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bidisasternerd.bsky.social
Fondue Pot of Disaster
@bidisasternerd.bsky.social
Queer nerd, nerdy queer, lover of books, music, math, board games, languages, and other things. Same handle on tiktok and insta.
They/Them
I still wish I had known sooner. But the past ten years have seen a lot of growth and joy and I'm thankful to have lived them.
November 29, 2025 at 6:30 AM
But I am so much more at peace with who I am now than ten years ago. Discovering my queerness set me on a path that led me to some of the best people I have ever known and the best community I have ever belonged to.
November 29, 2025 at 6:30 AM
Loose leaf is a much fuller experience. So much more complexity and better flavor all around
November 21, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Transmedicalists are infuriating. Being queer should be liberating, not give you more bullshit boxes you need to fit into and expectations you have to fulfill. I'm sorry they are particularly shitty to you.
November 6, 2025 at 8:42 PM
But I actually DISLIKE being referred to with a title. And it's not just about being nonbinary. I don't want to be called Mx. Robert either. Just call me Robert and stop "correcting" my students.
November 6, 2025 at 8:39 PM
"well in our culture..." Yeah, I get that. I was also raised to call an adult Title LastName. I developed this opinion independent from my parents' teaching.
November 6, 2025 at 8:39 PM
I would argue that calling it us MORE respectful for my students to call me Robert (with no title, just my name) than to add on a title just because I'm an adult. That's what I asked them to do.
November 6, 2025 at 8:39 PM
Respect is not one size fits all. What makes one person feel respected will make another feel disrespected.
November 6, 2025 at 8:39 PM
The MacGregors: Highland Heirs
August 25, 2025 at 1:39 AM
Somewhere, beyond the sea
Somewhere, waiting for me
This novel stands on golden sand
An agent should take this query
a large ship is floating on top of a body of water
ALT: a large ship is floating on top of a body of water
media.tenor.com
August 15, 2025 at 2:27 PM
Reposted by Fondue Pot of Disaster
We urge CGE to reconsider their plans to release Codenames: Back to Hogwarts, or at least dedicate a portion of the proceeds to organizations such as The Trevor Project to offset licensing fees that flow back to Rowling.
July 29, 2025 at 1:55 AM