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Wen We Wander
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✨ Mama | Neuroscientist | Writer
📍 Malaysia ⇄ Minnesota
💌 Science-backed notes on motherhood + soft life
In Mississippi, the average first-time mom is 24.5. In D.C., she’s 30.8. That’s a 6-year gap — basically an entire childhood. 🍼📊

Read here 👉bit.ly/3UZOSVT
#Motherhood #Parenting #Fertility
The Motherhood Map: Where You Live Shapes When You Have Your First Baby
What a Color-Coded Watermelon Can Teach Us About Motherhood in America
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November 3, 2025 at 7:33 PM
The tabs never close: meetings and meatballs. If your brain runs work + kitchen, you’re bilingual—not broken. ↓
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#WomenInSTEM #WorkingMom
Split-Screen Brain: Lab Notes & Lunch Notes
Expectation vs. Reality, plotted on one very caffeinated timeline. Reheats: x3. Blueberries: everywhere.
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September 13, 2025 at 6:33 PM
If your August looked like snacks, deadlines, and stroller loops: same. Here’s what I read, listened to, and cooked (fast).

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#MomLife #WeeknightDinner #August
August Edition: Pages, Podcasts & Plates
A good-enough roundup for tired minds & a blueberry-obsessed baby
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September 6, 2025 at 6:33 PM
If your day was workworkwork → kid pickup → dinner → back to work… pull up a chair. I’m in the “overwhelmed but trying” club tonight. 🫶 #WorkingMomLife
September 5, 2025 at 2:13 AM
What if postpartum rest wasn’t optional, but assumed?
What if food was medicine, not takeout?
What if mothers were protected, not left to “bounce back”?

New post on WenWeWander: Rest Is Not Indulgence
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Rest Is Not Indulgence: Rethinking Postpartum Care
Because mothers shouldn’t have to earn the right to heal
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September 2, 2025 at 12:19 AM
I mapped the age of first-time moms across the U.S. — it looks like someone dropped a watermelon on America. 🍉

See where your state lands on the “Motherhood Map”
👉 www.datawrapper.de/_/kDIrQ/

#newmom #motherhood #parenting #fertility
Average age of mother at her first birth | Created with Datawrapper
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August 31, 2025 at 2:20 PM
Menu board:
🍦 Dole whip—$6
🍗 Turkey leg—$12
🤧 “Is this HFM or heat rash?”—priceless

The receipt no one wants ↓
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#MinnesotaStateFair #MomLife #Parenting
August 29, 2025 at 9:14 PM
August in Minnesota:
🌽 Fried corn dogs → $7
🧀 Cheese curds → $8
🦠 Hand-foot-mouth → free with daycare admission

Read the full receipt ↓
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#MotherhoodUnfiltered #MinnesotaStateFair #MomLife #ParentingJourney #LateSummer
The Bittersweet Sick of Late Summer
Fair food, fevers, and the fragile balance of it all
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August 28, 2025 at 6:19 PM
South Minneapolis is grieving. Annunciation Church & School should be a sanctuary, not a crime scene. Holding every child, parent, and teacher in my heart. If you’re local, check on your people and be extra tender with your kids tonight. 💔 #Minneapolis #EndGunViolence
August 27, 2025 at 8:03 PM
“Mom guilt” is basically a built-in alarm system with a broken volume knob. I dug into the research on why it’s so loud—and what helps turn it down.

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#momguilt #motherhood #newmomlife #postpartum #mama #parentingtruths #wenwewander
The Science of Mom Guilt: Why You Feel It and How to Rewire It
Guilt powered by love, shame, and a tiny dictator in footie pajamas.
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August 26, 2025 at 9:40 PM