Rae-volutionary Goth Untenable
@thirteenthesia.bsky.social
|| 35 he/they AuDHD + EDS queer UK
|| concert pianist, astrophys, edu adm
|| diversity consultant, tag wrangler
|| sci-fi, anime, horror, fantasy, fandom, history
|| cosplay, writing, crafting, stitching
|| fandoms: sw kylux, witcher, ff8, trek, ons+
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Kylo has some questions about Millie
November 15, 2025 at 3:13 AM
Kylo has some questions about Millie
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if you want to be referred for a psychoeducational assessment in a household where one parent brakes on the highway to pick up deer antlers and the other parent can't stand the sensation of pants that aren't tucked into their socks, you have to get creative
November 15, 2025 at 5:12 AM
if you want to be referred for a psychoeducational assessment in a household where one parent brakes on the highway to pick up deer antlers and the other parent can't stand the sensation of pants that aren't tucked into their socks, you have to get creative
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It's a great cosmic joke that neurodivergence both runs in families and gets diagnosed based on parent reports. I was diagnosed at 30 because a man who has eaten potatoes every day for 57 years and a woman who collects loose buttons decided I was a perfectly normal child.
November 15, 2025 at 5:10 AM
It's a great cosmic joke that neurodivergence both runs in families and gets diagnosed based on parent reports. I was diagnosed at 30 because a man who has eaten potatoes every day for 57 years and a woman who collects loose buttons decided I was a perfectly normal child.
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if there was a way to power through ME/CFS with exercise, no-one would have ME/CFS. it's the first thing almost anyone tries.
November 15, 2025 at 9:25 PM
if there was a way to power through ME/CFS with exercise, no-one would have ME/CFS. it's the first thing almost anyone tries.
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Here is the link to the Kylux Winter Card exchange. 🧡🖤
Sign up: Nov 1, 2025 - Nov 24, 2025
More information in the form below and of course feel free to write me a dm for any questions, concerns or comments. ✨ #kylux
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Sign up: Nov 1, 2025 - Nov 24, 2025
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Kylux Winter Card Exchange 2025
Hello everyone 🧡🖤,
thank you so much for your interest in the
Kylux Winter Card Exchange 2025.
Here we’ll spread some winter spirit by sending real cards all around the globe ❄️.
It’s our fifth y...
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November 12, 2025 at 8:25 AM
Here is the link to the Kylux Winter Card exchange. 🧡🖤
Sign up: Nov 1, 2025 - Nov 24, 2025
More information in the form below and of course feel free to write me a dm for any questions, concerns or comments. ✨ #kylux
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Sign up: Nov 1, 2025 - Nov 24, 2025
More information in the form below and of course feel free to write me a dm for any questions, concerns or comments. ✨ #kylux
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You are not "difficult" or "stubborn" or pathologically "hyper independent" for having conflicted or negative feelings about reaching out for help. You're responding to your conditioning & experiences that actually happened.
Don't let yourself be shamed for normal reflexes.
Don't let yourself be shamed for normal reflexes.
November 12, 2025 at 11:13 AM
You are not "difficult" or "stubborn" or pathologically "hyper independent" for having conflicted or negative feelings about reaching out for help. You're responding to your conditioning & experiences that actually happened.
Don't let yourself be shamed for normal reflexes.
Don't let yourself be shamed for normal reflexes.
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You are not an "angry person." You are a deeply sensitive & aware person who experienced things worth being angry about, & your nervous & endocrine systems are responding appropriately.
Your anger is a sign that something is RIGHT with you, not that something is wrong or broken.
Your anger is a sign that something is RIGHT with you, not that something is wrong or broken.
November 12, 2025 at 11:11 AM
You are not an "angry person." You are a deeply sensitive & aware person who experienced things worth being angry about, & your nervous & endocrine systems are responding appropriately.
Your anger is a sign that something is RIGHT with you, not that something is wrong or broken.
Your anger is a sign that something is RIGHT with you, not that something is wrong or broken.
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If we're going to develop the kind of durable, realistic self esteem trauma recovery requires, we need to quit repeating to ourselves sh*t our abusers said to us or about us. It's a poisonous habit we were tricked into.
Hear a loud record scratch sound whenever you notice it.
Hear a loud record scratch sound whenever you notice it.
November 12, 2025 at 11:07 AM
If we're going to develop the kind of durable, realistic self esteem trauma recovery requires, we need to quit repeating to ourselves sh*t our abusers said to us or about us. It's a poisonous habit we were tricked into.
Hear a loud record scratch sound whenever you notice it.
Hear a loud record scratch sound whenever you notice it.
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If someone tries to convince you safe space imagery is "stupid," they're informing you they don't understand the neuroscience of how our autonomic nervous system works-- & they're willing to trash an effective tool because it doesn't sound "cool" enough to use.
Bummer for them.
Bummer for them.
November 12, 2025 at 11:08 AM
If someone tries to convince you safe space imagery is "stupid," they're informing you they don't understand the neuroscience of how our autonomic nervous system works-- & they're willing to trash an effective tool because it doesn't sound "cool" enough to use.
Bummer for them.
Bummer for them.
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Napping is not a sign that you can't handle life. It's a recovery tool vital to the daily functioning of many trauma survivors, especially if their stressors include chronic or complex health conditions.
A good nap is a more effective tool than toxic positivity any day.
A good nap is a more effective tool than toxic positivity any day.
November 12, 2025 at 11:09 AM
Napping is not a sign that you can't handle life. It's a recovery tool vital to the daily functioning of many trauma survivors, especially if their stressors include chronic or complex health conditions.
A good nap is a more effective tool than toxic positivity any day.
A good nap is a more effective tool than toxic positivity any day.
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Do not let the violent behavior of your abusers convince you that either your anger or your "fight" trauma responses are inherently "bad" or destructive.
Properly accepted, understood, & managed, anger & "fight" will save your life & fuel your recovery in ways nothing else can.
Properly accepted, understood, & managed, anger & "fight" will save your life & fuel your recovery in ways nothing else can.
November 12, 2025 at 11:10 AM
Do not let the violent behavior of your abusers convince you that either your anger or your "fight" trauma responses are inherently "bad" or destructive.
Properly accepted, understood, & managed, anger & "fight" will save your life & fuel your recovery in ways nothing else can.
Properly accepted, understood, & managed, anger & "fight" will save your life & fuel your recovery in ways nothing else can.
Didn't get in again to the university craft fair at Christmas. At this point I just have to assume that they have something against us because we've been in it every single year since it started, bar this coming year and last December. Ugh. Oh well.
November 3, 2025 at 1:22 PM
Didn't get in again to the university craft fair at Christmas. At this point I just have to assume that they have something against us because we've been in it every single year since it started, bar this coming year and last December. Ugh. Oh well.
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Mmm… suspicious 🤨
#radioapple #alastor #lucifer #lilith #HazbinHotel #hazbinhotelseason2 season 2 hazbin
#radioapple #alastor #lucifer #lilith #HazbinHotel #hazbinhotelseason2 season 2 hazbin
October 29, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Mmm… suspicious 🤨
#radioapple #alastor #lucifer #lilith #HazbinHotel #hazbinhotelseason2 season 2 hazbin
#radioapple #alastor #lucifer #lilith #HazbinHotel #hazbinhotelseason2 season 2 hazbin
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We have also booked 3 craft fairs this year with one more possibly on the horizon, so. Gotta get busy with all of that. Halloween and Xmas specials.... but first, a (final fantasy) tactics nap.
October 1, 2025 at 6:04 PM
We have also booked 3 craft fairs this year with one more possibly on the horizon, so. Gotta get busy with all of that. Halloween and Xmas specials.... but first, a (final fantasy) tactics nap.
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I'm not really superstitious about anything, except the computer, which must be restarted if it has been on too long, to cleanse it of bad or negative energies
October 1, 2025 at 10:08 AM
I'm not really superstitious about anything, except the computer, which must be restarted if it has been on too long, to cleanse it of bad or negative energies
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Hi! We've made the Put This In Your Ear Object. It is the ideal size and shape to put in your ear, feels really nice when you put it in your ear, and can be used to clean out earwax, by putting it in your ear. Just one thing, though. Under NO circumstances should you put this in your ear.
October 1, 2025 at 10:34 AM
Hi! We've made the Put This In Your Ear Object. It is the ideal size and shape to put in your ear, feels really nice when you put it in your ear, and can be used to clean out earwax, by putting it in your ear. Just one thing, though. Under NO circumstances should you put this in your ear.
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Apparently Google is "applying AI to science and the environment". "Applying to" is an interestingly value-free little linguistic flourish. One can apply a hammer to the side of someone's head, for example.
October 1, 2025 at 1:32 PM
Apparently Google is "applying AI to science and the environment". "Applying to" is an interestingly value-free little linguistic flourish. One can apply a hammer to the side of someone's head, for example.
After losing the final fantasy brave exvius war of the visions and too many titles earlier this year I have been bereft of final fantasy tactics games to play that I currently own/have a console for so it is good that the Ivalice chronicles has arrived so I can really get back into it again.
October 1, 2025 at 5:59 PM
After losing the final fantasy brave exvius war of the visions and too many titles earlier this year I have been bereft of final fantasy tactics games to play that I currently own/have a console for so it is good that the Ivalice chronicles has arrived so I can really get back into it again.
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100 tech bros vs the concept of consent
(aka STOP SHOVING AI INTO EVERYTHING YOU BADLY FLIPPED, UNDER-CHOCOLATE-CHIPPED PANCAKES)
(aka STOP SHOVING AI INTO EVERYTHING YOU BADLY FLIPPED, UNDER-CHOCOLATE-CHIPPED PANCAKES)
October 1, 2025 at 4:37 PM
100 tech bros vs the concept of consent
(aka STOP SHOVING AI INTO EVERYTHING YOU BADLY FLIPPED, UNDER-CHOCOLATE-CHIPPED PANCAKES)
(aka STOP SHOVING AI INTO EVERYTHING YOU BADLY FLIPPED, UNDER-CHOCOLATE-CHIPPED PANCAKES)