I did it! My chest is a proper one (for me) now! Not only has this been the best surgical experience (Nuffield Health, Plymouth), but it has been the most essential for my sense of self. I know that post surgical depression might happen; but for now, I can’t stop smiling.

I’m spending the night in Plymouth. My pre-op assessment is tomorrow and, if all goes well, I’ll be having surgery in a little over a fortnight. 🤞🤞🤞🤞

A hard choice needs to be made. I really want a cup of tea, but that means I’d have to disappoint the purring cat on my lap. So, do I go for the tea or do I stay for the cat?

I got a very sweet surprise from my partner today. Even though adjusting to my transition hasn’t been the easiest for him, he’s always been supportive of my queerness. Little surprises like these (especially since they support local businesses and local pride events) remind me of why I adore him.

I often wrestle with anxiety. Some days I win, some days I don’t. I’m not currently winning, but I’ll try again tomorrow.

Well friends, it’s Valentine’s Day. While I didn’t get you flowers, I want to remind you that I love you with my whole heart. I’m proud of you for moving through each day. You are beautiful and important to me and those around you.

When I’m feeling overwhelmed or hopeless, one of the things I like to do is to comment with encouragement and joy on random posts. Is it strange? Maybe. Does it make me (and hopefully others) feel better? Definitely.

I saw a post on the LGBTQIA+ feed a few days ago. It had a link to a YouTube channel that had several videos about seeking asylum or emigrating from the US. I can’t seem to find it again. Anyone know the channel? It’s trans (something)

After being let down in October by a surgeon who, in my opinion, had no business working with the trans community, I met with my new surgeon this morning. Mr. Armstrong instilled confidence and hope in me!

This maniac cat has developed the habit of loudly grooming herself next to my head whenever I’m trying to get 20 more minutes sleep.

Tomorrow is rubbish day. My sole goal for the day is to get the bins out. Wish me luck!

The sun is shining so brightly today. I’m holding on tightly to the warmth and hope it brings. I hope the sun is shining for all of you. If not, I’ll send some of my peace to you. 💕

I’m still struggling with feelings of overwhelming dread, but I’m getting through by playing D&D. Fighting some stone giants and dragons really puts me in a happy place.

Anxiety. So overwhelming that I feel like I can’t breathe.

If only I could reach this amount of cosiness…

I feel like I’m too short and squishy to be a proper bear. Maybe I could be a new kind of queer, masc fella…maybe I’m a care bear?

#queer #nonbinary

Last week, I learned that skeleton flowers existed. I keep thinking about how magical they are whenever the rest of the world’s bleakness feels overwhelming.

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Nothing too exciting is going on. I’m just making my first little post.