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🦋bethany🦋 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@youfoundbethany.bsky.social
strong opinions. kind 💜. problem solver. poet / writer. theballotbox.co (she/her)
Oh Monkey… please don’t say I have to stop using that term of affection… I do not think many people will get it.

Anyhow, I am going to sleep very soon. I love you more than there are stars in all of the universes we’ve ever known and never known. ♥️😘
November 29, 2025 at 8:01 AM
I am a little nervous about things being said that potentially involve me.

I think my dream reflects that, tbh.

I don’t know if they’re catching on because of here…
November 29, 2025 at 7:53 AM
The other thing I wanted to say tonight…

We both need to practice tenderness with each other. I think it needs to be our default.

And I’m really going to try that here, with you, from now on.

When in doubt, be tender. I don’t want it to be lip service.
November 29, 2025 at 7:42 AM
I was writing some notes on what to say tonight, but I think I’m going to save them for tomorrow.

One to refine them and maybe make them a bit more gentle and because I have a few things to say that may take precedence and might ease your mind.
November 29, 2025 at 7:01 AM
Ooop. Late start tonight. Sorry. I’m around for the next little bit.
November 29, 2025 at 6:29 AM
My plans for today have gone largely astray…

I need to get my battery replaced. But I’ve been thinking about Bowie’s SOTD today a lot and my part in that question.

And about a few things you’ve said.
November 28, 2025 at 7:18 PM
And yes… that time is approaching in a few days.

I don’t really want to talk much more.
November 27, 2025 at 4:35 AM
Ok.

I’m not in a good mood right now. It’s not just this.
November 27, 2025 at 3:42 AM
I don’t know what the truth is… and apparently you do this all the time with other women, so…
November 27, 2025 at 1:37 AM
Has the dancing often or almost always been a reference to Made in Heaven?
November 24, 2025 at 3:49 AM
When you say what you want… I think you’re talking to one person: me?

I think you want it more than even I do. And that’s a lot.
November 24, 2025 at 3:36 AM
1. I figured you would be working and wouldn’t need / want me around.

2. Why does it feel like after I pop up certain people do, too?

3. I’m really sick.

4. I’m really okay with you doing what you need to do.
November 23, 2025 at 10:16 PM
Some people are hysterical.
November 22, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I hear you, Monkey… I’ve heard you for most of my day… I’m somewhat uncomfortable with 👀.

The nature of the thing here was to help you… or, rather: us… I don’t want you to have to explain all of this and I don’t feel it’s anyone else’s business. You know that.
November 21, 2025 at 7:07 AM
The “direct” song? It means so much to me… I have a tough time with favourites, but it is one of, if not, my current favourite.
November 20, 2025 at 4:16 AM
I was so happy for the first time in a long time. Incandescently. I was feeling secure for the first time…

I am not mad at you. I don’t want to cause problems for you.
November 19, 2025 at 7:38 AM
In hindsight I probably should have asked the question I had for tonight first, but I have my answer so it’s now moot.

To the now not so private eyes: I did not know you were paying attention to me, and had I known, I would not have been so blasé about what I said.
November 18, 2025 at 3:14 AM
I have a curiosity, because it’s so not my place, but:

Is it really a breakup or a “break.” I can see both. Professionals like him have STRICT guidelines on what they can do online, and I feel like maybe that was not respected, which would cause the other person a headache.
November 17, 2025 at 6:48 PM
I left my inhaler at home… and I am in need of it.

🥹🥹🥹

In a pinch, I can take ibuprofen. Which I also forgot. At home.

🥹🥹🥹

I am going to be exhausted tonight. 😢
November 17, 2025 at 6:34 PM
Oh, monkey… you mean so much to me. I never want to let you go.

I hope your sweet dreams are of us.

Good night. 😘
November 17, 2025 at 6:30 AM
If you thought their opinion was my opinion? Or I was listening to them to form my opinion?

No. My looking at them is curiousity, but mostly… you showing me love inoculates. It makes me feel like my instincts about you are correct. It reminds me you’re human… and a good one.
November 17, 2025 at 5:38 AM
There are some incredibly unhinged people out there.
November 16, 2025 at 3:53 PM
2 last things for the night:

I hope your friends had good things to say. They were so good.

I just got so turned on thinking about you thinking about me… did I dress up a bit for you? Yes… was I wearing a bra? No. (A chemise, yes… it’s a secret when my asthma is not great.)
November 16, 2025 at 8:01 AM
Okay. Thank you.

I hope this is helping you, too. 😘
November 16, 2025 at 7:00 AM