get one! you can! private, reasonable luxuries are one of the joys of adulthood. some things are just extra nice to have

happy birthday! wishing you many happy returns of the day 🩷

ouch, yes. feel better!

sending condolences to you and your family

yes :) Though I wonder, is it the type who says it since then or that what the relationship meant changed? In literature of the past (eg: Nin, Duras) it had a kind of daring sophistication, even a dignity, that “situationship” and other such tortuous descriptions refuse.

oh no! so sorry to hear. please take good care

jokes aside, I always feel quite queasy at these depictions and that scene in particular is such a great (horrible?) encapsulation of the tech bros/women dynamic. well selected

absolutely correct. lots of media confirms this is a real winner move

fantastic!!! I hope you had tons of fun

unsure how trapped you are. do you have people offering local friends/family to help? if not, I can