Denise Dailey 🏳️⚧️🔞 she/her
@t4toy.com
Your friendly neighbourhood trans-fem sex toy reviewer (post-GRS, since it’s actually relevant to know). Writing for anyone with a vulva regardless of gender at https://t4toy.com/
“She’s like Popular Mechanics® for vibrators!”
(Not endorsed by Hearst 😅)
“She’s like Popular Mechanics® for vibrators!”
(Not endorsed by Hearst 😅)
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Denise Dailey 🏳️⚧️🔞 she/her
@t4toy.com
· Aug 24
If you're under 18, please do not interact with me. I'm really sorry, but the authorities don't care that I’m informative; they just go "sex! bad! save the children!!!" until the day you're 17 years + 364 days old, then you're magically a sexually mature and very very responsible adult the next day.
Hey folks! I’ve been taking some time away because I felt awful about not being able to write reviews, and feeling more awful isn’t AT ALL why I do t4toy. My mental concentration seems to take longer to return after a ME/CFS flare-up than anything else. 😐 Hopefully back soon, but self-care first. 💖
November 7, 2025 at 10:17 PM
Hey folks! I’ve been taking some time away because I felt awful about not being able to write reviews, and feeling more awful isn’t AT ALL why I do t4toy. My mental concentration seems to take longer to return after a ME/CFS flare-up than anything else. 😐 Hopefully back soon, but self-care first. 💖
Oh thank fuck, I can stand up long enough to take a proper shower and prepare a simple meal again without crashing in bed for hours. 💖 This past week of CFS/PEM was a real doozy.
Now I must resist the urge to immediately do everything I had to put off so I don’t give myself another week of this… 😮💨
Now I must resist the urge to immediately do everything I had to put off so I don’t give myself another week of this… 😮💨
October 24, 2025 at 10:01 PM
Oh thank fuck, I can stand up long enough to take a proper shower and prepare a simple meal again without crashing in bed for hours. 💖 This past week of CFS/PEM was a real doozy.
Now I must resist the urge to immediately do everything I had to put off so I don’t give myself another week of this… 😮💨
Now I must resist the urge to immediately do everything I had to put off so I don’t give myself another week of this… 😮💨
Day five of PEM (post-exertional malaise) and barely being able to walk around the house for seemingly* no reason. I do not like this at all. 😭 Desperately wish I could just power through it somehow, but trying to only makes it much worse. Sigh.
* but not actually no reason. The reason is ME/CFS. 😣
* but not actually no reason. The reason is ME/CFS. 😣
October 22, 2025 at 12:57 AM
Day five of PEM (post-exertional malaise) and barely being able to walk around the house for seemingly* no reason. I do not like this at all. 😭 Desperately wish I could just power through it somehow, but trying to only makes it much worse. Sigh.
* but not actually no reason. The reason is ME/CFS. 😣
* but not actually no reason. The reason is ME/CFS. 😣
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WHAT THE EVER LOVING FUCK. VACCINATE YOUR PETS! AND YOUR CHILDREN! AND YOURSELVES! VACCINES ARE LITERALLY THE BIGGEST PUBLIC HEALTH WIN EVER. THEY SAVE LIVES. THEY CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE, OR YOUR DOGS LIFE.
May I remind everyone that there is currently NO cure for rabies.
May I also remind everyone there is absolutely NO scientific proof connecting ANY vaccine that we produce today with autism.
This is true regarding vaccination in both humans AND in dogs.
Vaccinate your pets please.
May I also remind everyone there is absolutely NO scientific proof connecting ANY vaccine that we produce today with autism.
This is true regarding vaccination in both humans AND in dogs.
Vaccinate your pets please.
October 20, 2025 at 7:14 PM
WHAT THE EVER LOVING FUCK. VACCINATE YOUR PETS! AND YOUR CHILDREN! AND YOURSELVES! VACCINES ARE LITERALLY THE BIGGEST PUBLIC HEALTH WIN EVER. THEY SAVE LIVES. THEY CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE, OR YOUR DOGS LIFE.
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some straight woman on reddit was like “I hooked up with a guy recently, and afterward, he asked me how I was feeling and whether I wanted a glass of water or a snack? wtf? what was he trying to pull?”
everyone in the comments is like “girl he was just trying to do aftercare”
the bar is in HELLLLL
everyone in the comments is like “girl he was just trying to do aftercare”
the bar is in HELLLLL
October 17, 2025 at 10:29 PM
some straight woman on reddit was like “I hooked up with a guy recently, and afterward, he asked me how I was feeling and whether I wanted a glass of water or a snack? wtf? what was he trying to pull?”
everyone in the comments is like “girl he was just trying to do aftercare”
the bar is in HELLLLL
everyone in the comments is like “girl he was just trying to do aftercare”
the bar is in HELLLLL
When I see people asking for recommendations for “a BBC dildo”, I get tempted to send them something like this:
October 17, 2025 at 6:46 PM
When I see people asking for recommendations for “a BBC dildo”, I get tempted to send them something like this:
Just a random guess… but you haven’t watched this recently enough, have you?
www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTJv...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTJv...
The Internet Is For Porn - Avenue Q - Original Broadway Cast
YouTube video by Broadway Classics
www.youtube.com
October 15, 2025 at 5:07 PM
Just a random guess… but you haven’t watched this recently enough, have you?
www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTJv...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTJv...
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Great stuff. Just fucking great. Actual adult creators are drowning under censorship but the robot is allowed to give you bullshit no-ethics, no-soul erotica. Why not.
Oh good, ChatGPT is getting "erotica for verified adults" later this year
October 14, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Great stuff. Just fucking great. Actual adult creators are drowning under censorship but the robot is allowed to give you bullshit no-ethics, no-soul erotica. Why not.
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Phew. I finally finished the most in-*depth* 😉 review I’ve ever written! I have a LOT to say about this compact sex machine from UEROS—although it isn’t flawless, it lives up to the expectations that come with its US $289 price tag and even makes it into my Top Picks list.
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
UEROS Nexus Compact Sex Machine in-depth review - t4toy.com
Thrusting a vibrator is tiring, but full-size sex machines are bulky and expensive! What’s a lazy masturbator like me to do? UEROS may have the answer with this compact unit.
t4toy.com
October 13, 2025 at 6:39 PM
Phew. I finally finished the most in-*depth* 😉 review I’ve ever written! I have a LOT to say about this compact sex machine from UEROS—although it isn’t flawless, it lives up to the expectations that come with its US $289 price tag and even makes it into my Top Picks list.
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
Phew. I finally finished the most in-*depth* 😉 review I’ve ever written! I have a LOT to say about this compact sex machine from UEROS—although it isn’t flawless, it lives up to the expectations that come with its US $289 price tag and even makes it into my Top Picks list.
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
UEROS Nexus Compact Sex Machine in-depth review - t4toy.com
Thrusting a vibrator is tiring, but full-size sex machines are bulky and expensive! What’s a lazy masturbator like me to do? UEROS may have the answer with this compact unit.
t4toy.com
October 13, 2025 at 6:39 PM
Phew. I finally finished the most in-*depth* 😉 review I’ve ever written! I have a LOT to say about this compact sex machine from UEROS—although it isn’t flawless, it lives up to the expectations that come with its US $289 price tag and even makes it into my Top Picks list.
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
t4toy.com/reviews/uero...
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there have always been people who like to write, and people who like to say they have written, and the latter really love the idea of AI and the former can not understand why you'd let a computer do the fun part.
there’s this weird idea a lot of people seem to have about how all of us writers and artists must secretly want to use AI and are merely resisting temptation for ethical reasons, and like, no, it’s not hard for me to resist drinking the bowl of Piss With Glass In It actually
October 10, 2025 at 12:07 AM
there have always been people who like to write, and people who like to say they have written, and the latter really love the idea of AI and the former can not understand why you'd let a computer do the fun part.
THIS. A few months after my bottom surgery 18 years ago, my then-endocrinologist was looking at my bloodwork and was confused that I still had detectable testosterone sans testes. And he was like “weird, umm, should we put you back on the blocker?” Noooo, it’s good to still have just a little bit!
EVERY BODY IS A TESTOSTERONE-BASED BODY, considering healthy women have way more testosterone than estrogen, too.
"Testosterone-based bodies" and "estrogen-based bodies" are often medically inaccurate word choices to replace the terms, "people with penises" and "people with vulvas."
"Testosterone-based bodies" and "estrogen-based bodies" are often medically inaccurate word choices to replace the terms, "people with penises" and "people with vulvas."
October 10, 2025 at 6:03 PM
THIS. A few months after my bottom surgery 18 years ago, my then-endocrinologist was looking at my bloodwork and was confused that I still had detectable testosterone sans testes. And he was like “weird, umm, should we put you back on the blocker?” Noooo, it’s good to still have just a little bit!
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porn is not evil.
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
October 8, 2025 at 6:52 PM
porn is not evil.
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
“According to one source, the other side already has a counter attack waiting in the wings: the number 5,318,008.” 😆
(The Beaverton is basically Canada’s The Onion. But this is Alberta Premier Danielle Smith, so who can say whether it’s REALLY satire?)
(The Beaverton is basically Canada’s The Onion. But this is Alberta Premier Danielle Smith, so who can say whether it’s REALLY satire?)
Alberta government to ban the number 58,008 in schools
CALGARY — With the province's teachers on strike, Danielle Smith’s UCP government has tabled new legislation banning the use of the number 58,008, in order to “protect Alberta’s most precious resource...
www.thebeaverton.com
October 7, 2025 at 5:36 PM
“According to one source, the other side already has a counter attack waiting in the wings: the number 5,318,008.” 😆
(The Beaverton is basically Canada’s The Onion. But this is Alberta Premier Danielle Smith, so who can say whether it’s REALLY satire?)
(The Beaverton is basically Canada’s The Onion. But this is Alberta Premier Danielle Smith, so who can say whether it’s REALLY satire?)
I love glass sex toys! Don’t worry, they’re *way* safer than they sound. 🙂 This ribbed one from Gläs is beautiful, affordable, and a great option for exploring if you’re new to this idea.
(They’re very difficult to photograph, though… it looks nicer in person. 😅)
t4toy.com/reviews/glas...
(They’re very difficult to photograph, though… it looks nicer in person. 😅)
t4toy.com/reviews/glas...
Gläs Purple Rain review - t4toy.com
Glass is a fantastic material for sex toys, but is this one a good choice? The ribbed texture won’t be to everyone’s liking, but it’s an affordable way to try it out!
t4toy.com
October 7, 2025 at 5:23 PM
I love glass sex toys! Don’t worry, they’re *way* safer than they sound. 🙂 This ribbed one from Gläs is beautiful, affordable, and a great option for exploring if you’re new to this idea.
(They’re very difficult to photograph, though… it looks nicer in person. 😅)
t4toy.com/reviews/glas...
(They’re very difficult to photograph, though… it looks nicer in person. 😅)
t4toy.com/reviews/glas...
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Discord's customer service system was compromised, including age verification data.
This is exactly one of the reasons why we don't want age verification by government ID to access online adult spaces.
discord.com/press-releas...
This is exactly one of the reasons why we don't want age verification by government ID to access online adult spaces.
discord.com/press-releas...
October 4, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Discord's customer service system was compromised, including age verification data.
This is exactly one of the reasons why we don't want age verification by government ID to access online adult spaces.
discord.com/press-releas...
This is exactly one of the reasons why we don't want age verification by government ID to access online adult spaces.
discord.com/press-releas...
“If I had to restart my sex toy collection, I'd go straight for the Crave Duet Classic above all other mini-vibes … how often do you see this deep penetration princess this excited about an external vibrator?”
Wow, that is HUGE praise from Cyra @supersmashcache.com! I need to check it out myself! 😁
Wow, that is HUGE praise from Cyra @supersmashcache.com! I need to check it out myself! 😁
Review: 5 Reasons Crave's Duet Vibrator Is Perfect for Me - Super Smash Cache
Meet the Crave Duet, the two-pronged, totally cordless clitoral vibrator that ruined hundreds of other micro massagers for this sex toy reviewer.
supersmashcache.com
October 3, 2025 at 8:31 PM
“If I had to restart my sex toy collection, I'd go straight for the Crave Duet Classic above all other mini-vibes … how often do you see this deep penetration princess this excited about an external vibrator?”
Wow, that is HUGE praise from Cyra @supersmashcache.com! I need to check it out myself! 😁
Wow, that is HUGE praise from Cyra @supersmashcache.com! I need to check it out myself! 😁
Being brave and finally trying to accept that Satisfyer isn’t going to get their shit together any time soon (if ever) regarding Fun Factory. I moved three of their truly fantastic toys from my Top Picks into a new “Top Picks Emeritus” list. 😢
t4toy.com/more/tags/to...
t4toy.com/more/tags/to...
October 2, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Being brave and finally trying to accept that Satisfyer isn’t going to get their shit together any time soon (if ever) regarding Fun Factory. I moved three of their truly fantastic toys from my Top Picks into a new “Top Picks Emeritus” list. 😢
t4toy.com/more/tags/to...
t4toy.com/more/tags/to...
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October is finally here! It’s t4toy’s first anniversary, and it’s also when — at long last — I get to start talking about “my 18 year old pussy” despite being in my 40s. 😂🏳️⚧️
October is here!! - t4toy.com
It’s October 2025 — t4toy’s first anniversary! Thank you to all the readers who make this worthwhile. There’s also something else I’m celebrating this month…!
t4toy.com
October 1, 2025 at 8:50 PM
October is finally here! It’s t4toy’s first anniversary, and it’s also when — at long last — I get to start talking about “my 18 year old pussy” despite being in my 40s. 😂🏳️⚧️
October is finally here! It’s t4toy’s first anniversary, and it’s also when — at long last — I get to start talking about “my 18 year old pussy” despite being in my 40s. 😂🏳️⚧️
October is here!! - t4toy.com
It’s October 2025 — t4toy’s first anniversary! Thank you to all the readers who make this worthwhile. There’s also something else I’m celebrating this month…!
t4toy.com
October 1, 2025 at 8:50 PM
October is finally here! It’s t4toy’s first anniversary, and it’s also when — at long last — I get to start talking about “my 18 year old pussy” despite being in my 40s. 😂🏳️⚧️
Image alt-text is crucial for some users so I’ve been providing it from the start, but I realized it could _also_ be useful to a lot of sighted readers… so with a little JS magic, it’s now magically showing up as captions underneath in-article images on t4toy.com 😁
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curb_cu...
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curb_cu...
September 29, 2025 at 10:57 PM
Image alt-text is crucial for some users so I’ve been providing it from the start, but I realized it could _also_ be useful to a lot of sighted readers… so with a little JS magic, it’s now magically showing up as captions underneath in-article images on t4toy.com 😁
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curb_cu...
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curb_cu...
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Masturbation isn't a substitute for partnered sex; it's a vital practice of self-love and understanding your own body. It's fundamental.
September 29, 2025 at 5:04 PM
Masturbation isn't a substitute for partnered sex; it's a vital practice of self-love and understanding your own body. It's fundamental.
I wouldn’t go *that* far, but it’s indeed pretty quiet for an air-stim toy. And it’s definitely my favourite of the premium air-stim toys! (People often call them “clit suckers” but they don’t use actual suction.)
t4toy.com/reviews/woma...
t4toy.com/reviews/woma...
September 26, 2025 at 11:40 PM
I wouldn’t go *that* far, but it’s indeed pretty quiet for an air-stim toy. And it’s definitely my favourite of the premium air-stim toys! (People often call them “clit suckers” but they don’t use actual suction.)
t4toy.com/reviews/woma...
t4toy.com/reviews/woma...
Shit. Rest in power, Assata. ✊
I’m sad you’re gone, but grateful it’s of apparently natural causes. You shined so much light on so many of the ugly truths so many of us white people didn’t (and still don’t) want to acknowledge.
I’m sad you’re gone, but grateful it’s of apparently natural causes. You shined so much light on so many of the ugly truths so many of us white people didn’t (and still don’t) want to acknowledge.
Assata Shakur, the Black Liberationist convicted of killing a New Jersey state trooper, who was also Tupac Shakur’s godmother, has died.
Assata Shakur, Convicted Black Liberationist and Tupac's Godmother, Dead at 78
Assata Shakur, the famous Black liberationist convicted a killing a state trooper, who later escaped to Cuba, has died at the age of 78.
www.rollingstone.com
September 26, 2025 at 9:20 PM
Shit. Rest in power, Assata. ✊
I’m sad you’re gone, but grateful it’s of apparently natural causes. You shined so much light on so many of the ugly truths so many of us white people didn’t (and still don’t) want to acknowledge.
I’m sad you’re gone, but grateful it’s of apparently natural causes. You shined so much light on so many of the ugly truths so many of us white people didn’t (and still don’t) want to acknowledge.
Lovense is working on a new AI feature for their app to supposedly “help couples decode the sounds of passion in bed … and turn it into clear, actionable feedback you can actually use.”
What could *possibly* go wrong??? 🙄 Here, let me answer that for you:
t4toy.com/essays/loven...
What could *possibly* go wrong??? 🙄 Here, let me answer that for you:
t4toy.com/essays/loven...
Lovense, AI, and fake orgasms - t4toy.com
An upcoming AI feature in the app purports to translate moans during sex into actionable, plain-language advice. What could possibly go wrong? A lot, actually…
t4toy.com
September 26, 2025 at 9:12 PM
Lovense is working on a new AI feature for their app to supposedly “help couples decode the sounds of passion in bed … and turn it into clear, actionable feedback you can actually use.”
What could *possibly* go wrong??? 🙄 Here, let me answer that for you:
t4toy.com/essays/loven...
What could *possibly* go wrong??? 🙄 Here, let me answer that for you:
t4toy.com/essays/loven...