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Lisa 🇨🇦 🎄
@arvanna34.bsky.social
she/her. Canadian. Widow. Late 30's. Hockey nerd. NY Rangers girl. Cat mom. Lucifan. Lauren German fangirl.
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To my husband and first love:
I'll see you on the other side of the stars. I love you to the moon and back.
Always. Endlessly. Infinitely.

I love you 3000. Heart and soul.

Keith W.R.E.
January 6th, 1985 - June 5th, 2018
❤️❤️❤️

***please do not repost***
Bad news: my mom has kidney cancer

Good news: it hasn't spread, and her surgery is at the beginning of January.

I am feeling very overwhelmed. As you all know, cancer has taken several family members from me. I don't really know how to take this news. I was hoping against hope it wasn't cancer.
December 3, 2025 at 11:09 PM
If you have any extra good vibes or words of support/encouragement, can you send them our way? A large mass was found on my mom's right kidney. If it is cancer (doctor is treating her as if it is), it hasn't metastasized. So that's one positive.
November 22, 2025 at 9:08 PM
I'm the only gift you need 😌
(Joey, probably)

#catmom #pawsneedclaws #adoptdontshop #caturday
November 15, 2025 at 7:34 PM
If you're going to spew your disgusting opinion, at least learn how to spell 🤣

Also, I must have missed the memo about dating simply to pump out babies.
November 13, 2025 at 9:00 PM
My first drink in I don't know how long, as I don't like the taste of alcohol, but dammit I'm 30-something so I'm gonna celebrate 😎🍹

...with just one 😆 though it is pretty good.

#birthday
November 8, 2025 at 11:59 PM
Eight years ago, on a sunny Friday morning, Keith Effenberger and I said "I do." In the end we only had seven months of marriage, but as I've said before I will always be thankful for that time. The rings and the memories are safe with me.
November 3, 2025 at 3:38 PM
Annual Nov 1st post 🎄
November 1, 2025 at 3:23 PM
Obligatory Oct 31st post 🎃👻
#halloween2025 #boo #spookyseason
October 31, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Today is International Stuttering Awareness Day. As you all know, this cause is very dear to my heart because I am a person who stutters. In my case, it's genetic. There have been many days where I've wished I could speak like everyone else, but unfortunately, that will never happen.
October 22, 2025 at 4:31 PM
Happy first gotcha day Sylvie!! 🐾♥️
#pawsneedclaws #adoptdontshop #catmom
October 19, 2025 at 3:04 PM
This is Halloween, everybody make a scene 🎃👻🕷️
October 16, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Sept 30th/Oct 1st
October 1, 2025 at 11:33 AM
*meant to post this yesterday, but the app was acting up

Everyone else: spooky season!
Me:
September 17, 2025 at 8:30 PM
In honour of the heroes, in memory of the fallen 🫡
#neverforget #sept11
September 11, 2025 at 12:29 PM
One year ago, on a bright Sunday afternoon, I went out for lunch with a guy I had been talking to for several days. Simply put, it was magical.

Now, a year later, we are living together and starting our forever. I truly believe Keith sent Doug to me.
September 8, 2025 at 1:34 PM
"I am just a person, Lucifer. Just a person who was already dealing with the fact that I'm in love with the Devil. AND THEN!! I found out that I was *made* to feel that way."
September 5, 2025 at 11:26 PM
A very happy birthday to my incredible man, Doug. I truly believe Keith sent him to me. He is amazing in every way.
♥️♥️♥️
a cat is sitting on a table next to a birthday cake with a lit candle .
ALT: a cat is sitting on a table next to a birthday cake with a lit candle .
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September 2, 2025 at 2:30 PM
"We're so blessed God sent you here to find who did this, Detective."
"Oh. Yeah. Well yes, that's what God does. Yep. Sends me here, sends me there, kills a nun!"

#LuciferNetflix #memories
September 1, 2025 at 6:46 PM
#caturday morning vibes
August 30, 2025 at 1:19 PM
August 26, 2025 at 5:31 PM
Took me about two-and-a-half months, and it's finally complete. Of course I had help from my supurrvisors 🐾

#diamondart #thelionking #accomplished
August 23, 2025 at 4:18 PM
August 16, 2025 at 4:32 PM
Fridays are for catnip 🐾

#pawsneedclaws #adoptdontshop #catmom
August 15, 2025 at 4:45 PM