Rudolf is truly the ur-character
August 7, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Rudolf is truly the ur-character
@mettamaxie.bsky.social incredible demo. great work. you get him more than anyone out there
July 7, 2025 at 1:33 AM
@mettamaxie.bsky.social incredible demo. great work. you get him more than anyone out there
the sadomasochist selfcest throuple of hatred let's goooooo
July 6, 2025 at 10:01 PM
the sadomasochist selfcest throuple of hatred let's goooooo
ghhhh I'm instantly sold on this dynamic yeah
July 6, 2025 at 10:00 PM
ghhhh I'm instantly sold on this dynamic yeah
I really prefer the white to the yellow, personally. Just not a fan of yellow color schemes. Maybe a lighter yellow would be better, though?
July 3, 2025 at 3:03 AM
I really prefer the white to the yellow, personally. Just not a fan of yellow color schemes. Maybe a lighter yellow would be better, though?
Yesss... keep going and soon you can manifest them by your side...
June 30, 2025 at 12:21 PM
Yesss... keep going and soon you can manifest them by your side...
AND I WOULD GLADLY POUR THAT ICE WATER SOUP DOWN MY THROAT
June 15, 2025 at 2:27 AM
AND I WOULD GLADLY POUR THAT ICE WATER SOUP DOWN MY THROAT
gohda. do gohda. you have to
June 14, 2025 at 12:51 AM
gohda. do gohda. you have to
If you were uncomfortable with ever hugging your friends because you were worried about these same things I would be okay with it but also I would find it limiting. And there's a minor culture of shame around cuddling that there really isn't with hugging! It seems to make sense idk
May 8, 2025 at 8:09 PM
If you were uncomfortable with ever hugging your friends because you were worried about these same things I would be okay with it but also I would find it limiting. And there's a minor culture of shame around cuddling that there really isn't with hugging! It seems to make sense idk
other than 'this person would cuddle but I wouldn't and that's Weird'
May 8, 2025 at 8:07 PM
other than 'this person would cuddle but I wouldn't and that's Weird'
The fact that you're personally uncomfortable with the idea of doing something with your friends doesn't make what you said about the original post being nonsense more reasonable, though... cuddling isn't inherently more sexual than anything else and I just don't get what point you've been making
May 8, 2025 at 8:07 PM
The fact that you're personally uncomfortable with the idea of doing something with your friends doesn't make what you said about the original post being nonsense more reasonable, though... cuddling isn't inherently more sexual than anything else and I just don't get what point you've been making
I think that in the logic of the last few lines here, you could never be friends with somebody you were attracted to, which I find pretty horrifying. Having arousal and acting on it, the distinction between those, is important! And the fact that penises make one of those visible doesn't change that
May 8, 2025 at 8:02 PM
I think that in the logic of the last few lines here, you could never be friends with somebody you were attracted to, which I find pretty horrifying. Having arousal and acting on it, the distinction between those, is important! And the fact that penises make one of those visible doesn't change that
You're conflating not having a choice on the arousal with not having a choice over whether the situation itself is sexual, which is the whole point of the original post. Having a boner in any other social scenario wouldn't immediately transform it into a sex act and so neither should it for cuddling
May 8, 2025 at 7:47 PM
You're conflating not having a choice on the arousal with not having a choice over whether the situation itself is sexual, which is the whole point of the original post. Having a boner in any other social scenario wouldn't immediately transform it into a sex act and so neither should it for cuddling
It's not coddling men, it's just stating the obvious that "whether there's something about this event that makes us stop being friends" is not a natural edict, it's a product of the actual relationship and social context involved.
May 6, 2025 at 9:24 PM
It's not coddling men, it's just stating the obvious that "whether there's something about this event that makes us stop being friends" is not a natural edict, it's a product of the actual relationship and social context involved.
It's a pretty widely-held belief. But that's what the premise of the original is disagreeing with. I disagree with it, also. I've cuddled with friends of mine, I'd class it a lot closer to hugging than groping or grinding or whatever you're gesturing to here. So, a boner doesn't impede the boundary.
May 6, 2025 at 9:24 PM
It's a pretty widely-held belief. But that's what the premise of the original is disagreeing with. I disagree with it, also. I've cuddled with friends of mine, I'd class it a lot closer to hugging than groping or grinding or whatever you're gesturing to here. So, a boner doesn't impede the boundary.