But that’s what most leaders do.
They see a high performer and say:
“Let’s give it to Sarah. She always delivers.”
So Sarah gets all the urgent projects.
All the tough assignments.
All the pressure.
But that’s what most leaders do.
They see a high performer and say:
“Let’s give it to Sarah. She always delivers.”
So Sarah gets all the urgent projects.
All the tough assignments.
All the pressure.
It’s leadership.
When people know you’re fighting for their future, not just for your headcount…
They’ll give you everything they’ve got while they’re here.
It’s leadership.
When people know you’re fighting for their future, not just for your headcount…
They’ll give you everything they’ve got while they’re here.
Here are 4 questions I ask leaders when they’re trying to find their best people:
1. Who makes everyone else’s job easier?
Not just helpful—but high leverage.
Here are 4 questions I ask leaders when they’re trying to find their best people:
1. Who makes everyone else’s job easier?
Not just helpful—but high leverage.
Ask yourself:
1. Am I giving them clarity?
2. Do they have autonomy?
3. Is their work meaningful?
High performers don’t need micromanaging.
They need leaders who remove friction.
Ask yourself:
1. Am I giving them clarity?
2. Do they have autonomy?
3. Is their work meaningful?
High performers don’t need micromanaging.
They need leaders who remove friction.
In many teams, visibility gets mistaken for performance.
The one who talks the most in meetings.
The one who floods your inbox with updates.
In many teams, visibility gets mistaken for performance.
The one who talks the most in meetings.
The one who floods your inbox with updates.
They’re not.
Recognition celebrates what we do.
Appreciation celebrates who we are.
Teams need both.
They’re not.
Recognition celebrates what we do.
Appreciation celebrates who we are.
Teams need both.
Stories do.
Stories do.
That was the challenge on a sign I saw recently:
“If you feel you can do their job better, we’re accepting applications.”
A little cheeky, but also deeply true.
Too many people are quick to criticize and slow to contribute.
That was the challenge on a sign I saw recently:
“If you feel you can do their job better, we’re accepting applications.”
A little cheeky, but also deeply true.
Too many people are quick to criticize and slow to contribute.
1. 🎯 Clear Goals
Don’t assume alignment. Define success together.
1. 🎯 Clear Goals
Don’t assume alignment. Define success together.
Too often, a quiet room gets mistaken for alignment.
But on cross-functional teams, silence is rarely a sign of trust.
It’s a sign of fear.
Fear of stepping on toes.
Fear of being wrong.
Fear of sounding like “just the marketer” or “just the engineer.”
Too often, a quiet room gets mistaken for alignment.
But on cross-functional teams, silence is rarely a sign of trust.
It’s a sign of fear.
Fear of stepping on toes.
Fear of being wrong.
Fear of sounding like “just the marketer” or “just the engineer.”
Different departments. Different priorities.
Maybe even different definitions of success.
Sound familiar?
That’s the messy beauty of a cross-functional team.
Different departments. Different priorities.
Maybe even different definitions of success.
Sound familiar?
That’s the messy beauty of a cross-functional team.
Simon Sinek was mostly right.
But the most meaningful question isn’t “why.” It’s “who.”
Who benefits from what you do?
Because purpose doesn’t start with introspection.
It starts with impact.
Simon Sinek was mostly right.
But the most meaningful question isn’t “why.” It’s “who.”
Who benefits from what you do?
Because purpose doesn’t start with introspection.
It starts with impact.
Most leaders assume they’ve been clear because they said the words.
But clarity isn’t about what you say.
It’s about what people understand.
Clarity tells them:
✔ What matters.
✔ Why it matters.
✔ How their work fits in.
Most leaders assume they’ve been clear because they said the words.
But clarity isn’t about what you say.
It’s about what people understand.
Clarity tells them:
✔ What matters.
✔ Why it matters.
✔ How their work fits in.
🧭 1. Clarify Goals
Start by asking: What are we trying to achieve together?
You’d be surprised how many teams skip this.
🧭 1. Clarify Goals
Start by asking: What are we trying to achieve together?
You’d be surprised how many teams skip this.
Development: “Who could be best with a chance?”
Great leaders balance both.
Development: “Who could be best with a chance?”
Great leaders balance both.
Let that sink in.
These teams are supposed to break down silos. Drive innovation. Accelerate progress.
But most of them?
They stall. They miss deadlines. They underperform.
Not because the people aren’t talented.
Let that sink in.
These teams are supposed to break down silos. Drive innovation. Accelerate progress.
But most of them?
They stall. They miss deadlines. They underperform.
Not because the people aren’t talented.
It makes you an unapproachable one.
It makes you an unapproachable one.
On great teams, trust is reciprocated.
You show up vulnerable, honest, accountable—
And others do the same.
Trust flows when someone chooses to go first.
On great teams, trust is reciprocated.
You show up vulnerable, honest, accountable—
And others do the same.
Trust flows when someone chooses to go first.
What used to be bonding now looks like favoritism.
✅ Be friendly
❌ Don’t gossip
✅ Support everyone equally
Leadership isn’t a popularity contest. It’s a responsibility.
What used to be bonding now looks like favoritism.
✅ Be friendly
❌ Don’t gossip
✅ Support everyone equally
Leadership isn’t a popularity contest. It’s a responsibility.
Feels good—for a moment.
But it lights a fire you can’t put out.
Negativity spreads fast.
And it burns your credibility with it.
Feels good—for a moment.
But it lights a fire you can’t put out.
Negativity spreads fast.
And it burns your credibility with it.