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🔞🏳️🌈 | some chinese queer millennial who aspires to live a cottagecore life and read BL all day (she/they)
h: ploverbay
📖: some mafia and monster bl manhwas
h: ploverbay
📖: some mafia and monster bl manhwas
🫂🫂🫂 don’t let us sit too long with our thoughts haha
May 21, 2025 at 11:38 PM
🫂🫂🫂 don’t let us sit too long with our thoughts haha
Thank you fren 💗💗🫂🫂 it’s getting a bit better. I am glad I can have some more rest this weekend
May 21, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Thank you fren 💗💗🫂🫂 it’s getting a bit better. I am glad I can have some more rest this weekend
oh gosh im glad im not the only one that breathing exercises dont do the trick for 🫂 I hope your new therapist does take your feedback into consideration ❤️
May 20, 2025 at 1:57 AM
oh gosh im glad im not the only one that breathing exercises dont do the trick for 🫂 I hope your new therapist does take your feedback into consideration ❤️
Aww Megs 🫂🫂 I definitely don’t feel so kindhearted in the moment 😆
May 10, 2025 at 10:34 PM
Aww Megs 🫂🫂 I definitely don’t feel so kindhearted in the moment 😆
For the older generation to be at peace with our decisions would require them to be at peace with their own.
That’s why the truly content ones never bother us. And the next time some old bat tries to harangue me again, I’ll feel sorry for her own denial, and then keep on doing what’s right for me.
That’s why the truly content ones never bother us. And the next time some old bat tries to harangue me again, I’ll feel sorry for her own denial, and then keep on doing what’s right for me.
May 9, 2025 at 5:59 AM
For the older generation to be at peace with our decisions would require them to be at peace with their own.
That’s why the truly content ones never bother us. And the next time some old bat tries to harangue me again, I’ll feel sorry for her own denial, and then keep on doing what’s right for me.
That’s why the truly content ones never bother us. And the next time some old bat tries to harangue me again, I’ll feel sorry for her own denial, and then keep on doing what’s right for me.
Not unless it’s on our own terms. And we are okay with that. Even happy, relieved, and free.
But the older generation can’t accept that yet. It breaks their minds—their precariously fragile beliefs. /How can you not yearn for this tiresome, thankless sacrifice that I have spent all my youth on?/
But the older generation can’t accept that yet. It breaks their minds—their precariously fragile beliefs. /How can you not yearn for this tiresome, thankless sacrifice that I have spent all my youth on?/
May 9, 2025 at 5:59 AM
Not unless it’s on our own terms. And we are okay with that. Even happy, relieved, and free.
But the older generation can’t accept that yet. It breaks their minds—their precariously fragile beliefs. /How can you not yearn for this tiresome, thankless sacrifice that I have spent all my youth on?/
But the older generation can’t accept that yet. It breaks their minds—their precariously fragile beliefs. /How can you not yearn for this tiresome, thankless sacrifice that I have spent all my youth on?/
So they live their lives believing they are actualized, and brainwashing other young people to think that what they have is the dream.
Except many young people don’t want that. We don’t want to commit to someone we aren’t sure about, or raise kids we aren’t ready to devote all our time and love to.
Except many young people don’t want that. We don’t want to commit to someone we aren’t sure about, or raise kids we aren’t ready to devote all our time and love to.
May 9, 2025 at 5:59 AM
So they live their lives believing they are actualized, and brainwashing other young people to think that what they have is the dream.
Except many young people don’t want that. We don’t want to commit to someone we aren’t sure about, or raise kids we aren’t ready to devote all our time and love to.
Except many young people don’t want that. We don’t want to commit to someone we aren’t sure about, or raise kids we aren’t ready to devote all our time and love to.
They should be /happy/ and /fulfilled/ to have a husband, birth a child, raise a family. They keep believing this because what else can their ego accept? That they made the wrong decision? Made a sacrifice that wasn’t worth it?
May 9, 2025 at 5:59 AM
They should be /happy/ and /fulfilled/ to have a husband, birth a child, raise a family. They keep believing this because what else can their ego accept? That they made the wrong decision? Made a sacrifice that wasn’t worth it?
The older I get, the more I believe this is the truth. They themselves were pressured into marrying, sometimes at the cost of their own wishes and aspirations. They were sold this idea that marriage is worth it. Marriage is the most sought after goal, the ultimate source of one’s family’s pride.
May 9, 2025 at 5:59 AM
The older I get, the more I believe this is the truth. They themselves were pressured into marrying, sometimes at the cost of their own wishes and aspirations. They were sold this idea that marriage is worth it. Marriage is the most sought after goal, the ultimate source of one’s family’s pride.
but therapists really need to respect their clients if they say this breathing technique is uncomfortable or distressing.
(Not about my therapist, but someone I was quite annoyed with recently.)
(Not about my therapist, but someone I was quite annoyed with recently.)
May 6, 2025 at 3:59 PM
but therapists really need to respect their clients if they say this breathing technique is uncomfortable or distressing.
(Not about my therapist, but someone I was quite annoyed with recently.)
(Not about my therapist, but someone I was quite annoyed with recently.)
these types of breathing exercises can be really aggravating and anxiety provoking. It literally does the opposite of calming me down. I get so fixated on the counting and following the rhythm and my chest starts to get tight.
I think it’s fine if someone likes it or finds it helpful
I think it’s fine if someone likes it or finds it helpful
May 6, 2025 at 3:59 PM
these types of breathing exercises can be really aggravating and anxiety provoking. It literally does the opposite of calming me down. I get so fixated on the counting and following the rhythm and my chest starts to get tight.
I think it’s fine if someone likes it or finds it helpful
I think it’s fine if someone likes it or finds it helpful