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It's not just because of size or visibility differences between the two organs. This is because of patriarchy. Do you think you could point out both on a diagram?

Carving our, or scheduling time for what I call "trysts" in my book (link in bio) is a scientifically supported $3gg$ therapy technique. Stop waiting for something spontanous to emerge and plan it! And, during the time, immerse mindfully in your pleasure

$3ggs$ therapists and researchers are adamant that toys enhance intimacy with a partner, not detract from it. Do you use toys with partners and if so, do you feel like it enhances or detracts from the connection

Holding onto the myth that $segg$ should be spontanous prevents many couples from having intimate time together. I call these "trysts" in book, A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate $Seggs$ (link in bio). Put a tryst on your calender today instead of waiting for the mood to strike!

It's called arousal non-concordance. Wetness is an automatic biological respsonse while feeling turned on is your perceptions. You can find something gross & lubricate, like you can laugh when being tickled & hate it. You can also feel aroused & not lubricate for many reasons. For this, use lube!

I have a whole chapter in Becoming Cliterate about how the language we use to talk about sex reflects and perpetuates an undervaluing of women's pleasure.

Just another way that false media images hurt people!

To learn more about the gap and how to close it check out my book,Becoming Clitetate.

These examples are just a few from an important study by Dr. Deby Herbenick and colleagues@

This metaphor is from a seminal article titled "Women Get Worse Sex" by Conley and Klein