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Ella Dawson
@brosandprose.bsky.social
sex & culture critic. author of BUT HOW ARE YOU, REALLY. host of the REBEL EVER AFTER podcast about progressive romance novels. survivor. she/her.

https://linktr.ee/brosandprose
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hey! does anyone want to buy my book? it comes in beautiful hardcover or the charming newly updated ebook with fresh artwork!

BUT HOW ARE YOU, REALLY is about two exes who have big time unfinished business at their five year college reunion.
sites.prh.com/but-how-are-...
I am putting on The Gorge (2025) to feed my Miles Teller fixation. 🧵
a woman holds up a sign that says what is your name
ALT: a woman holds up a sign that says what is your name
media.tenor.com
November 14, 2025 at 2:52 AM
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This is about the 831 Stories puff piece in the NYT. (I should have known better.) Several romance scholars were interviewed (myself included)…not that you could tell, given the complete lack of substance.

Hrm, wonder why this was left out? Maybe because it doesn’t align with 831’s narrative?
November 13, 2025 at 11:20 PM
I need to go sit in a padded room without internet or cell reception for a month
November 13, 2025 at 8:23 PM
"Starting masking again in 2025 means I – we – have to confront the fact that maybe we should never have stopped. It’s scary to admit that we might have been harming ourselves and our communities; that our government might not have our best interests at heart." @onqueerstreet.bsky.social
Mask Up: Community care and wearing masks in 2025 – The Skinny
Masks aren’t just for lockdowns. One writer explores how mask wearing – and other measures to reduce COVID transmissions – can help us look after one another.
www.theskinny.co.uk
November 13, 2025 at 4:12 PM
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The idea that sexual abuse is part of “private” life instead of a public crisis has done incalculable damage. Anti-rape activists have to fight to even make it possible to expose sexual abuse as a wrongdoing in public without being silenced and undermined. That fight is far from won
November 12, 2025 at 8:19 PM
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As of this morning, Starbucks workers across the country are officially ON STRIKE. And we're prepared for this to become the biggest and longest ULP strike in Starbucks history.

Say #NoContractNoCoffee with us: DON'T BUY STARBUCKS for the duration of our open-ended ULP strike! $SBUX
November 13, 2025 at 11:33 AM
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BURN IT ALL DOWN
Jeffrey Epstein advised Steve Bannon that the lawyers representing Brett Kavanaugh in his confirmation hearing should accuse Christine Blasey Ford of being on medications that cause false memories or memory loss.
November 13, 2025 at 12:04 AM
I would give it all up for a forehead kiss rn
November 13, 2025 at 12:14 AM
I forgot how much it hurts when you realize some folks are not in the fight with you once it no longer benefits them personally, when they balk at challenging the system because they still want to succeed within it
November 12, 2025 at 8:50 PM
November 12, 2025 at 8:41 PM
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Reminder: If you use generative AI for *any of your writing tasks* you are a Slopper not a writer and should be ashamed of yourself. The end.
November 11, 2025 at 6:17 PM
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big ruling today
November 12, 2025 at 3:43 PM
I can't believe I lived long enough to see pedophile cabal accusations do a 180 and be TRUE
Epstein Alleged in Emails That Trump Knew of His Conduct
www.nytimes.com
November 12, 2025 at 3:38 PM
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the only thing democrats should be saying today is “the entire republican party is engaged in a coverup of the most notorious child sex trafficking ring in world history”
November 12, 2025 at 2:08 PM
I am alarmed to report that my Miles Teller sex dreams are back
November 11, 2025 at 11:54 PM
"The beauty-industrial complex is working hard to brainwash women into viewing expensive and extreme beautification procedures as a mere extension of routine female grooming. Fillers, Botox, and and micro-needling are to be treated no differently than a haircut or manicure."
The Anti-Cosmetic Surgery Essay Every Woman Should Read
Long Live the Old Flesh
fatherkarine.substack.com
November 11, 2025 at 11:22 PM
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This thread fell off but I am currently at 9,565 words!! I am ahead of the pace I need to maintain to write 25,000 by the end of the month and I'm thrilled.
a cat is reaching for a laptop that says i 'm cooking on it
ALT: a cat is reaching for a laptop that says i 'm cooking on it
media.tenor.com
November 11, 2025 at 2:54 AM
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Because it is November, I’m here to remind you that my book makes the perfect gift for the disgruntled millennial in your life bookshop.org/p/books/y2k-...
Y2K: How the 2000s Became Everything (Essays on the Future That Never Was)
How the 2000s Became Everything (Essays on the Future That Never Was)
bookshop.org
November 11, 2025 at 2:06 AM
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I am so grateful to the authors who spoke with me about their books and what it's like to publish love stories that expand the happily-ever-after this year!! You can listen at rebeleverafterpod.com or wherever you get your podcasts ❤️
November 10, 2025 at 5:16 PM
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lol she got his ass and he knows it
November 9, 2025 at 3:36 PM
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As I’m trying to mentally detach myself from publishing I don’t listen to any book/writing/publishing podcasts—except for this one, which never misses
Today is the one year anniversary of launching my podcast, Rebel Ever After!

- 37 authors interviewed about writing progressive romance novels
- over 10,000 downloads
- 4.8 ⭐ rating on Apple Podcasts

Big thank you to everyone who has listened, subscribed and bought a book by one of my guests.
November 10, 2025 at 1:40 AM
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Today is the one year anniversary of launching my podcast, Rebel Ever After!

- 37 authors interviewed about writing progressive romance novels
- over 10,000 downloads
- 4.8 ⭐ rating on Apple Podcasts

Big thank you to everyone who has listened, subscribed and bought a book by one of my guests.
November 9, 2025 at 3:50 PM
I stand by this take: People should mind their business more often!
November 9, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Today is the one year anniversary of launching my podcast, Rebel Ever After!

- 37 authors interviewed about writing progressive romance novels
- over 10,000 downloads
- 4.8 ⭐ rating on Apple Podcasts

Big thank you to everyone who has listened, subscribed and bought a book by one of my guests.
November 9, 2025 at 3:50 PM
hell yeah good for him
James Talarico, a Texas Democrat running for U.S. Senate who has put his faith at the forefront of his campaign, follows several adult film performers, escorts and OnlyFans models on Instagram, according to an Axios review.
Faith-forward Texas Senate candidate follows porn actors, escorts online
James Talarico has become a sensation in Texas politics by talking about how his Christianity is the basis for his progressive politics.
www.axios.com
November 9, 2025 at 2:24 PM