I'll update this thread with future issues but just wanted to share them all here in the meantime; the process of writing them has been cathartic for me but hopefully helpful/instructive to anyone else who is the process of figuring similar things out about themselves and their sexuality!

The most recent issue was about the necessary evolution of my relationship with Harry Potter, consequent on the problematic views of She Who Must Not Be Named: queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/i-cant-go-...

Then I spoke about my formative friendships with women, and how with hindsight, it's pretty bloody obvious what was going (wr)on(g): queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/admiration...

I tackled every queer person's least favourite subject – exercise – and how again, my relationship with sport has fluctuated in line with my understanding of my sexuality: queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/am-i-worki...

Then, I wrote about my relationship with fashion and how my style has changes as my understanding of my sexuality has evolved: queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/comphet-ch...

The piece after that was on the importance of the words we use to describe ourselves: queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/eras-of-us...

The second essay was about how travel impacts your identity, and what I wish my friends knew about my experiences on the road: queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/newsflash-...

The first essay was about choosing to have an abortion last July, and how that paved the way for a bucketlist trip to the Great Wall of China in February, around my due date: queerthereandeverywhere.substack.com/p/im-meant-t...