My husband and I often say that watching shows like Love Is Blind is better than couples therapy. Nothing makes me never want to date again more than seeing the dating scene in action.

Deodorant on the inner thighs works miracles for prevention, once you’re back at it. Until then…ice and maybe some pure moisturizer like cocoa butter or coconut oil? Godspeed from one thick thigh girly to another. ✌️

They are clearly the purest among us.

My recs:

- Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow — modern masterpiece

- The House in the Cerulean Sea — YA with charm & found family

- The Once and Future Witches — historical fiction wrapped in feminism wrapped in revolution

- The Ten Thousand Doors of January — world-bending magical realism

I think the biggest problem is we’re asking without also giving. Mutual give and take is part of a healthy community. But when you ask folks for their energy/time/attention/money without investing in relationship-building, you’re trying to make a withdrawal from an empty account.

It was SO GOOD. ❤️‍🔥

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