Bella Smith ⭐
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bellasmith0705.substack.com
Bella Smith ⭐
@bellasmith0705.substack.com
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Human Behavior/Psychology Enthusiast, Empath, Introvert, INFJ. Loves to write about life, psychology and relationships❤️❤️ let's connect: https://linktr.ee/bellasmith0705
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I just saw an account that posts totally nude photos. I immediately blocked it. Maybe it's just me, but as an Asian who grew up in a conservative country, it's kind of a big deal to me. I didn't know you could post like that here on #bsky 😭😭
some people stay in your life just long enough to teach you how to live without them.
i used to hate endings. they felt like failure. but now i see them as beginnings in disguise. you don’t lose people.tyou lose illusions. you lose versions of yourself that were tied to them. and what’s left is the truth. and that’s always worth keeping.❤️❤️
sometimes healing looks like:

not texting back

choosing silence over drama

being boring on purpose

quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
we crave deep connections but settle for surface ones.
we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off.
but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
you always try to be the strong one.
but who do you turn to when you’re breaking?
it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting.
you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
for those who know me and my way of writing, you will understand this.
for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
You Think I’m Home, But I’m the Fire
The subtle way manipulation makes you question yourself
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you say “sorry” too much because you were taught your needs were a burden.
but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong.
start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️