I have heard this. The only reason why I think I might avoid it is that I started at 40. But mama was well endowed so who knows?

Been on HRT for two months now and my nips just reached the F You Phase. I don’t think I’ve thought more about my breasts my entire life than I have the last 48 hours.

I guess one shouldn’t have an existential crash out over people being into them but for real!

Had to boymode it tonight and wound up flirting with a cute girl who was into me and it’s like…I can love you so much better as who I really am. Alas.

They were surprised I didn’t ask for their number or socials at the end and it’s just like, like, sis, believe me, it’s better for the both of us.

Would rather be a mid clocky trans woman over an attractive cisman any day of the week and twice on Sunday. I don’t care that it reduces my chances. WLW is such an important pursuit for me.

It’s tough yall.

“As a trans woman, I just ignore the haters as a life principle…”

Sis I’m glad you’re getting Paid but fucks sake.

My favorite movie/tv show of anything Marvel or Marvel-adjacent. Wish they hadn’t killed a certain character but beyond that, it’s perfect.

It really makes a difference, right? It still blows my mind that when I came out, the most loving and supportive person was my best friend, who has also expressed shitty views on gender. But when I told him, He only worried about me, didn’t center his feelings. It really has sustained me.

Do you have a dysphoria-buster for you? For me, it’s hearing someone call my name. I cannot tell you all the mornings I’ve lain awake thinking about ripping my patches off and then someone somewhere says Allison and I feel whole in a way I never did under my dead name.

You’re probably right but the delivery on that last line in Blood Simple…

It’s in the argument. I dunno what has a better ending tho: Serious Man or Blood Simple?

Mine is great. This came from a therapeutic exercise she had me do. It’s corny for sure but omg, it’s been an emotional salve to me.

I got a lead on a website for LGBTQIA+ therapists. Narrowed it down to my insurance. Narrowed it further to gender exploration. Searched for women/femme/femby ones. Sent out 4-5 inquiries and the one that got back to me was the one I liked the most. They take a few days to get back so be patient.

I left my former therapist for my current one a couple months ago. The former was wonderful but we had plateaued and while she was supportive, she wasn’t the right person to help me navigate being trans. My current one is great.

So many queer people are so desperate for intimacy the very concept of good boundaries feels unobtainable for us.

It's not until we have and hold them that we begin to recognize having good boundaries makes us safer and more appealing to be around. It's so important to learn