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NZBearDad | Never stop Dancing
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44 | Married | New Zealand | Photographer | Film Student | Pug Dad |

Saying what’s on my mind online since 1996
Of course. Clear weather for days and days. Then the strongest aurora in decades hits and I’m stuck in a freaking cyclone. Words cannot express how angry I am.

If it’s dark where you are. Go outside.
April 16, 2025 at 4:13 PM
Another (long) update from me (yay!)

I am now in Week 9 of my one year course - 31 weeks left to go. Next week is the end of Term one and I have to say, this is one of the most compact and intense learning experiences I have ever had.
April 6, 2025 at 8:57 PM
So, I have submitted my major assessment for this term a day and a half early.

1 - College Aaron would have *never* done this.
2 - Professional Aaron couldn't get *anything* in on time.

Now I am consistently nailing stuff days early.

Amazing what you can do when you like what you are doing.
April 2, 2025 at 8:02 PM
The frustrating thing about April Fools in NZ is that you have to suffer for two days while the rest of the world have their April Fools.
April 1, 2025 at 4:39 PM
“I just have to decide which authoritarian nation gets my data - US (Meta) or China (Tik Tok)”

I only use FB for reels and political posts. Since Reels are just 2 week old Tik toks, I may as well make the jump.

It’s crazy it has taken only 2 months to kill my 18 year relationship with FB.
Le sigh
March 28, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Week 5 of school. Thankful for the home day, but man the schedule is relentless.

It’s *so* regimented I forget how much they control younger folks.
March 10, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Hello World. I have been a bit quiet, so a big of an update from my corner of the world. Given that I have sworn off FB as my personal media outlet, I just want to give a bit of a peek into my life. Lets jump down the tread.
March 9, 2025 at 9:18 PM
I’m in a first aid course today for school.

The person teaching is not great. They are asking questions we have no clue how to answer and then laughs when we guess wrong.

Also no structure, no room for questions, and random asides that have nothing to do with today.

A bit annoyed.
March 5, 2025 at 9:40 PM
Thoughts three weeks into school - a thread

I am sitting here early before 8 - on the 19th day of classes. Over the last week I have worked in studios, TV Control rooms, and have gone on a 4 hour filming session where I was the director. It has been a lot of work... but all so fantastic.
February 26, 2025 at 7:30 PM
Quotes from school

After answering the question “What movies did you see in the theater as a kid.”

Co-student 1 - “You saw JURASSIC PARK when it came out?!”

Me - “Yes, I was 12 years old.”

Co-student 2 - “I was 11 when ‘The Force Awakens’ came out.”

☠️☠️☠️☠️
February 26, 2025 at 9:46 AM
Big day for me! I’m directing/leading an 8 person crew for a filming shoot. It’s kinda bonkers but totally ready for it!
February 25, 2025 at 7:06 PM
Today has been an awesome day at school. We spent time in the studio control center where we learned to run live broadcast. I had a try at both mixing audio and controlling the camera feeds. Super basic but oh so cool.
February 24, 2025 at 11:32 PM
I hate that the *moment* my feet start hurting (Plantar Fasciitis) I start getting ads targeting how to address them.

And I only mentioned it once last night to the hubby.

Fucking surveillance Capitalism
February 19, 2025 at 7:22 PM
A moment while the world is on the same calendar day. Due to Daylight Saving here, from 11-12pm NZ time the global date is Feb 19.

I’ve spent more than 1/3 of my life living outside the U.S.

Whoa

Will unpack later. But I’m introspective - next week marks 15 years since meeting the hubby, bonkers.
February 19, 2025 at 10:14 AM
It’s Friday and the end of my first week at school. It’s been a whirlwind of a week and very exciting all told. As is customary, 300 characters can’t contain me so join the thread below!
February 13, 2025 at 11:46 PM
My first day went really well! I took a good Student ID 📸, didn’t have lunch in the bathroom stall, and I may have met a friend or two! Hubby came along like the proud husband he is. I have thoughts and observations below.

So let’s jump into the thread!
February 10, 2025 at 3:13 AM
First day of … 17th grade?

Or in other words, my first day of Film school!!
February 9, 2025 at 8:50 PM
Help! I'm going back to school after 20+ years and I have no clue what supplies I need. It's film school so not sure what to expect. Help me bluesky, you are my only hope!

(right and wrong answers please, half the fun is figuring out which ones are the real suggestions)
February 5, 2025 at 11:25 PM
Abracadabra is fucking fire. It’s peak Gaga - from inescapable earworm, nonsense words, and insane music video - I am LIVING.

Is this Gaga’s “Ray of Light” era? I am feeling it!
February 4, 2025 at 10:07 PM
Tēnā kotou katoa (Hey everyone)

Over the last week I sat down with the amazing Tristan (@manawa_tapu on IG)
To receive this amazing ta moko (tattoo). I’ve planned this for for some time now and want to share the thinking and meaning behind the piece. So, as always, jump down the rabbit hole.
February 4, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Dad mode activated.

Will share more soon
February 4, 2025 at 8:28 AM
As a reminder -

The U.S. government - as standard- creates multiple backups of all of its information, and that information is spread out across and outside the DC region.

That means things that are being deleted at offices still are recoverable - if those copies can be secured in time.
February 4, 2025 at 2:12 AM
I’m finishing off one of those “everyone will look at your differently after this” tattoo. Another couple hours to go.

And you know what? Good. I’m over playing ‘the game’. It’s 2025 and the world is fucked. I’m getting that badass loud tattoo so shut the f*cknup

And yes it’s looking badass.
February 3, 2025 at 11:06 PM
News Triage.
- Don’t read/watch infotainment sources (cnn, fox, etc.)
- Stick to AP and Reuters for the facts.
- Stay away from commentary and opinion.
- Find browser plugins to auto filter terms.
- Unsub from politics
- mute/unfollow politics accounts.
This is a marathon, pace yourself.
Hugs
January 29, 2025 at 7:21 AM
I’ll say that for the moment, I have a 50/50 shot at decent photos tonight. Lower clouds are clearing out. High clouds towards the horizon fade slowly moving through, but should break up as they get to land. I have an anxious 75 minutes until I find out.
January 29, 2025 at 7:16 AM