Without glue, it's hopeless 1/2

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 11d

You need 60-80 baubles of different sizes

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 11d

It took 2-3h and was deeply frustrating

But I now have tips

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 11d

Sarah: shall I buy you a metal ring & we can make baubles wreaths
Me: sounds fun

Several hours later, much gnashing of teeth & despair....

We both had something to hang up
Even if we forgot the Christmas cakes that were baking...

Two people holding homemade baubles wreaths (left is mostly silver, right is red & gold) over their faces whilst laughing

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 12d

Went out to see Ardal O'Hanlon last night

I bought tickets on a "must get out more" buzz last year

What a crack!
We laughed throughout & had a fabulous time. Highly recommended you catch his "Not Himself" tour

Then I dreamt we became buddies & he invited me swimming.

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 12d

Halloween - it's a great time to honour family traditions and start on the Christmas cake

With a glass of sherry to remember my Dad and Grandma who both liked a glass before their evening meal

The smell is very evocative
Tomorrow I'll be with my twin @sarahfoxspeaker.bsky.social baking & crafting

Large bowl of dried fruit soaking in sherry and orange juice - a spoon poking out of the mix.

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 13d

Me: you've £10 for spending & bus fares
Teen: okay

Teen spends entire £10 on "snacks" he says he didn't like

Me: don't spend anything else or you've no bus fare
Teen: ok

Teen messages Dad asking for lunch money as he's hungry
Gets extra £10, spends on fried chicken
Still has no bus fare 🤦🏻

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16d

His sensory needs have become overwhelming, and he couldn't cope (esp with no friends for support)

At one point, he didn't go for 2 weeks

But he seemed to turn it around a bit near the end, but half term might ruin the routine again

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16d

/ chewing & sucking helped them regulate faster

Downtime in a quiet secure bedroom with drinks and snacks helped

We vetoed homework too

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16d

High school is a massive change for children - constant change of layout, seating, room, subject

It would take my child 3 months to learn to trust her teacher - at high school that became impossible

The post-school unmasking dysregulation is really tough

We found lollipops... 1/2

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Emma Sutton @emmalgsutton.bsky.social · 16d

We've had the hardest half-term ever too - after some right doozies

The move to a new school to avoid bullying has unearthed a whole host of other issues that were masked by that headliner

I need a break

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