❤️ this! Mindfulness for me is about fully savouring every moment. In kink it's giving myself fully, focussing on the bond and experiencing the exchange of trust. It's not an act, it's one of the few times in life where I totally allow myself to just be 🙂

There's so much focus on Dommes abusing Their power that it's easy to forgot how often subs abuse the trust given to them. I'm glad You made it through the other side, and hope You can continue to educate Others so They avoid the same pitfalls.

Ooo- Happy birthday! 🎂

It really is a skill! It never ceases to amaze me how close Mistress can get me to the edge, till I've literally got my safe word on the tip of my tongue. But I've never had to say it 🙂

Continued wishes for a speedy recovery 🙏 And please remember; sometimes you have to take a step back to leap forwards🙂

Don't sweat it or beat yourself up- a month is a long time. If locktober has inspired or uncovered a desire to be in chastity longer that's great, but not managing a goal isn't that much of a setback. Besides, chastity is for life, not just for locktober!!

Happy Anniversary to Y/you both! 🥳

Twisted Impact Designs has served me well the last few years, sadly they seem to be taking a break right now.

I found typing 'Kinky Cards' into Etsy gave some decent results.

100% 🙂 I'd seen Dommes for many years before I met #Mistress and the difference has been night and day. She gives me a safe place to be myself and I feel I've finally found a balance with my kink that was missing for so long

I've purchased some from Etsy in recent years, more tongue in cheek than explicitly kinky

As a man I'm sorry You had to go through this process. Here's hoping what You want in life gravitates towards You and that the people who deserve You will find You no matter what ❤️