What's my point? Make space for people to just not want sex. Make space for people to center non-sexual pleasure and non-sexual intimacy in their lives and relationships. Don't assume "low desire" is a problem that must be fixed. Give them a chance to get out of the car.

If at any point along the way, someone had just said, it's ok to not like driving. Some people just don't enjoy driving. You don't have to keep trying to enjoy it..... what a massive difference that could make....

Well maybe you need a different driving companion. So you bring along friends, family, maybe even drive for Uber. But for some reason you still don't enjoy it....

Well maybe you just need to change the context! So try driving freeways, mountain roads, ocean views. But for some reason, you still don't like driving.....