Aaron Sofaer ✍️🏳️⚧️
@aaronsofaer.bsky.social
Web serialist & author, first book Quill & Still (cozy queer slice of life portal fantasy), SF Area software engineer, reader, gamer, she/her dad, lefty liberal atheist half-Arab Jew. Gender is complicated, Blåhaj is soft.
https://aaron.sofaer.net/
https://aaron.sofaer.net/
what the fuck is wrong with men.
November 10, 2025 at 3:53 AM
what the fuck is wrong with men.
Behold: Praxis!
November 10, 2025 at 2:18 AM
Behold: Praxis!
One week. Cast your goddamn vote y'all. Up with Prop 50 in CA! Put Democrats in office if that's relevant to you in various other places!
It's the simplest and easiest thing you can do. Oppose the Republican Party—that's the single moral imperative of elections right now.
It's the simplest and easiest thing you can do. Oppose the Republican Party—that's the single moral imperative of elections right now.
October 28, 2025 at 4:27 AM
One week. Cast your goddamn vote y'all. Up with Prop 50 in CA! Put Democrats in office if that's relevant to you in various other places!
It's the simplest and easiest thing you can do. Oppose the Republican Party—that's the single moral imperative of elections right now.
It's the simplest and easiest thing you can do. Oppose the Republican Party—that's the single moral imperative of elections right now.
Median person at this protest is a retired grandmother cheerfully waving an American flag and of a mood to rip an ICE agent a new asshole.
October 18, 2025 at 8:15 PM
Median person at this protest is a retired grandmother cheerfully waving an American flag and of a mood to rip an ICE agent a new asshole.
The world turns, day turns to night and day again, and they in turn become weeks and months and years.
And eventually the trans girl gives in to her yearning and goes purple haired in a cocktail dress to her cousin's wedding. And is cherished no less thereby.
Life is such a joy, gloriously.
And eventually the trans girl gives in to her yearning and goes purple haired in a cocktail dress to her cousin's wedding. And is cherished no less thereby.
Life is such a joy, gloriously.
September 15, 2025 at 12:13 AM
The world turns, day turns to night and day again, and they in turn become weeks and months and years.
And eventually the trans girl gives in to her yearning and goes purple haired in a cocktail dress to her cousin's wedding. And is cherished no less thereby.
Life is such a joy, gloriously.
And eventually the trans girl gives in to her yearning and goes purple haired in a cocktail dress to her cousin's wedding. And is cherished no less thereby.
Life is such a joy, gloriously.
Post a screenshot of your first 5 Steam purchases and let Bluesky judge you
Open the Steam client, click your name in the top right ->
account details -> View purchase history and scroll down
.
secret bonus sixth slot: Bastion, one of my favorite games of all time.
Open the Steam client, click your name in the top right ->
account details -> View purchase history and scroll down
.
secret bonus sixth slot: Bastion, one of my favorite games of all time.
August 15, 2025 at 3:16 AM
Post a screenshot of your first 5 Steam purchases and let Bluesky judge you
Open the Steam client, click your name in the top right ->
account details -> View purchase history and scroll down
.
secret bonus sixth slot: Bastion, one of my favorite games of all time.
Open the Steam client, click your name in the top right ->
account details -> View purchase history and scroll down
.
secret bonus sixth slot: Bastion, one of my favorite games of all time.
Amazing how much better life feels when I get myself off my ass for a walk on my lunch break. #SelfieTithe
August 13, 2025 at 7:31 PM
Amazing how much better life feels when I get myself off my ass for a walk on my lunch break. #SelfieTithe
On my way to be a respectable normie parent and do the meet and greet for new families at Tiny's new school. Funny how time both flies and drags.
August 12, 2025 at 4:55 PM
On my way to be a respectable normie parent and do the meet and greet for new families at Tiny's new school. Funny how time both flies and drags.
God it's nice to have the in laws around. I'd better get up and help dry dishes though. I guess. #SelfieTithe
August 12, 2025 at 2:26 AM
God it's nice to have the in laws around. I'd better get up and help dry dishes though. I guess. #SelfieTithe
Sunny day, might as well tag along to the park with the in-laws as we all take kiddo to the park. #SelfieTithe
August 10, 2025 at 10:12 PM
Sunny day, might as well tag along to the park with the in-laws as we all take kiddo to the park. #SelfieTithe
Skyline is surprisingly neat today, doing my #SelfieTithe part to maintain the vibes courtesy of an absolutely beautiful day and my wife having said I look pretty.
August 9, 2025 at 11:18 PM
Skyline is surprisingly neat today, doing my #SelfieTithe part to maintain the vibes courtesy of an absolutely beautiful day and my wife having said I look pretty.
Cozy queer slice of life litRPG actually! It's not particularly inspired by Trek directly, more by Becky Chambers and Graydon Saunders among others.
August 9, 2025 at 8:52 PM
Cozy queer slice of life litRPG actually! It's not particularly inspired by Trek directly, more by Becky Chambers and Graydon Saunders among others.
#SelfieTithe from a girl who's a little unkempt but still is happy about a nice day in a string of nice days. God I love living here.
August 8, 2025 at 8:15 PM
#SelfieTithe from a girl who's a little unkempt but still is happy about a nice day in a string of nice days. God I love living here.
A girl on a train! Heading up to the city to meet up with an old friend whom I haven't seen in far too long.
August 8, 2025 at 12:32 AM
A girl on a train! Heading up to the city to meet up with an old friend whom I haven't seen in far too long.
Feels like I haven't been posting my #SelfieTithe bullshit from outside recently because I haven't been doing drop-off. But I have an errand I need to run and it's a beautiful day, so!
August 6, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Feels like I haven't been posting my #SelfieTithe bullshit from outside recently because I haven't been doing drop-off. But I have an errand I need to run and it's a beautiful day, so!
It's funny how much of an effect even just stud earrings have on the face. #SelfieTithe
August 6, 2025 at 1:38 AM
It's funny how much of an effect even just stud earrings have on the face. #SelfieTithe
#QueerPrompts August 4:
Sophie struggling with communicating aro love across language barriers, because language is a fuck. She's just friends. Sometimes, uh, best friends.
"words for friendship that were distinct from romance" indeed.
Sophie struggling with communicating aro love across language barriers, because language is a fuck. She's just friends. Sometimes, uh, best friends.
"words for friendship that were distinct from romance" indeed.
August 4, 2025 at 10:42 PM
#QueerPrompts August 4:
Sophie struggling with communicating aro love across language barriers, because language is a fuck. She's just friends. Sometimes, uh, best friends.
"words for friendship that were distinct from romance" indeed.
Sophie struggling with communicating aro love across language barriers, because language is a fuck. She's just friends. Sometimes, uh, best friends.
"words for friendship that were distinct from romance" indeed.
Some days I'm just like holy shit that's right, I did actually write and publish a goddamn novel. #SelfieTithe
August 4, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Some days I'm just like holy shit that's right, I did actually write and publish a goddamn novel. #SelfieTithe
New professional headshot, turns out laser has been magical.
August 2, 2025 at 11:59 PM
New professional headshot, turns out laser has been magical.
Some days a girl goes to the farmers market on a gorgeous day and life is just nothing but good. Strawberries, blueberries, stone fruit, green beans, onions, tomatoes, and as a treat some tuna steaks; goddamn I love living here. #SelfieTithe
August 2, 2025 at 7:20 PM
Some days a girl goes to the farmers market on a gorgeous day and life is just nothing but good. Strawberries, blueberries, stone fruit, green beans, onions, tomatoes, and as a treat some tuna steaks; goddamn I love living here. #SelfieTithe
Car selfie on the way to dinner. Shabbat Shalom, skyline! May your day of rest be restorative, and also mine, please, I need it.
August 2, 2025 at 12:33 AM
Car selfie on the way to dinner. Shabbat Shalom, skyline! May your day of rest be restorative, and also mine, please, I need it.
This would actually look pretty good if I had shaved this morning, huh. #SelfieTithe
August 1, 2025 at 2:01 AM
This would actually look pretty good if I had shaved this morning, huh. #SelfieTithe
Bins go out, bins go in. Never a miscommunication. #SelfieTithe
July 31, 2025 at 1:59 AM
Bins go out, bins go in. Never a miscommunication. #SelfieTithe
This is what her current one looks like. Those bubble-looking things push/pop to the other side and then back.
July 31, 2025 at 1:36 AM
This is what her current one looks like. Those bubble-looking things push/pop to the other side and then back.