Jay Besemer
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divinetailor.bsky.social
Jay Besemer
@divinetailor.bsky.social
poet-artist-fool. aging, tr🔼ns, qu3️⃣3️⃣r, sick/disabled, autistic. he/they. i do not often follow back, so don’t follow me with that expectation.🚨DO NOT ADD TO STARTER PACKS WITHOUT CONSENT!🚨
http://www.jaybesemer.net
i am so tempted by spacehey😹 it’s all your fault.

hey, we were gonna write letters! did you ever get me your mailing address?
November 12, 2025 at 4:48 PM
solidarity with the “chronic? acute? both?” dance. wishing you relief💚
November 12, 2025 at 4:37 PM
don’t go without giving us another way to connect—i can’t handle mastodon’s reliance on hashtags. for whatever reason they give me sensory overload ➡️panic attacks🤷‍♂️ every time i tried to use it i wound up in meltdown. let’s at least trade emails…or sthing
November 12, 2025 at 4:36 PM
HOT DAMN!!!
November 12, 2025 at 4:33 PM
you could break the spacetime continuum by adding dates & dried cranberries…
November 12, 2025 at 2:07 PM
confirm, i got a real person on the other end, not an autoreply or a link to a patient portal or such things. that’s a good sign. fingers crossed!
November 12, 2025 at 1:44 PM
corrected & sonny had an extremely adverse response to her too—hissing at her, which he NEVER does. i’d been frustrated with the practice’s appointment & communications infrastructure for a while; i think they’ve just gotten too big.

the new vet is smaller & closer to us, & when i texted to
November 12, 2025 at 1:44 PM
we have this rule: no cats in the fridge/washer/dryer, but you know what they think about rules…
November 12, 2025 at 1:29 PM
ooooooo! yummy aurora!
November 12, 2025 at 1:39 AM
😹💚😹💚😹💚😹💚
November 11, 2025 at 8:26 PM
they feel right in both orders, but definitely the second one.
November 11, 2025 at 7:54 PM
like an advert. no matter my intent it can come across distorted, or be distorted by mis/preconceptions. what is popularly called zen is…not zen. but it sometimes leads to an engagement with actual zen, eventually perhaps to its practice. 🤷‍♂️

but yes, changes in my being are partly bc i practice zen.
November 11, 2025 at 6:30 PM
it's a matter of how-i-am-present, & the focus of my energies, how i orient myself within the shared, unfolding moment. what i do & why.

i have learned that i do not act as i imagined, as i once did. i do not act from fear or rage. i am surprised by this new information. by all the new opening.
November 11, 2025 at 5:32 PM
if i were nearer to you geographically, i'd totally help you move house.
November 11, 2025 at 5:20 PM
i’m seeing a lot of chili posts the last few days😁🫘🌶️
November 11, 2025 at 3:58 PM
glad to hear it!!
November 11, 2025 at 2:14 PM
lol yes
November 11, 2025 at 1:55 PM