Inita D
theinitad.bsky.social
Inita D
@theinitad.bsky.social
Your Friendly neighborhood crossdresser 💃🏽
Miss Stonewall & Miss Fire Island EOY 2024 👑
Serving the community one dip at a time!
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Bitch I’m making this account about nightlife pet peeves and hot ass men! I Cannot wait!!!
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April 23, 2025 at 11:45 AM
Inita Rant #13

IMO if you are now comfortable with being uncomfortable especially when managing employees and problem solving you shouldn’t be a nightlife manager/program director. Managing talent can mean having uncomfortable conversations with them to find solutions to an issue.
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Inita D
August 27, 2025 at 3:52 AM
Inita Rant #12
IMO if you are trying to book a drag artist for your company’s Pride event in support of the LGBTQ+ community. Do not try to pay them for their time and talent with a coupon/gift bag of your company’s products especially during pride month. Coupons don’t pay the rent!!
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June 9, 2025 at 11:17 PM
Inita Rant #11

IMO If you book me for a performance/gig and we have agreed upon my obligations/job description for said gig, DO NOT ask me to do extra work without extra pay!!! Drag is a business and an EXPENSIVE one no matter how cheap you try to make it!

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Inita D
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May 22, 2025 at 7:12 PM
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May 22, 2025 at 1:26 PM
Inita Rant #10

IMO sometimes you don’t get the gig NOT because you aren’t talented (because you are) but because they don’t know you. Networking is key within this industry so remember that before you take it personal. It will help elevate unnecessary stress and worry!

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Inita D
April 12, 2025 at 7:08 AM
Inita Rant #9

It’s called a DIP, NOT a Deathdrop. Stop whitewashing Black and Latin queer culture. Learn your history and do better! #ImJustDaying

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Inita D
March 11, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Inita Rant #8

IMO anyone CAN do drag, BUT not everyone SHOULD do drag!!!! #IJS

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Inita D
March 5, 2025 at 5:32 PM
Inita Rant #7

IMO! If a certain genre of music is not your “style” to perform to, then do not take the gig UNLESS you are willing to push your comfort zone and respect that genre in your performance!!!!

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Inita D
February 11, 2025 at 2:21 AM
Inita Rant #6

IMO just because a drag artist is sharing their shitty experience working with you to another coworker in the dressing room, DOESNT always mean they are talking shit about you. YOU could’ve just been a shitty person to work with! 🤷🏽‍♀️ Recognize the difference!

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Inita D
February 4, 2025 at 5:20 AM
Inita Rant #5

IMO Drag Artist the best part of a Drag roulette is when it’s a song you don’t know, cause you have the opportunity to just be silly or play with that moment. Perform the song don’t just only do the songs you know. It’s a Roulette NOT a premade megalist! Well …. 👀
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Inita D
January 24, 2025 at 8:27 PM
Inita Rant #4

IMO……WASH YOUR UNDERGARMENTS! & clean your costumes or at least vodka/water spray them. Nothing is more unpleasant then when a patron goes to tip or hug you and they are greeted by your funk BEFORE they even get to hug you!

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Inita D
January 23, 2025 at 5:28 AM
Inita rant #3

IMO. If you are tipping me and I go to receive your tip, with my hand out, do NOT wave it around my hand like I’m a f**king dog playing fetch. ESPECIALLY when it’s only 1 DOLLAR, girl you can keep it. Low key it’s degrading…

What you think?

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Inita D

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January 20, 2025 at 4:58 AM
Inita Rant #2

IMO…. If you are a female identifying person especially a cisgendered woman do not put your hands all over or grope me at my shows! Unless I give consent or invite you to do so!

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Inita D
January 19, 2025 at 2:39 AM
Inita Rant #1:
Do not book a drag show at your venue if your sound system isn’t loud enough to cover the sound of my heels clacking on the floor when I dance! 👠

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Inita D
January 16, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Bitch I’m making this account about nightlife pet peeves and hot ass men! I Cannot wait!!!
January 16, 2025 at 5:22 AM
I did it and made a bluesky! AOW be gentle

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Inita D
January 3, 2025 at 9:00 PM