Charlotte
@charlotteeeha.bsky.social
Agender, Aroace-spec on the grey side of the rainbow. Audhd, burnout, Sámi reconnecter, unable to avoid typos, but hoping to finish an art degree. I speak Norwegian, English, some Italian and just starting to learn Northern Sámi language.
I didn't know I was asexual-spec until I was 29.. It makes me cringe, but also laugh, because it's very funny. Sexy spreadsheet... lol.
November 22, 2025 at 2:58 PM
I didn't know I was asexual-spec until I was 29.. It makes me cringe, but also laugh, because it's very funny. Sexy spreadsheet... lol.
Scratch that the concept of «mens jewelry» is making me feel like crap. Listening to youtube videos gendering colors ect. 🤢 No thanks. 😖😖
November 21, 2025 at 9:48 AM
Scratch that the concept of «mens jewelry» is making me feel like crap. Listening to youtube videos gendering colors ect. 🤢 No thanks. 😖😖
Looking up DIY «jewelry for men», at least they will not see it coming… I don’t know if they are going to like it, these guys never wear anything like that.. I don’t have time to knit.
November 21, 2025 at 9:42 AM
Looking up DIY «jewelry for men», at least they will not see it coming… I don’t know if they are going to like it, these guys never wear anything like that.. I don’t have time to knit.
Sure everyone is allowed to have preferences, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t a bit weird, especially when they follow these harmful beauty ideals. Considering the harm that can be done, some preferences might be better off to keep to oneself.
November 19, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Sure everyone is allowed to have preferences, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t a bit weird, especially when they follow these harmful beauty ideals. Considering the harm that can be done, some preferences might be better off to keep to oneself.
Whenever ciswomen loudly say thay they want men that are at least a few inches taller than them. They are encouraging this toxic culture of comparing ones size to another. It’s normalizing everything from transphobia, to racism, to diet culture.
November 19, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Whenever ciswomen loudly say thay they want men that are at least a few inches taller than them. They are encouraging this toxic culture of comparing ones size to another. It’s normalizing everything from transphobia, to racism, to diet culture.
Muscle dysmorphia is one of the deadliest mental illnesses, so these patriarchal beauty standards are dangerous for cishet men too. Also people have too much of their worth tied up in size.
November 19, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Muscle dysmorphia is one of the deadliest mental illnesses, so these patriarchal beauty standards are dangerous for cishet men too. Also people have too much of their worth tied up in size.
Asexual or/and aromantic people can't ignore differences between different types of attraction, while those that are both allosexual and alloromantic, might cling on to the script. As if romantic attraction was tied to morality and sexual attraction was tied to maturity, neither are true.
November 16, 2025 at 9:23 PM
Asexual or/and aromantic people can't ignore differences between different types of attraction, while those that are both allosexual and alloromantic, might cling on to the script. As if romantic attraction was tied to morality and sexual attraction was tied to maturity, neither are true.